The R Family

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chazzlechuzzle said:
The frightfully awful thumbnail and the spelling errors in the title of the Temu video - is she OK?
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At the risk of being shot down. I don’t think she’s coping very well, everything she does mentions Dave, i think he liked her looking a certain way hence the Botox, i really am
Worried for this lady, she comes across rough and ready but i can’t imagine going through and still standing with the greif she must be feeling, i think she’s trying to front it out but I genuinely feel sad for her
 
Shazza D said:
At the risk of being shot down. I don’t think she’s coping very well, everything she does mentions Dave, i think he liked her looking a certain way hence the Botox, i really am
Worried for this lady, she comes across rough and ready but i can’t imagine going through and still standing with the greif she must be feeling, i think she’s trying to front it out but I genuinely feel sad for her
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Yes it’s very sad she’s lost her husband but millions lose partners every day but they don’t feel the need to broadcast everything on social media, and to show photos of her dead husband is macabre in my opinion. She should have come off YouTube immediately and given herself time to grieve in private.
 
Shazza D said:
At the risk of being shot down. I don’t think she’s coping very well, everything she does mentions Dave, i think he liked her looking a certain way hence the Botox, i really am
Worried for this lady, she comes across rough and ready but i can’t imagine going through and still standing with the greif she must be feeling, i think she’s trying to front it out but I genuinely feel sad for her
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She's obviously not coping at all. Her older girls have been parentified to duck. They're doing all the hard yeards with the youngest kids while the middle ones are left to their own devices to get on with it. She's splashed all the cash she raised supposedly to bury her husband on Botox and Blackpool fun pier with some ran dom bloke in tow. She's so focussed on her own grief she's given the children neither the sapce and privacy they need to grieve nor any kind of maternal support and guidance on how to do so.

Nobody envies her the position she is in but that doesn't mean she isn't culpable as duck for the mess she's in now. Who the hell has a dozen kids and no life insurance for a start?
 
Porsha seems to hold things together a lot of the time and yet Sarah always makes a snide remark on the videos along the lines of "Porsha pretending to be a good sister" or something when the girl clearly helps a LOT and took over the role of husband for the arrival of Orlanda just days after losing her own father.... I hope she is given the right support and space to grieve herself.

As an aside, I feel terribly sad that tacky TEMU decorations are following Dave to his grave.
 
Tilly Kister said:
She's obviously not coping at all. Her older girls have been parentified to duck. They're doing all the hard yeards with the youngest kids while the middle ones are left to their own devices to get on with it. She's splashed all the cash she raised supposedly to bury her husband on Botox and Blackpool fun pier with some ran dom bloke in tow. She's so focussed on her own grief she's given the children neither the sapce and privacy they need to grieve nor any kind of maternal support and guidance on how to do so.

Nobody envies her the position she is in but that doesn't mean she isn't culpable as duck for the mess she's in now. Who the hell has a dozen kids and no life insurance for a start?
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Can’t really argue when you put it like that
 
Shazza D said:
At the risk of being shot down. I don’t think she’s coping very well, everything she does mentions Dave, i think he liked her looking a certain way hence the Botox, i really am
Worried for this lady, she comes across rough and ready but i can’t imagine going through and still standing with the greif she must be feeling, i think she’s trying to front it out but I genuinely feel sad for her
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I can’t imagine having to give birth days after your husband died! I do agree the older girls are taking on a lot, but my heart genuinely goes out to Sarah as imo she’s struggling and as much as she shows a tough face i think she’s struggling and on autopilot
 
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The shameless cow.
 
Watched latest video!.
She said they weren't going to have a funeral and that Dave was going to be cremated!
Wonder why it changed to a full on funeral with burial!
 
Kate1970 said:
Watched latest video!.
She said they weren't going to have a funeral and that Dave was going to be cremated!
Wonder why it changed to a full on funeral with burial!
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They showed the funeral once already on the day it happened. Which I think was the 4th of September. This is just some B roll footage of that to milk the pity cup again.
6 weeks later.
 
