Teen Mum UK #3

[Bitofthebubbly]

This is literally what Amber talks about. He is a danger to those children, not necessarily physically, but emotionally. How dare he speak to Amber like that?! Those boys are going to grow up thinking it's okay to speak and treat women like that. Ste is supposed to be their role model. His temper is abominable!

Yep. Her mum has said the same too. It’s about time we start listening to them.

 

[Shazzyshizzle]

Yep. Her mum has said the same too. It’s about time we start listening to them.

I hope Amber & the kids are ok

 

[Fishnips]

I know I've said in the past I think Amber is a terrible mum for screaming at Brooklyn and calling him horrible and physically grabbing him to shout in his face, and I still don't think any of that is excusable tbh, but I'm swing a lot more now that she's probably really worn down and low, even before Hudson. Every time she talks to Steve in the new series she just looks empty and exhausted and a bit lost. It's really sad for her and the boys and I worry that if Ste will behave the way people are saying in this thread whilst he's on live, what is he like when there's nobody/No camera around

 

[Lilacfairy34]

Anyone seen the new first look of amber in hospital with gall stones I never had these but heard they are extremely painful, bless her she’s not had it easy since giving birth to little Hudson. I’m guessing she okay now tho as that was filmed months ago I remember she put stuff up on Instagram about her being in hospital etc

I had it last year omg it's painful ....I've had two babies but that is an intense pain wouldn't wish it on anyone x

 

[Lilacfairy34]

It was me that posted that zoo pic, back on the first thread! I’ve just trawled through and found it again - hope you all appreciate it’s glory!
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Love Ste he looks like Bez in this lol

 

[Sophm19]

Are they back together again or deffo off?

I listened to mia and chloes podcast and she said they arent together but hes still on lockdown at hers. She said he never goes on walks with her and marley , she just does her own thing. Its probably not easy living with him when they're not together but hopefully she will be able to stay single and move on properly after lockdown

 

[AngryBird101]

Agree so much!!!

Megan lives just up road to me.she is such a beg! The club she goes to unit 7 had her 21st birthday is such a dive well known for spiking and some men assaulting people and underage girls can't believe she goes on acting like it's so good!


Doormen***

What does it mean to call someone a beg?! I see this word everywhere and I have no idea what it means as an insult, I’m up in Scotland so it may well be a regional thing.

Is it really an entire places fault that men have date raped women there?! That’s like blaming the city of London for the bombings there...?

Megan lives just up road to me.she is such a beg! The club she goes to unit 7 had her 21st birthday is such a dive well known for spiking and some men assaulting people and underage girls can't believe she goes on acting like it's so good!


Doormen***

What does it mean to call someone a beg?! I see this word everywhere and I have no idea what it means as an insult, I’m up in Scotland so it may well be a regional thing.

Is it really an entire places fault that men have date raped women there?! That’s like blaming the city of London for the bombings there...?

This is exactly the point that people who stick up for chloe are missing! The problem is not that she is given stuff, fair enough if her parents are in a position to help. The problem is that she doesn’t recognise that she is lucky to have received this help, in addition to this she acts like these things are an expectation. Instead of admitting yes she has had help and is grateful for it she bangs on about how hard she has worked which simply isn’t the case. Most full time workers her age cannot afford a new build house and Mercedes as first car then upgrade to Range Rover whilst supporting a child, and they probably work just as hard, if not harder than her as it’s obvious that a part time job in a shop wouldn’t fund her lifestyle alone. Now she has her job at her dads company which she probably wouldn’t get anywhere else with her lack of qualifications yet still attributes this to hard work instead of showing some thanks.

Exactly! And this is why I too get pissed off when folks say “Chloe worked hard to get what she wanted”, erm no she didn’t, her parents and Jordan mainly did it all.

"Because Jordan gets SOOOOOO much female attention..."
HOW?
WHY?
FROM WHO?

Probably young girls 16/17 etc who think he is great for being on TV.
I'm not convinced anyone would look at who he has become now (lazy, cheating, miserable, slob) and think "MMM PROSPECTS!"

