The Ingham Family #346 Sarah is a hippo-crit! Creepy is just a big tit!

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When I was younger a lot drank for clout because they thought it was cool 😎
My parents weren’t drinkers but they’d have a bottle of wine when friends came over or if they were hosting a party there would be a lot more drinks about and we would have a can or a glass of wine as teens but alcohol tasted yuk and because it wasn’t made out to be anything cool or unusual with everyone being really chill then it lost its appeal and I hardly drink at all as an adult.
 
Chetin said:
I understand not making it taboo, but I also think it shouldn't be as widely accepted. I had great times and awful times drinking. My dad died last year at 49 because of alcohol - he died slowly over two years. So I'm probably biased. But it seems sad that they needed a drink to enjoy time together? And that so many people feel the same way, if you need alcohol to have fun there is something wrong and could lead to reliance. I think open discussion is great and A drink every now and again with food is OK, but drinking before the best night of the year (for them) is sad and shouldn't be needed.
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I can see Izzy turning to drink when she’s about older or even now drinking out of boredom too can happen that’s when problems start.

This 4% thing and drinking a whole crate is wild. It's not cool to abuse alcohol. Yeah we all got drunk with big groups of friends in the mid 2000's camped out and had a blast, but most of us grew out of abusing alcohol im sure. And the ones I know who didn't grow out of it died - are jobless or drug addicts. So no it's not cool or okay to glamorise binge drinking, or really under age drinking. Our minds and body's weren't developed, and my mum sure as tit wasn't drinking to spend time with me and have fun. My dad he was an alcoholic and I didn't see him for the best part of 20 years until he was dying because alcohol ruins lives and families and should be respected.
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Soozy2k18 said:
The radfords daughter was on a tiktok live with friends a few years ago and someone asked if she was friends with any of the inghams and she was laughing saying basically they got forced into having to meet them for an hour at Disneyland Paris during a show and Big Saz invited her for a sleepover with the girls and they had only just met 😂 the kid was laughing 😂
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Just shows how the girls don’t have friends!
 
Charlotte1993 said:
When I was younger a lot drank for clout because they thought it was cool 😎
My parents weren’t drinkers but they’d have a bottle of wine when friends came over or if they were hosting a party there would be a lot more drinks about and we would have a can or a glass of wine as teens but alcohol tasted yuk and because it wasn’t made out to be anything cool or unusual with everyone being really chill then it lost its appeal and I hardly drink at all as an adult.
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I’ve tried to keep out of this, but I myself dabbled at probably Esme’s age, went on to have 7 sons, and imo it was far better to have them and their mates round on a Friday or Saturday for a sleepover with a few cans of lager with the other parents permission, and the novelty wore off and was more, gaming, later on decks and music, but my point is all kids will try and imo it’s better to take the novelty away, all mine grown and no alcohol issues, but isobelle especially is still at that naughty ( shouldn’t be doing it stage, where in actual fact she should be out with mates doing what she wants! And that doesn’t mean necessarily drinking, those kids are going to be dragged off somewhere now and isobelle is going to think that broom cupboard in Dubai was a palace! It’s sad on so many levels for all those kids
 
Shazza D said:
I’ve tried to keep out of this, but I myself dabbled at probably Esme’s age, went on to have 7 sons, and imo it was far better to have them and their mates round on a Friday or Saturday for a sleepover with a few cans of lager with the other parents permission, and the novelty wore off and was more, gaming, later on decks and music, but my point is all kids will try and imo it’s better to take the novelty away, all mine grown and no alcohol issues, but isobelle especially is still at that naughty ( shouldn’t be doing it stage, where in actual fact she should be out with mates doing what she wants! And that doesn’t mean necessarily drinking, those kids are going to be dragged off somewhere now and isobelle is going to think that broom cupboard in Dubai was a palace! It’s sad on so many levels for all those kids
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Exactly....tbh I would never blink looking them cans in the room because there is 2 adults legal there and I wouldn't batter an eyelid for esme to have one.
Evan if lazy was BF one wouldn't hurt not at Rodney's age (a bottle of vodka yes 1 can at 4% no) I remember having a glass of wine a couple if times (I BF for 4 years)
I know alot of people don't like that at all but it's really not worth picking the inghams apart about
 
yazoo21 said:
I think she definitely has adhd!!!
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People say you shouldn't diagnose anyone on the internet but when you put your life online it's always been clear as day to me that Chris has ADHD and not surprisingly Esme might possibly as well. Absolutely nothing wrong or to be ashamed of in having ADHD but give her the tools to thrive, because she can

I think this is where Jane and Steve have something to answer for because it seems that Chrish never had any sort of diagnosis and in turn Sarah and Chris have always looked at outside support for their children as negative/ criticism of them. Back in the early days, Sarah chose to share quite graphically on vlogs some of the struggles Esme was having that would've been of interest to a school psychologist/Sen support (instead of the f*cking Ifam), but then she was taken out of school and nothing has been done to give her any sort of help moving forwards, she's just in a weird Ingham bubble that gives her zero life skills.
 