Kate1970 said:
Watched latest video!.
She said they weren't going to have a funeral and that Dave was going to be cremated!
Wonder why it changed to a full on funeral with burial!
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I think perhaps that’s what his mum wanted for him, Sarah just wanted the cheapest option! Bet his poor old mum paid for it too. Shes still going on about Florida next year, in your dreams Sarah, you’ll be lucky to get to Blackpool
 
The kids don't need a bleeping holiday. They need privacy in which to grieve their father. They need a mother who isn't yapping into a bleeping video camera about how sad she is. They need family grief counselling, a few homecooked meals and a serious attempt made to institute new ways of being a family. It's much more difficult with just one parent but that's why she needs to be engaging with the extended family. Making sure the kids know that they have grandparents and aunts and uncles they can rely on for emotional support. They share the grief of losing Dave and being with people who comprehend the depth of your grief because they feel it too is one of the only ways to alleviate it.

Posting grief bait so that randoms on bloody YouTube will write "Your so brave pet dont no 'ow you go on" and hopefully sling you a few quid is not therapeutic. It's also not a business plan that's going to feed, clothe, house & educate that tribe of kids she decided to have. She turned uterus into a bleeping clown car in the hopes of forging a stellar media career off exploiting the fruit of her loins with no back-up plan and no life insurance. It's hardly an indication of character is it?

If she tried to step up I'd feel compassion for her but she's so busy wallowing in her own grief she can't see her children are drowning.
 
Jfc she's snagged herself a deal. An air fryer.
Who the duck would want to have their brand associated with this shitshow?

Also I was right about the lack of home cooking.
A quote:
"Ah lichurally doon't use mah ooven. Like ah maht of it's *pause to think* pizzas or soommat"

So she has a dozen kids and what she "lichurally" nevah dooze is cook them a roast dinner with some Yorkies and gravy.

Have a go at how she's spelled collaboration ffs. Thank Christ she's not home schooling.
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Tilly Kister said:
The kids don't need a bleeping holiday. They need privacy in which to grieve their father. They need a mother who isn't yapping into a bleeping video camera about how sad she is. They need family grief counselling, a few homecooked meals and a serious attempt made to institute new ways of being a family. It's much more difficult with just one parent but that's why she needs to be engaging with the extended family. Making sure the kids know that they have grandparents and aunts and uncles they can rely on for emotional support. They share the grief of losing Dave and being with people who comprehend the depth of your grief because they feel it too is one of the only ways to alleviate it.

Posting grief bait so that randoms on bloody YouTube will write "Your so brave pet dont no 'ow you go on" and hopefully sling you a few quid is not therapeutic. It's also not a business plan that's going to feed, clothe, house & educate that tribe of kids she decided to have. She turned uterus into a bleeping clown car in the hopes of forging a stellar media career off exploiting the fruit of her loins with no back-up plan and no life insurance. It's hardly an indication of character is it?
I think I heard Sarah say in a recent video that Lee, think that's her ex, comes and does the school run.

If she tried to step up I'd feel compassion for her but she's so busy wallowing in her own grief she can't see her children are drowning.
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Don't know if they've ever had anything to do with the extended family? They never seemed to mention them?
I know Sarah had some sort of relationship with her sister Davina, but pretty sure they don't now
I heard Sarah mention in her latest video that Lee, think that's her ex, comes and does the school run
She definitely needs some sort of support though
 
Kate1970 said:
Don't know if they've ever had anything to do with the extended family? They never seemed to mention them?
I know Sarah had some sort of relationship with her sister Davina, but pretty sure they don't now
I heard Sarah mention in her latest video that Lee, think that's her ex, comes and does the school run
She definitely needs some sort of support though
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Yes she does need support and lots of it. But let us face facts. If she's estranged from so many members of her own family and his maybe all the flaws were not on their side. Since she is the common thread.

Also many people have drifted away from their extended families. Life gets in the way. DIstance, changing lifestyles, political and or personal differences. But when you have a sudden tragic event it usually brings at least some of those scattered remnants back together. She never mentioned seeing his family in all the torturous wait for his funeral. She barely mentioned them at the funeral or in any of the rambling pity parties she threw herself leading up to it or following it.

I imagine his parents and siblings were quite put off by seeing his dead body flaunted as a fundraising tool. And the unendurable wait to know when and how and where or even if he would be buried. But I cannot imagine that the choice to have no role at all in the lives of his bereaved kids was all down to them - or she'd be bitching about it for likes and views.
 
MrsSlocombe said:
Why was Dave only buried 6 months after he died? Surely by that stage even with embalming and refrigeration his body would be at a serious stage of decomposition?
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Yes we all asked that don't worry. She kept alluding to some super sekritty investigation into the manner of his death and very much implied she was suing someone. Slagged off the Paramedics and the docs and generally speaking told no one anything which shone even a dim light on what she was rabbiting on about.
 
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