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Libra2222 said:
I seen! That is prick behaviour!
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It is prick behaviour I agree, I'd expect nothing less from that bellend Charlie, but why not deal with like adults in private? Why the need to go public and air your dirty laundry? I'm she can get her friends and families opinions on this without going to Instagram. Espcially putting a pic of the poor kid saying "it looks awful"
 
misslaurennightingale@yah said:
It is prick behaviour I agree, I'd expect nothing less from that bellend Charlie, but why not deal with like adults in private? Why the need to go public and air your dirty laundry? I'm she can get her friends and families opinions on this without going to Instagram. Espcially putting a pic of the poor kid saying "it looks awful"
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To be honest she’s probably not thinking properly right now because she’s too angry which is why she’s most likely put it on her story.
 
She seems upset about the fact she missed his first haircut but all she has missed is Charlie with pair of scissors.
I am a parent so understand different firsts and milestones but its not like he's gone to the barbers without telling her.
I agree he should have spoke to her especially the fact he's done it himself untrained so I would be more fuming about it being a mess

I looked on his story and its worse on there
 
urghmummybloggers said:
bleeping hell 😂😂😂 Maggies house 100% smells like chip fat and Charlie red
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😂😂😂 hahahah brilliant comment!

re: benefits

can I just say, benefits are not meant for people to live off 😡, they are meant as a stop gap unless u have disabilities etc, I appreciate tho that it is quite difficult to find a job, although I do see lots advertised. This is coming from someone that has worked my ass off from 16yrs old to get anywhere in life with no help from a government (no praise wanted, so I should’ve🙄) pisses me off when people say how bad it was, it’s the parents fault for that, not the system. It’s not meant to bring families of 2/4/6 up on, that’s y children go without if their parents are too bone idle to get a job(again, take away the disability side of this)Pretty certain we’d all like to pick our children up from school EVERYDAY etc but we balance that with much greater needs financially. I work with the public, have done for years And I hate to stereo type but that mother who moans that she/they don’t get enough money from the government is also that same one getting her nails/feet/eyebrows done every 10/14days in my shop. Sorry to rant but as I say, being on benefits shouldn’t be a career, just a stop gap in hard times, they are not meant for the newest TVs, sky, mobile phones, gel nails/toes/eyebrows 🙄
 
80hs said:
😂😂😂 hahahah brilliant comment!

re: benefits

can I just say, benefits are not meant for people to live off 😡, they are meant as a stop gap unless u have disabilities etc, I appreciate tho that it is quite difficult to find a job, although I do see lots advertised. This is coming from someone that has worked my ass off from 16yrs old to get anywhere in life with no help from a government (no praise wanted, so I should’ve🙄) pisses me off when people say how bad it was, it’s the parents fault for that, not the system. It’s not meant to bring families of 2/4/6 up on, that’s y children go without if their parents are too bone idle to get a job(again, take away the disability side of this)Pretty certain we’d all like to pick our children up from school EVERYDAY etc but we balance that with much greater needs financially. I work with the public, have done for years And I hate to stereo type but that mother who moans that she/they don’t get enough money from the government is also that same one getting her nails/feet/eyebrows done every 10/14days in my shop. Sorry to rant but as I say, being on benefits shouldn’t be a career, just a stop gap in hard times, they are not meant for the newest TVs, sky, mobile phones, gel nails/toes/eyebrows 🙄
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I agree. But then do most of us on here.
 
80hs said:
😂😂😂 hahahah brilliant comment!