16/17 year olds don’t care about prospects with guys though, they just see looks and bad boy image and/or status.

It’s actually uncomfortable to watch chloe try get attention of Jordan. When she said did u miss me and he replied “not really”. I’m sorry but I’d be like cyaaaaaa . She clearly hasn’t got any self esteem and I get that’s caused by him sexting other girls but pleaseeeeeeee grow a backbone and realise the relationship i

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Didn’t she just ask if he missed her when she had been away for a night?! Isn’t that needy as hell to ask that?! She is bored with her whole life (well kids and family life are boring and mundane and it’s why I only

Feel so sorry for chloe, jordan has destroyed her confidence. I wish she had the will power to kick him to the bloody curb and leave him there. He has dragged her down so much. Shes has her faults but he has emotionally damaged that girl so much, it's hard to watch.

It’s not all Jordan’s fault that Chloe feels tit though and it’s unfair to blame it all on him, she isn’t happy with her weight and has said this from day one yet she doesn’t try to lose weight or eat healthy, and she is a young mum who is bored of the humdrum mundane life that has to happen when you have kids, these are 2 reasons that contribute to Chloe’s well being, happiness etc, it’s not all on Jordan and he had depression himself, real depression, Chloe just gets fed up and is constantly looking to do new things but it’s every time, I get it though, her life is boring in many ways coz of being a young mum!

Feel so sorry for chloe, jordan has destroyed her confidence. I wish she had the will power to kick him to the bloody curb and leave him there. He has dragged her down so much. Shes has her faults but he has emotionally damaged that girl so much, it's hard to watch.

It’s not all Jordan’s fault that Chloe feels tit though and it’s unfair to blame it all on him, she isn’t happy with her weight and has said this from day one yet she doesn’t try to lose weight or eat healthy, and she is a young mum who is bored of the humdrum mundane life that has to happen when you have kids, these are 2 reasons that contribute to Chloe’s well being, happiness etc, it’s not all on Jordan and he had depression himself, real depression, Chloe just gets fed up and is constantly looking to do new things but it’s every time, I get it though, her life is boring in many ways coz of being a young mum!

Chloe had it so easy compared to most young hard working couples let alone a teen mum.

She’s been spoilt by her parents and her attitude is so entitled it’s also led to her being lazy just because she looks like she does more next to Jordan it doesn’t mean she does that much more ! lol

I am sick of seeing people slagging off Jordan on Instagram for sitting on the couch lol when in most the scenes Chloe herself is slumped deep down in it moaning away having not made an effort with her clothes hair or anything that day.

I think she likes the idea of being fancy and getting all these material things “living her best life“ but she doesn’t actually do that at all, the things she managed to get so far she got with very little effort.

If she had to focus long term and be consistent to save up for that house and a posh car she wouldn’t of been able to do it, it’s the same with the weight loss she can’t achieve it because she’s entitled and probably expects to eat a salad once and then wonders why she isn’t slim.

Exactly! I am sick of Jordan getting lots of hate too and is blamed for all that’s wrong in Chloe’s life! I know grown men that don’t do half as much as Jordan, they don’t work and they don’t give a tit about their child either, they contribute duck all and don’t get moaned at or nagged, he sent a few dirty texts/videos etc and he is being treated like he killed someone, men cheat, fact.

I think I may be in the minority here and sorry if it’s already been said but I think Dylan isn’t over Megan. Now they’ve both sort of grown up, he’s realised what he’s lost. Not saying Megan is by any means a catch but she done a lot of him over the seasons.

It’s cause Megan is no longer in love with him and he can’t just have sex with her when he wants, that’s what is pissing him off, I bet Ree-Anne loves that Megan has a boyfriend, it will make her feel more secure.

Depends where you’re from where I live they don’t put mums in flats, just junkies and the elderly council houses round here are like gold dust though everyone wants one

I live in a City and everyone gets flats here from council or association, you only get a main door if you have 10 kids or you buy a house!

