Teen Mum Young & Pregnant #27

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LilToes said:
she’s just as bad, she does balloons etc. I do not understand the mentality of some of the commenters on TMG saying it’s normal and nearly everyone does drugs. It’s not normal it’s an addiction that can and will destroy peoples lives! Also seen one dumb dumb saying ‘so many people take drugs these days, that’s not enough to remove a child’ like duck it isn’t! Children should NOT be around anyone taking drugs whether it’s the parents or not!! Some of the kids on that page need to give their head a wobble
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I’ve saw that comment! Absolutely ridiculous. More like Harlow is at risk of emotional abuse IMO.
 
Some of those people need to take a look at themselves. The people saying it’s fine because they dont do it around Harlow.. Even if you aren’t doing class A drugs with Your kid sat on your lap, it will still affect your ability to be a good parent, I don’t care what those sheep say. The people that think it’s normal have obviously either been bought up with drugs around or do it themselves and think that because they do it, it’s fine. In reality, it really is not ok. even being in that kind of scene with drug dealers is dangerous for Harlow. I can’t stand people who stick up for everything Charlie/Brett do. They’re awful parents.
 
I mean I took drugs before I had kids, I hung around a similar 'rave' type scene that Brett enjoys so its not a surprise to me. Es, were big back then and most people on the scene took them.

There was a clip on the show that looked like Charlie was more jealous that Brett was out 'partying' and taking stuff than simply enjoying time with friends that made me think then she enjoys drugs too.

Once I became a parent apart from the odd spliff (I don't even do that now) I haven't taken anything, I remember been offered coke by a mates bloke at their kids christening when my son was tiny and it was the last thing I wanted and was shocked they were doing it, it was probably one of the first times I'd been in a situation and said no... because I didn't want it.

Having a child for most people changes their priority and makes them grow up and re evaluate things but sadly its not the same for everyone.

I agree Brett is acting like a dick and needs to get his life sorted but I don't honestly think it would do Harlow any good for Charlie to keep her away from him as she is just as bad, if not worse with her nasty toxicity to boot.
 
Wish Jane was still adressing things on social media for Brest like Donna does for Charlotte, what would she say about this I wonder?

I can see Brett going down a very dark path soon. Maybe he's already on it hence the compete disregard for his daughter and posting it all on Instagram like he's the main man. I'd be absolutely livid if I was Charlie. Tbf at least Charlie is keeping her drama offsocial media lately and Oliver seems to have calmed her down, I can't imagine he will be in to that sort of stuff with his job. Hopefully they have wised up and Harlow can have some sort of stable home with one of her parents.
 
Georgethecat said:
Wish Jane was still adressing things on social media for Brest like Donna does for Charlotte, what would she say about this I wonder?

I can see Brett going down a very dark path soon. Maybe he's already on it hence the compete disregard for his daughter and posting it all on Instagram like he's the main man. I'd be absolutely livid if I was Charlie. Tbf at least Charlie is keeping her drama offsocial media lately and Oliver seems to have calmed her down, I can't imagine he will be in to that sort of stuff with his job. Hopefully they have wised up and Harlow can have some sort of stable home with one of her parents.
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I think Jane is the only one who could provide Harlow with stability and would put her before anything else.

Charlie will slowly drag her drama through SM again soon enough and Oliver won’t have changed just because they are keeping things more private lately. Charlie and Oli aired too much of their dirty laundry already to show how toxic they are together and apart. Let’s not forget everything that Charlie has done in the last 12months.

Brett has just gone below the belt posting photos of his drugs etc hours after Harlow has left his house. He seems to be on a downward spiral lately and he needs to get help for himself before he looses everything. I’m sure his employers also wouldn’t want him being high or on a come down because of his drug use while in work.
 
