Teen Mom Young & Pregnant UK #25

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It's so selfish, the only person Charlie is thinking of in this situation is herself. Her daughter should be her first priority, but it's clear now that she's not. Oli shouldn't have even been introduced this soon ESPECIALLY when we know that they've already had a public barny, this soon into the relationship! Let alone uprooting Harlow's whole life and moving her 300 miles away to be with him. It's selfish. There's absolutely no defence for Charlie doing this, and nobody will persuade me differently. She thinks of herself and that's it.
 
Blue1989 said:
Has anyone messaged Brett with advice re court? I have no experience with it tbh, but maybe someone on here who has should? He is only young and pro has no idea of what he is entitled to do
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I do work at a solicitors and we do deal with family work but I think messaging him would be breaking the "keep it on tattle" rule?

If anything, he could start by instructing a mediator to try and resolve things between him and Charlie. A solicitor would always advise mediation anyway, as the courts like to see you've made attempts at resolving the situation before going to court. In the eyes of the court, court should be a last resort when all other avenues are exhausted.

I hope he reads here and sees the above and takes action. I hope he also sees the amount of people who feel for him. He's clearly been struggling with his mental health recently.
 
Yeah, I think Brett doesn’t realise the amount of partenal rights he has, I think a lot of men put themselves down as “just the dad” but if he’s on the birth certificate he has more rights than he thinks. She would need his permission to go abroad so why on earth is 300 miles any different? I don’t think she would meet him half way, it would definetly be a “If you want to see your daughter so bad, come and get her.” performance from Charlie once she’s gone.
 
I keep seeing people saying ‘Shes said he can have her 1 week a month’ which might work now but as soon as she’s at school she can’t do that? So then what?

I hope Brett seeks legal advice. 300 miles is far enough away that it meets the threshold for impacting a meaningful relationship between parent and child.

I couldn’t imagine how it must feel to be told, I’m taking your Child. What gets me, is if this was Brett saying that there’d be a lot more outrage about it. & I hate that double standard.
 
She really is a dick but so is Oli. He is enabling all this. Is it him who wants to get out his bedroom on camp and move to a house?

Feel sorry for Brett, I would be seeking legal advice today... with Janes support I think they vould get better things in place. I hope he never gives up.
 
Charlie needs to think about if it was reversed. Of course she is Harlows mother and as a mother myself I couldn’t imagine anyone loving my child like I do.. except people do. My sons father, his grandparents, his friends at nursery, he’s a ray of light in many peoples life and I could never be so selfish to snatch him away despite how much I want to believe I’m the only one who loves him this way.

Brett is a dad and it’s about time some women, like Charlie, realise that she might of carried Harlow and she might be mummy but Brett has just any many rights and just as much love for that child. There would be an uproar if Brett had Harlow for a weekend and then simply said “I’m moving 300 miles away, meet me halfway if you want her.” There would be cries of kidnap. Which, by law, Brett could refuse to give H back and it would have to go through court. So, why on earth Charlie feels she seems to have more rights because... what? She’s the live in parent? Is beyond me. Selfish.
 
Blue1989 said:
Has anyone messaged Brett with advice re court? I have no experience with it tbh, but maybe someone on here who has should? He is only young and pro has no idea of what he is entitled to do
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A lot of people on insta have commented about court, and hopefully he also reads here.

My partner and I have just been through the courts so everyone on IG who's spouting that he would never get 'custody' because Charlie is her mum is chatting bollocks. My partner got the resident parent and live with order over the mum because of the mum's actions (similar to how toxic Charlie is) so it's defintely doable.

Brett just needs to sort it ASAP. I doubt he'd even need mediation as he can show there has been previous abuse so they will waive the need for it and give him a certificate
 
Blue1989 said:
Have you seen chodders family? The mum frequently goes out with younger men who end up in prison. Unfortunately I doubt they'll give sound advice tbh
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They are going to end up getting cafcass or social arguing in court (which brett needs to do to keep harlow from going) but with Charlie yelling abuse with brett and agai yelling it about oli and the balloons and lack of stable environment I doubt any situation yhe courts would be entirely happy with
 
I know plenty of men who have full custody of their children because their mothers were too idle chasing the life they had before children or too busy impressing willy to even turn up to visit their children. We are in a day and age where luckily for a lot of children’s safety, giving birth doesn’t automatically make you the best parent to be left with. I hope he does the appropriate thing.
 
Princess_pie139 said:
Everyone she’s replied to and disagreed she’s told them ‘shut it’ so so immature
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It's the kisses at the end for me. Like don't even try to be nice Charlie.

Justcametobenosy said:
She thinks she knows everything... can't imagine her telling a judge to shut it.
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I can actually imagine her now. Showing up looking like a spider got caught on a baboons hole in a 3 piece loungewear set
 
pandanine said:
once harlow's in school and brett can't see her as often, what is poor harlow going to think? that her dad doesn't love her or care enough to see her? when that's absolutely not the case, but she'll be too little to understand that, it's not fair on brett or harlow it's vile
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No i think that's what charlie wants then she can get harlow to believe oli is the dad and forget about brett.
 
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