Hi, I’m not sure this is the right thread but my partner told me his brother (34) who I’ve found a bit odd anyway, is now dating a 19 year old. This really creeped me out but even more so once I saw a picture of her as she didn’t even look 19 to me, she looked like a child. Me being me, I did a lot of digging and found out she’s actually 16, so he’s more than double her age. My partner told their mum who obviously didn’t take the news well and asked the brother to meet her asap. She told him what I’d found and said she was going to tell the girl’s mum. He was fuming and lost it with his mum, he’s always had anger issues and clearly doesn’t think straight. He should be cutting ties and thanking us for doing the work he should’ve, not that he should be with what he thought was a 19 year old anyway. He even threatened to kill their family dog if she did
I said this is a police matter now with this threat but my partner discouraged me. I feel like everyone walks on egg shells with him as they’re pretty intimidated, myself included, so she wants to wait a bit to tell her mum as apparently he has evidence that she’s not 16. I’m thinking he doesn’t as they both could clear this up straight away and I think the fact he thinks being with a 19 year old is okay to rings alarm bells. I think he’s known she’s 16 all along. His mum cut ties with him and he accepted this which screams guilty to me, he’s chosen this child over his own family. Should I message the girls’ parents myself? Just a bit worried of the repercussions as he’s clearly a psychopath but I have daughters myself and I’d want someone to reach out to me with this info if they knew. My partner, understandably, doesn’t want me talking to people I know about this for advice so I thought this could be a good idea.