I see what you're saying, but to me a part time dad that drops in whenever he feels like it, is so much more detrimental for the child. He needs to act more like a father. He isn't just a knob to Emma, he is a knob to Jeremiah.

In all honesty, if I had a baby daddy that literally just dropped in when he felt like it, and cancelled, turned up late to see his child, I would probably drop contact. As harsh as that sounds. He clearly isn't father material so I'm not going to disappoint my child any further.

All the guys on the show are absolutely appalling boyfriends and partners, but I cant fault them as dads. Nassah on the other hand is a waste of air. I can't even bear to watch him.

Jeremiah is still just a baby though and so he doesn’t know how often his Dad is there and babies are boring at that age and all Nasseh can do it sit in Emma’s house. Nasseh has time to change but remember folks, pregnancy changes a woman in many ways and it doesn’t change guys and isn’t he just 18?! He is hardly a man! Plenty time to get his tit sorted out.

Did anyone see the clip for next week when Nasseh asks Emma when he can take Jeremiah away with him and she answers never! I hope she means not when he is a baby, I wonder if it’s Nassehs mum all of a sudden wanting to see Jeremiah on his own, why would Nasseh wanna take a small baby on his own?

 

[AngryBird101]

She wont....on her q&a yesterday someone asked her to explain her family...

Ahh no wonder she is fucked up and needy, I guarantee her mum went through the exact same as Megan at her age, history has a way of sometimes repeating itself in families, it did with me.

I know I've said in the past I think Amber is a terrible mum for screaming at Brooklyn and calling him horrible and physically grabbing him to shout in his face, and I still don't think any of that is excusable tbh, but I'm swing a lot more now that she's probably really worn down and low, even before Hudson. Every time she talks to Steve in the new series she just looks empty and exhausted and a bit lost. It's really sad for her and the boys and I worry that if Ste will behave the way people are saying in this thread whilst he's on live, what is he like when there's nobody/No camera around

This is all true but she knew exactly what he was like and still she got all possessive and jealous when he started going out with Kirsty, yet she still consciously made the choice to have another kid with him so “she made her bed” springs to mind.
There are too many women that know what men are like yet still get pregnant to them and not accidentally, I’m a woman but by god, we are bleeping stupid at times and I think there is a whole load of us that had kids to guys knowing full well what they were like!

 

[Fishnips]

Didn’t she just ask if he missed her when she had been away for a night?! Isn’t that needy as hell to ask that?!

Sometimes I ask my fella if he missed me after I been to the shop lmao. I don't think it's fair to make out that "needy" is an unfair thing. It just takes somebody compatible. My partner is really needy but he's not an asshole so it works.

It’s not all Jordan’s fault that Chloe feels tit though and it’s unfair to blame it all on him, she isn’t happy with her weight and has said this from day one yet she doesn’t try to lose weight or eat healthy, and she is a young mum who is bored of the humdrum mundane life that has to happen when you have kids, these are 2 reasons that contribute to Chloe’s well being, happiness etc, it’s not all on Jordan and he had depression himself, real depression, Chloe just gets fed up and is constantly looking to do new things but it’s every time, I get it though, her life is boring in many ways coz of being a young mum!

Completely agree with this - if she was really so "ambitious" she'd try achieving body confidence and health by not eating tit and moving more. But you can't buy that or be gifted it so

Disagree on the last bit, though. Having kids doesn't mean you have to have a boring, mundane life. I had my babe young and unexpected and I didn't just stop having fun. Yeah there's no more partying, nights out, spontaneous dinner dates etc. But we didn't stop having fun. We just do fun things that are family appropriate. Chloe and Jordans problem seems to be that they sit slobbing about that haaaaause Jordan on his PS4 and Chloe moaning and spunking over a bottle of Elbow Grease. If they actually sent outside on an adventure or to the zoo or aquarium or a nature trail or a water park etc they might not he so bored and snappy and it can help depression.

Did anyone see the clip for next week when Nasseh asks Emma when he can take Jeremiah away with him and she answers never! I hope she means not when he is a baby, I wonder if it’s Nassehs mum all of a sudden wanting to see Jeremiah on his own, why would Nasseh wanna take a small baby on his own?

