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Isn’t it up to the parents though? Or do you think it was arranged by someone impartial?
Mostly in court its every second weekend to the dad. But they probably just arranged it between themselves. It will work for them especially if he works during the week as well . The way its seen is they both need a weekend for quality time as when the children start school it wouldn't be fair for one parent to have every weekend.
And if he works weekdays wouldnt be suitable either
 
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I will be the same when I have a child. I want to stay working but childcare will take up 90% of my wages. Then to add the living expenses on top, it’s just unliveable for me. I will work 16 hours. I will go back full time once our kid is at school. I would certainly go back and not claim if childcare was less expensive and unlike others, I don’t believe that having a family should be exclusive to middle class and above (for the “don’t have a child if you can’t afford it” brigade).
I have literally just had this issue, I had 2 jobs and have had to give up my 2nd one which is one I do for the love of it but it was literally just paying the childcare for it! So am now just working my 18 hours job!
 
I know Re-Anne and Dylan are in London atm, but Essex and London are both tier 4 so don’t think they’ve broken any rules really, apart from the advice of leaving your area? It’s nice they’ve got time together tbh.. Megan must actually have her kids for once 😂
Yeah I get they are going between tier 4 areas but confused how they are allowed to stay in a hotel? I'm pretty sure they are only open for people who need to stay over for work or any other essential reasons.

I have friends who booked a hotel to visit family over Christmas but it got cancelled when they stopped the 5 days mixing and changed the tiers.
 
Yeah I get they are going between tier 4 areas but confused how they are allowed to stay in a hotel? I'm pretty sure they are only open for people who need to stay over for work or any other essential reasons.

I have friends who booked a hotel to visit family over Christmas but it got cancelled when they stopped the 5 days mixing and changed the tiers.
Yeah not sure what’s happened there either 😂 I thought even in tier 3 the hotels were closed? The rules are so confusing so I can’t keep up 😂
 
Same 😂 Its not like there is anything for them to do in tier 4 as well , up to them how they spend it but waste of money in my opinion
Waste of money in my eyes too, but then again can’t really say nothing as all the Z listers are in Dubai acting reckless at the min, so Dylan and reanne going to London for a night away seems quite tame 😂 they have 5 kids all the time, so I’m sure they were just glad for a night away lol their flat must be chaos at all times 😂 don’t envy them at all
 
Hotels in tier 4 are closed. I was meant to stay in one for NYE but it got cancelled as we went into tier 4 on Boxing Day. I’m not sure how they’re staying in one. I thought you could only stay in one if required for work or essential purposes. 🤷🏽‍♀️
 
I know Re-Anne and Dylan are in London atm, but Essex and London are both tier 4 so don’t think they’ve broken any rules really, apart from the advice of leaving your area? It’s nice they’ve got time together tbh.. Megan must actually have her kids for once 😂
Not being rude but how do we know when Megan has the kids or Dylan and Ree have them?😂
 
Hotels in tier 4 are closed. I was meant to stay in one for NYE but it got cancelled as we went into tier 4 on Boxing Day. I’m not sure how they’re staying in one. I thought you could only stay in one if required for work or essential purposes. 🤷🏽‍♀️

she said on a comment it was for Dylan’s work 🥴 apparently had to fill out loads of form 🙄
 
Might be late to the game with this one but when I got a fringe put in my little girl (wasn’t even her first haircut) I sent her dad a quick text to let him know I was doing it! It’s called co parenting and having respect for the other parent!! I get the hair will grow back but it’s not really the point is it he’s done it behind her back and not to mention done it him self! Why!! I find that so disrespectful!
 
Waste of money in my eyes too, but then again can’t really say nothing as all the Z listers are in Dubai acting reckless at the min, so Dylan and reanne going to London for a night away seems quite tame 😂 they have 5 kids all the time, so I’m sure they were just glad for a night away lol their flat must be chaos at all times 😂 don’t envy them at all

Oh yeah nothing against them actually going away just mean nothing to do so I would be happy chilling at home without the kids but each to their own. Yeah don't envy them either, I get stressed in a small house never mind flat 😆
 
Think I’ll agree to disagree, I’d never wind my baby that hard there’s no need for it at all and I’ve never seen a midwife burp that hard either so I still stand by lazy parenting tbh 🤣

you’re actually told in hospital to do gentle circles and pat not rub them so hard you’ll reach their bone but ok 🙂

I think if I did that in hospital my baby would have been taken off me.There is loads of techniques for bringing wind up that don’t involve full force body movements on the parents end 🙂
WTH kind of parent shaming post is this ?
I’m sorry but what ? Lazy Parenting ? Winding your baby by rubbing their backs rather than “gentle circles” is NOT “lazy parenting” fgs there’s enough pressure on new parents these days as it is with all these Zlisters/influencers showing off their size 6 figures within days of giving birth and their perfect lives that don’t actually bare any resemblance to normal parenthood without people on here telling someone they’re either lazy or doing something wrong.
You’re way isn’t going to be everyone’s way so please refrain from superiority parenting complex.

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