re: benefits

can I just say, benefits are not meant for people to live off 😡, they are meant as a stop gap unless u have disabilities etc, I appreciate tho that it is quite difficult to find a job, although I do see lots advertised. This is coming from someone that has worked my ass off from 16yrs old to get anywhere in life with no help from a government (no praise wanted, so I should’ve🙄) pisses me off when people say how bad it was, it’s the parents fault for that, not the system. It’s not meant to bring families of 2/4/6 up on, that’s y children go without if their parents are too bone idle to get a job(again, take away the disability side of this)Pretty certain we’d all like to pick our children up from school EVERYDAY etc but we balance that with much greater needs financially. I work with the public, have done for years And I hate to stereo type but that mother who moans that she/they don’t get enough money from the government is also that same one getting her nails/feet/eyebrows done every 10/14days in my shop. Sorry to rant but as I say, being on benefits shouldn’t be a career, just a stop gap in hard times, they are not meant for the newest TVs, sky, mobile phones, gel nails/toes/eyebrows 🙄
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The system IS a the problem. Becky on benefits who may or may not have sky tv is not. “I hate the stereotype” but you are stereotyping. I’m sure there are people out there that rinse the system but it a minority! My mother was on working tax credit, she’s the hardest working person I know. The system is the problem because they make it harder for single parents to go back to work, child care is insanely expensive and therefore there is less incentive to work. My mum would have been better off on full benefits... not by much but still better off and she would have had more time to attend my school appointments instead of working every hour god sent to put food on the table. She chose to work because of her pride. Being on benefits shouldn’t be a career, you are correct but then the government should put into place more support for single parent families to ensure that can go back to work. Also poor people are allowed to buy nice things even if it’s from benefit money 🙃🙃
 
Coolcats24 said:
Has anyone seen that Charlie has cut Frankie’s hair without telling Shannon?! I’d be fuming!
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I have no doubt at all that Charlie would’ve done this to get a reaction from Shannon and it’s his way of still being able to control how she feels. The best thing she can do is not react at all, however difficult that is. By getting angry and upset it plays right into his hands and gets the reaction he so desperately wants.

Ordinarily haircuts should not be an issue between people co parenting but that is not that game that abusive men play. I feel for Shannon because she has to deal with this for many years to come and she was too short sighted to see this when she decided to have children with him.
 
stampystamp said:
The system IS a the problem. Becky on benefits who may or may not have sky tv is not. “I hate the stereotype” but you are stereotyping. I’m sure there are people out there that rinse the system but it a minority! My mother was on working tax credit, she’s the hardest working person I know. The system is the problem because they make it harder for single parents to go back to work, child care is insanely expensive and therefore there is less incentive to work. My mum would have been better off on full benefits... not by much but still better off and she would have had more time to attend my school appointments instead of working every hour god sent to put food on the table. She chose to work because of her pride. Being on benefits shouldn’t be a career, you are correct but then the government should put into place more support for single parent families to ensure that can go back to work. Also poor people are allowed to buy nice things even if it’s from benefit money 🙃🙃
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This! I hate judgement from people towards those on benefits. I’m a registered nurse but my partner is the one working at the minute and I stay at home with the kids because we are financially better off that way, my entire wage would have gone on childcare. There’s no incentive for single mums to work
 
stampystamp said:
The system IS a the problem. Becky on benefits who may or may not have sky tv is not. “I hate the stereotype” but you are stereotyping. I’m sure there are people out there that rinse the system but it a minority! My mother was on working tax credit, she’s the hardest working person I know. The system is the problem because they make it harder for single parents to go back to work, child care is insanely expensive and therefore there is less incentive to work. My mum would have been better off on full benefits... not by much but still better off and she would have had more time to attend my school appointments instead of working every hour god sent to put food on the table. She chose to work because of her pride. Being on benefits shouldn’t be a career, you are correct but then the government should put into place more support for single parent families to ensure that can go back to work. Also poor people are allowed to buy nice things even if it’s from benefit money 🙃🙃
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I’ve stereotyped because I haven’t really been proven wrong in my line of work or even past friends....being on benefits and working and having tax credits are slightly different, exactly what ur mum did is what it’s for. I do believe that buying “treats” with left over money is ok but a treat to me as a youngster was chocolate, sweets, a meal out every now and again, not filler in ur lips and Botox then moaning that u haven’t had enough to pay ur rent cos benefits are “tit”. Credit to ur mum and I totally agree that the system is and has mostly been wrong, doesn’t mean u take advantage of it either 🤷🏼‍♀️😘
 
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