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xxme2uxx said:
Exactly....tbh I would never blink looking them cans in the room because there is 2 adults legal there and I wouldn't batter an eyelid for esme to have one.
Evan if lazy was BF one wouldn't hurt not at Rodney's age (a bottle of vodka yes 1 can at 4% no) I remember having a glass of wine a couple if times (I BF for 4 years)
I know alot of people don't like that at all but it's really not worth picking the inghams apart about
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Im really old! lol my first baby was in 1979 and because of complications I had to spend 3 months in hospital ! I didn’t even drink then at all, but we were encouraged to drink Guinness! To boost our iron ! lol 😂 unbelievable but true! And that’s not really that long back
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Shazza D said:
Im really old! lol my first baby was in 1979 and because of complications I had to spend 3 months in hospital ! I didn’t even drink then at all, but we were encouraged to drink Guinness! To boost our iron ! lol 😂 unbelievable but true! And that’s not really that long back
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ETA ? I declined! lol not through knowledge or morality, i just thought and still do to this day it smells gross! But thats just my opinion
 
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Shazza D said:
I’ve tried to keep out of this, but I myself dabbled at probably Esme’s age, went on to have 7 sons, and imo it was far better to have them and their mates round on a Friday or Saturday for a sleepover with a few cans of lager with the other parents permission, and the novelty wore off and was more, gaming, later on decks and music, but my point is all kids will try and imo it’s better to take the novelty away, all mine grown and no alcohol issues, but isobelle especially is still at that naughty ( shouldn’t be doing it stage, where in actual fact she should be out with mates doing what she wants! And that doesn’t mean necessarily drinking, those kids are going to be dragged off somewhere now and isobelle is going to think that broom cupboard in Dubai was a palace! It’s sad on so many levels for all those kids
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I grew up with very strict parents who didn't allow me to drink at all before 18, my best friend had really relaxed parents who were happy for her to have few wkds/smirnoff ices etc.
Most weekends we were both paralytic in a field. I don't think you can control it either way.
 
Sadie0801 said:
I grew up with very strict parents who didn't allow me to drink at all before 18, my best friend had really relaxed parents who were happy for her to have few wkds/smirnoff ices etc.
Most weekends we were both paralytic in a field. I don't think you can control it either way.
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Well said! You can do your best but kids will be kids ! Unless you’re an ingham and living the cult life poor little sods, they irritate me especially Esme, but they don’t know anything different, she genuinely thinks she’s famous! She is! But because of her bloody weird dad! He is certainly laying low atm!
 
Shazza D said:
Im really old! lol my first baby was in 1979 and because of complications I had to spend 3 months in hospital ! I didn’t even drink then at all, but we were encouraged to drink Guinness! To boost our iron ! lol 😂 unbelievable but true! And that’s not really that long back
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ETA ? I declined! lol not through knowledge or morality, i just thought and still do to this day it smells gross! But thats just my opinion
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Had forgotten that. I was in hospital on bed rest for three months before my eldest was born in 1980. Mums to be were encouraged to have guiness every now get. We were also given a sleeping bag tablet. Fast forward to my hysterectomy in 1990 (a private hospital) my consultant insisted his ladies had two glasses of red wine each evening to ‘build them up’. He would occasionally join you for a glass if you had a particularly good bottle. It sounds ludicrous now.
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Priority education said:
Had forgotten that. I was in hospital on bed rest for three months before my eldest was born in 1980. Mums to be were encouraged to have guiness every now get. We were also given a sleeping bag tablet. Fast forward to my hysterectomy in 1990 (a private hospital) my consultant insisted his ladies had two glasses of red wine each evening to ‘build them up’. He would occasionally join you for a glass if you had a particularly good bottle. It sounds ludicrous now.
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Apologies folks. Guiness ‘every night’ and ‘sleeping tablet’. The memories must be making me squiffy. It can’t possibly be tonight’s gin 🥂
 
Priority education said:
Had forgotten that. I was in hospital on bed rest for three months before my eldest was born in 1980. Mums to be were encouraged to have guiness every now get. We were also given a sleeping bag tablet. Fast forward to my hysterectomy in 1990 (a private hospital) my consultant insisted his ladies had two glasses of red wine each evening to ‘build them up’. He would occasionally join you for a glass if you had a particularly good bottle. It sounds ludicrous now.
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Apologies folks. Guiness ‘every night’ and ‘sleeping tablet’. The memories must be making me squiffy. It can’t possibly be tonight’s gin 🥂
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@Priority education ! ❤️ you always make me smile Xx love to him upstairs and all your fur babies x
 
My daughter turns 17 in a few weeks she was the oldest in her class.
She passed 8 GCSEs today passed all but 1

I havnt seen her since 9am this morning.
She rang me with the results then met up woth her boyfriend then straight on to her friends and stopping there ...I have no doubt she's celebrating and having a drink prob a bottle of prosecco between them ...I don't mind she's worked god dam hard so if a couple of glasses of wine helps her relax or party with her friends she can ...I just have to remind her I trust her and she needs to be at collage 11am to hand in her results and I'm here no questions asked if she needs me 😛 don't get me wrong I would love to do an ingham and keep my daughter home 24/7 and control her but she won't know how to be an adult if I don't give her the chance and in 12 short months she will be
 
Priority education said:
Had forgotten that. I was in hospital on bed rest for three months before my eldest was born in 1980. Mums to be were encouraged to have guiness every now get. We were also given a sleeping bag tablet. Fast forward to my hysterectomy in 1990 (a private hospital) my consultant insisted his ladies had two glasses of red wine each evening to ‘build them up’. He would occasionally join you for a glass if you had a particularly good bottle. It sounds ludicrous now.
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Apologies folks. Guiness ‘every night’ and ‘sleeping tablet’. The memories must be making me squiffy. It can’t possibly be tonight’s gin 🥂
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I remember my mum telling me about a male relative in hospital years ago he had a pack of woodbines in his pj pocket and they had a smoking room just off the ward can you imagine 🤣
 
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