The Nurse Mum #15 not to be confused with Distracting Kaytee

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I don’t think he died due to a medical error. She’d be all over compensation and shouting it from the rooftops. He died unfortunately from a multitude of health complications, which is terribly sad.
But the sad reality is also life goes on, it’s changed and will never be the same but strangers will forget Jaxon. He wasn’t their child, he was an instagram puppet. She either needs to help herself, or get off instagram. Her moment using him as a puppet has gone.
She doesn’t hold down friendships, relationships or jobs because she’s a walking liar. It’s always anyone else’s fault, never hers. She has the funds to pay for therapy, stop being entitled and pay for it.
 
lucylucyapplejuicy said:
I can kind of (very kind of) understand that, if Jaxon’s death was due to an NHS mistake. I’d feel like I was ‘owed’ it, maybe. But I’ve been in a similar state to her, for a very different reason, and I self funded. If I’d waited, I’d be dead.
I don’t think she has anyone ‘grown up’ in her life who can say ‘Come on love, let’s get you into therapy’. Am I right in remembering she was having trauma therapy but stopped because it was too hard?
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I do remember her implying it was a mistake but if it had been, you better believe we would have known every detail. I think until she had the meeting with the Consultant she was pushing it but that could have been to deflect from any guilt she felt (over discharging him from hospital so she could celebrate her birthday - if I remember correctly that was not long before Jaxon died but happy to be corrected if I’ve got that wrong).

I wonder if she was entitled to some therapy sessions either due to the nature of her loss but there are lots of people sadly who have been through the same and I doubt any NHS Trust could leave it open ended.

I will always sympathise about Jaxon’s death but I do think there’s more she could do to help herself. I’ve said it here before, she strikes me as someone hard to help because she won’t be told anything. I hope that changes over time
 
I agree. Whilst I can understand how devastating the death of child would be, I do not believe she's as traumatised about it as she makes out. I just don't. She's proved herself a liar and an attention seeker many times before.

I think part of her liked being the mother of a seriously ill child and now she likes being the bereaved mother of a seriously ill child. She's had opportunities to have therapy since he died (and like others have pointed out, she could also pay for it) but there's always an excuse or reason why she can't go, or she'll claim it didn't work or wasn't right for her for some reason. She doesn't want to have therapy because she doesn't want to have to get 'better'. Because she's made this her whole personality.

Whilst I'm sure there are people out there with complex and severe grief and trauma, I just don't believe she's one of them.
 
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Everything about her and the multiple profiles is is for attention, on one she’s a bereaved mother on the other she’s fun loving single and distracting herself. When j was alive there was always a drama, it was never about enjoying time with Jacob it was about trying g to become an influencer, we’ve gone from fighting for extra carer hours because she doesn’t see why she as his mother should also care for him to asking for employer legal advise (which was quickly deleted)

If Kathleen had a simple life it wouldn’t be enough she would always want more, her personality is what is the problem.

Just to add - who gets ready and does their makeup in the car before the gym etc? Nothing about her is real or normal
 
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