Teen Mom Young & Pregnant UK #25

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xoxo GG said:
Nobody should be in any ‘fan club’ my concern isn’t for the equally petty parents, who both consume their time with making sly digs at one another, both post stuff to social media to rile up the ‘fanbase’ and sit back whilst crappy gossip pages report on it, both break lockdown rules bringing unnecessary risk to their child and who both are toxic and abusive towards each other.

My concern is for that little girl, who has no idea what is going on, whose whole life will be changed for a relationship that probably won’t last longer than it takes for the ink dries on the marriage certificate, who has two parents who are more bothered about scoring points and coming out of it with the angel wings trailing behind over what both of their behaviours are actually doing to their daughter. Brett is no angel, neither is Charlie, Harlow is the only one I give a tit about and I sincerely hope that one day her parents decide to grow up, stop displaying their toxic behaviours around her and make her the priority as she always should have been.
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sorry I am on a rant tonight. I have mentioned a few times in previous posts I have put up tonight about Harlow too so I’m not just talking about Brett, I was responding to another poster. My fear for that poor child is the amount of times she will have to go through this throughout her childhood, to be uprooted from her family and friends just because her mother has a new man in her life. It’s not fair to Harlow, she needs more stability in her life. I honestly hope someone with some sense talks sense into them both for the sake of Harlow. Things will get more and more harder the older she gets
 
Blondeangel2515 said:
Don’t forget that time they argued then out of no where on a live she said he sucked a guy off. The girl would throw anything just to make her out to be one up on the person it’s about.
She’s the boy that cried woof, you can’t believe anything that comes out of her mouth. You have to take whatever she says with a pinch of salt.
She was slagging Meth off the other day then suddenly best mates
Got caught on tinder but then again apparently it was a catfish
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Who would use photos of Charlie to catfish someone😂 Those lips would send people running
 
Andysmith12 said:
Who would use photos of Charlie to catfish someone😂 Those lips would send people running
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Her lips remind me of a blob fish..
 
LilToes said:
sorry I am on a rant tonight. I have mentioned a few times in previous posts I have put up tonight about Harlow too so I’m not just talking about Brett, I was responding to another poster. My fear for that poor child is the amount of times she will have to go through this throughout her childhood, to be uprooted from her family and friends just because her mother has a new man in her life. It’s not fair to Harlow, she needs more stability in her life. I honestly hope someone with some sense talks sense into them both for the sake of Harlow. Things will get more and more harder the older she gets
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It wasn’t just aimed at you. But there was too much ‘poor Brett’ on this thread when it shouldn’t be poor Brett at all. Relationships break down and people move on, he seemed pretty happy with that when he was meeting Beth and the posts he puts aimed at Charlie all the time. I wouldn’t see anything wrong with Charlie moving with Harlow if the relationship was stable, private and showed any hope of lasting. Like she said, she isn’t stopping him from seeing her, was happy to work with him but it’s the fact we all know this won’t last with Oliver.

Neither of them consider Harlow in their everyday actions. I don’t agree with the cries to give Brett full custody, he’s made questionable decisions regarding her well-being as well as Charlie. This should have all remained private, it didn’t need to be posted to his Instagram story, he knows exactly what he is doing and he knows it will make people gun for Charlie. I’d have far more respect for him if he’d kept it private, went out and got legal advice to ensure his relationship with Harlow would be maintained and discussed with her how he disagreed with it and the impact it would have upon Harlow and his time/his bond with her. They both need to grow up and start acting like parents to Harlow instead of babysitters a few nights a week.
 
I honestly don’t know what goes on in that girls head. Surely her family should be knocking some sense into her? I feel sorry for Brett during this situation, it should be kept private but let’s face it, it’s not gonna stay private when Charlie’s posting photos and stories and will probably spill the beans about moving anyway, then people will be asking Brett and Oliver questions so it would never stay private. Shes shared enough about him anyway it’s not something I’d do and I think it’s very childish to put on social media but it’s what they’re like I suppose.
 