I genuinely don't think Nasseh is a bad guy I think he just doesn't have much between the ears which is making him a bit of a crap dad. And if I was in Emma's shoes I'd have said "never" too. Nasseh and Jeremiah don't even know each other. I presume she meant "never if things carry on this way" I.e he's never there

 

[_basic_]

Agree so much!!

A beg I think is just someone who attention seeks, hangs round to get stuff given, arse licks etc.

With the club maybe it’s the way it’s ran as to what goes on there eg the management turn a blind eye.

With Chloe and Jordan, in the beginning she had 2-3 jobs while living at her parents so I think she has put her lot into what they have now. The car was a joint purchase with her mum but she ended up with the car. To be honest I’m not spoiled but my dad would do something like that for me especially if he could see I was working towards my future. As for the way he acted when she came home I think this came from insecurity she wanted him to have missed her, after all they were still in the honeymoon period. She shouldn’t have said she would be back early and detailed plans with his parents I think she did that on purpose to show she’s in control and it backfired. I think Chloe has ambition but she wants the family life with someone who loves her. I don’t for one minute think Jordan is made to look bad on the TV I think that’s just his behaviour and he does it cos he can get away with it. It shouldn’t be a given that men cheat. I hope she isn’t back with him in lockdown she previously said she wouldn’t say till the end of the series. Some of the things she does do my head in but apart from the emotional duck up of her head she’s a good mother with ambition. She’s been quiet on SM lately so that’s a good sign, stop filming your cleaning Mrs Hinch style and enjoy being a mother!
It’s definitely down to her to lose weight and I saw she’s photoshopped everything on insta which I don’t agree with as it’s like lying, a filter is one thing but this is different.

Totally agree with you on the Dylan and Megan thing.

I live in the north east and it’s pretty easy to get a house if you are one parent with one child I think different regions have their own ways.

I think Nasseh has fully made a U turn just for the show. He’s thought about it, and realised that if he comes across as ok then it will help his career. Nothing to do with him being comfortable in his own house. I saw that clip but I saw one after where Emma says “your not taking him to a festival”. I think she’s right at the moment to not let him take Jeremiah since he isn’t reliable at all. She doesn’t know his agenda and I think her Aspergers will make her even more cautious.

 

[Fishnips]

Also given the circumstances, Emma probably barely knew Nasseh at the time the series was filmed. And being the father (or mother!) of a baby doesn't automatically mean you are capable and responsible enough to take care of baby, and constantly flaking doesn't come across well as far as being responsible and reliable. I wouldn't let somebody I barely know take care of my/our baby either.

 

[theghosttown]

If Amber knows Ste has anger issues or is volatile why on earth would she go on a live in front of him. Surely that’s a like a red rag to a bull. Hardly thinking of her children when she’s lighting the fuse on that situation. Not excusing his behaviour but it seems pretty contrived and manipulative. He’s clearly not staying there all the time so do it at a time where he wasn’t there.

 

[misslaurennightingale@yah]

[QUOTE="Foundmypeople, post: 1358031, member:
My brothers got awful teeth, years of drinking sugary drinks but won’t go to the dentist. Think Stes scared to go, even if he’s in pain the fear can be overpowering. Especially when he’s on tv for everyone to see. I’ve seen my brother grind paracetamol up to rub on his gums.
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Does he realise he can get put to sleep to get dental work done? It might work out pricey but if he is that scared it could be a way to go, either that or be sedated. It depends what he needs done.

 

[_basic_]

[QUOTE="Foundmypeople, post: 1358031, member:
My brothers got awful teeth, years of drinking sugary drinks but won’t go to the dentist. Think Stes scared to go, even if he’s in pain the fear can be overpowering. Especially when he’s on tv for everyone to see. I’ve seen my brother grind paracetamol up to rub on his gums.