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That comment seriously what goes on In these young peoples heads. Brett is her dad stop chatting crap that Harlow only needs her and Oliver. I think Brett has been a knob lately but these girls that kiss Charlie’s ass have they forgotten the tit she’s done. Balloons, crashing cars into her house, introducing all these blokes to Harlow not wanting to know or collect Harlow when she needed a safe place to sleep. Charlie knows Brett does drugs (if it’s even true) but still told him he had to have Harlow 50-50 just because that picture has been posted of the bag don’t come over all innocent chodderz
 
hellohellohi said:
Some of those people need to take a look at themselves. The people saying it’s fine because they dont do it around Harlow.. Even if you aren’t doing class A drugs with Your kid sat on your lap, it will still affect your ability to be a good parent, I don’t care what those sheep say. The people that think it’s normal have obviously either been bought up with drugs around or do it themselves and think that because they do it, it’s fine. In reality, it really is not ok. even being in that kind of scene with drug dealers is dangerous for Harlow. I can’t stand people who stick up for everything Charlie/Brett do. They’re awful parents.
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I’ve been brought up around parents that were addicted to drugs and I 100% wouldn’t support anyone taking drugs ether around there child or not. I don’t see drugs as normal at all, it slowly takes the parent and changed them into someone completely different to who the child knows. My mum was addicted until she met someone that was violent towards her, she started taking drugs with him to try and escape the pain she had to experience from the nightly beatings and the person she was with robbing off her. My dad went on and got addicted to help him cope with the heartbreak he experienced with the break up with my mum.
So the stereotyping of kids being brought up with it and seeing it as normal, I find it as an insult. Even though both parents were addicted I don’t find it normal. I’ve been offered drugs on nights out and always decline it and none of my friends take it. Both parents even preached to me, to never take drugs and that they are bad, even encouraged me to better my life and go to uni and get a career.
So please don’t brush all kids who had addict parents with the same brush.
 
Blondeangel2515 said:
I’ve been brought up around parents that were addicted to drugs and I 100% wouldn’t support anyone taking drugs ether around there child or not. I don’t see drugs as normal at all, it slowly takes the parent and changed them into someone completely different to who the child knows. My mum was addicted until she met someone that was violent towards her, she started taking drugs with him to try and escape the pain she had to experience from the nightly beatings and the person she was with robbing off her. My dad went on and got addicted to help him cope with the heartbreak he experienced with the break up with my mum.
So the stereotyping of kids being brought up with it and seeing it as normal, I find it as an insult. Even though both parents were addicted I don’t find it normal. I’ve been offered drugs on nights out and always decline it and none of my friends take it. Both parents even preached to me, to never take drugs and that they are bad, even encouraged me to better my life and go to uni and get a career.
So please don’t brush all kids who had addict parents with the same brush.
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I’m sorry you’ve got offended but I never said all kids who have been bought up with drugs would do it. But the only people that would be supporting it is people who have been raised with it and find it normal or do it now. (I know a lot of kids still won’t find it normal but a lot of people are a product of their environment)
I had a sister who was addicted to heroin and i also don’t see it as normal. So sorry if you took it that way but I obviously did not mean every child who’s been raised that environment. But i do know people who do drugs because their family have done drugs. It’s down to the individual family and their situation though. I also see it the other way and know some people will not touch drugs as they’ve seen what it does to their relatives who’ve they watched waste away. Same as me. I will not touch the stuff, it ruined my sisters live and my parents struggled trying to fix her when it was clearly not going to help.

I’m also sorry what happened to you and your parents and I can see the way I worded it may have come across as I meant everyone who’s raised with drugs find it normal. But of course I definitely do not believe that. It would be illogical. Same as being raised by abusers wouldn’t make you an abuser.
 
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I'm in the minority here it seems but if Harlow isn't there I don't see the issue. Some folk get steaming drunk when their kid isn't there, some smoke weed, some take drugs. So long as they are a capable parent when they do have their kid that's what matters.

My opinion on him is that he is extremely irritating but that's nothing to do with his recreational drug use. Couldn't care less about that. Yes some people spiral out of control on it but the same can be said about alcohol.
 
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