Does he realise he can get put to sleep to get dental work done? It might work out pricey but if he is that scared it could be a way to go, either that or be sedated. It depends what he needs done.
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Yes we have all told him. Even when he was out of work for a short period we urged him to go while it was free but he won’t. He’s started looking after his teeth a lot more now but the damage is done. My mam is the same she goes to a specialist dentist who puts her to sleep for everything but I reckon it’s just the initial fear to overcome

 

[Wetmyplants]

Is Amber safe?

It’s quite concerning that she’s in lockdown with someone so volatile

 

[Lester34]

If Amber knows Ste has anger issues or is volatile why on earth would she go on a live in front of him. Surely that’s a like a red rag to a bull. Hardly thinking of her children when she’s lighting the fuse on that situation. Not excusing his behaviour but it seems pretty contrived and manipulative. He’s clearly not staying there all the time so do it at a time where he wasn’t there.

i don’t agree with that, I doubt she came on live thinking any of that. She only answered a question and Steve went off on one. I would agree if they both started it with tension already and or already arguing etc but it honestly started fine. She wasnt being manipulative in any way They go on live together a lot and even separate and usually there lives are great, always interacting with the people commenting etc but on this time she was talking about breastfeeding and over night stays and just made it clear that’s how she felt at that time and he just went off on one . It was so random

 

[_basic_]

i don’t agree with that, I doubt she came on live thinking any of that. She only answered a question and Steve went off on one. I would agree if they both started it with tension already and or already arguing etc but it honestly started fine. She wasnt being manipulative in any way They go on live together a lot and even separate and usually there lives are great, always interacting with the people commenting etc but on this time she was talking about breastfeeding and over night stays and just made it clear that’s how she felt at that time and he just went off on one . It was so random

Probably because no ones agreeing with him as he’s wrong so he’s frustrated and taking it out on her. Obviously a sore spot for him, no excuse for him to be kicking off on live or not

 

[eyeballs]

I am so worried about amber after reading all this. Hopefully her mum is on the ball and she would interject if she was in real danger.

 

[theghosttown]

i don’t agree with that, I doubt she came on live thinking any of that. She only answered a question and Steve went off on one. I would agree if they both started it with tension already and or already arguing etc but it honestly started fine. She wasnt being manipulative in any way They go on live together a lot and even separate and usually there lives are great, always interacting with the people commenting etc but on this time she was talking about breastfeeding and over night stays and just made it clear that’s how she felt at that time and he just went off on one . It was so random

They have done lives before where he’s kicked off.

Also, to clarify. I am NOT excusing his behaviour. Regardless of his feelings aggression is not the answer. I just think it’s stupid for her to do it when she knows he has form

 

[Chanikins]

Are they back together again or deffo off?

Well he’s living in her house and they’re kissing and sharing a bed so I guess so

Sometimes I ask my fella if he missed me after I been to the shop lmao. I don't think it's fair to make out that "needy" is an unfair thing. It just takes somebody compatible. My partner is really needy but he's not an asshole so it works.



Completely agree with this - if she was really so "ambitious" she'd try achieving body confidence and health by not eating tit and moving more. But you can't buy that or be gifted it so

Disagree on the last bit, though. Having kids doesn't mean you have to have a boring, mundane life. I had my babe young and unexpected and I didn't just stop having fun. Yeah there's no more partying, nights out, spontaneous dinner dates etc. But we didn't stop having fun. We just do fun things that are family appropriate. Chloe and Jordans problem seems to be that they sit slobbing about that haaaaause Jordan on his PS4 and Chloe moaning and spunking over a bottle of Elbow Grease. If they actually sent outside on an adventure or to the zoo or aquarium or a nature trail or a water park etc they might not he so bored and snappy and it can help depression.

I completely agree it’s actually a joy watching my little girl develop and see her personality forming!

I genuinely don't think Nasseh is a bad guy I think he just doesn't have much between the ears which is making him a bit of a crap dad. And if I was in Emma's shoes I'd have said "never" too. Nasseh and Jeremiah don't even know each other. I presume she meant "never if things carry on this way" I.e he's never there