I think it is next level strange that you would uproot that poor girl from everything she knows for her to see more of some random guy that’s only been around a few months than she’ll see of her actual dad, I think it’s even more strange that oli is happy to play part in that!! It is so unstable and toxic, Brett please take that vile girl to court!!!!!
 
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Germainek said:
Currently catching up... Just on the bit where people are saying she's pregnant. Just a thought but we all know she loves a drink /party (taking photos with cups) and the past few weekends I haven't seen anything of the sort. Just a thought anyway back to catch up
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For me i see it so often. Young girls fall pregnant to a man in the military and they get married after a short period of time to be a family unit x
 
if theres one thing i can actually say that applies to everyone and anyone, is never ever kick someone while there already down. i don't care who you are or what you've apparently done.

brett has made it quite apparent the past few weeks/ months that he is quite clearly struggling, and honestly my heart is actually breaking for
him.

Im a mum, and I could never ever imagine taking my baby away from her dad (even tho were still together) Charlie and BRETT are parents, not oliver who's put his 5 pence in.

Said it once and ill stand by what i said, she is manipulative (even towards oli as we can quite clearly see) and she should honestly be ashamed of herself, that poor baby has absolutely no clue. these are the sort of actions that will cause Harlow to have abandonment issues and separation anxiety later in life. i've witnessed it with my own eyes.
 
Blue1989 said:
All these women on the gossip page saying "she doesn't need to ask him". If he was non existent in Harlows life I would agree. However he is a good dad to her and it's cruel
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She does need to ask him, he’s on her birth certificate. He’s got equal rights 🙄

It’s the immaturity of ‘so shut it’ for me. Grow up.
 

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Imagine it though😂 they’ll be divorced by Christmas 😭😭😭 what a bloody joke!! She is clearly not enjoying her new responsibilities ££££ and is sponging off yet another BOY. Wants the cheap housing, bet he’s paying for everything as well. HOW EMBARRASSING!! Surely this “Oliver” has a family who are deeply concerned about how quickly this has moved, especially when there’s been cheating scandals left right and centre. The military housing is full of people cheating as well, I should know! My own mum and dad were deep within it 🤣🤣 (not saying all you army wives and hubbies do) but I am so sure Charlie will be one of those!! Also, can imagine her causing trouble with the neighbours, there’s always that one in the base and she is a bloody psycho. Also, imagine if her neighbour is someone from tattle 😂😂
 
Charlie is an absolute twit for doing this, I haven’t even got time to write all of the reasons why she is in the wrong...people saying Oli needs to be ready for her toxic behaviour....what about him? What kind of a man thinks it’s perfectly ok to take another mans child away from him for their own selfish reasons? He’s as much or a wanker as Charlie and I feel so sorry for Harlow cos that will be one toxic relationship

boredgal420 said:
I honestly don’t know what goes on in that girls head. Surely her family should be knocking some sense into her? I feel sorry for Brett during this situation, it should be kept private but let’s face it, it’s not gonna stay private when Charlie’s posting photos and stories and will probably spill the beans about moving anyway, then people will be asking Brett and Oliver questions so it would never stay private. Shes shared enough about him anyway it’s not something I’d do and I think it’s very childish to put on social media but it’s what they’re like I suppose.
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I said this a while ago but as someone said, I don’t think Charlie’s parents really care that much or get involved. I think they have a fair few kids to be keeping tabs on it at least the mother does
 
Kazzie20 said:
if theres one thing i can actually say that applies to everyone and anyone, is never ever kick someone while there already down. i don't care who you are or what you've apparently done.

brett has made it quite apparent the past few weeks/ months that he is quite clearly struggling, and honestly my heart is actually breaking for
him.

Im a mum, and I could never ever imagine taking my baby away from her dad (even tho were still together) Charlie and BRETT are parents, not oliver who's put his 5 pence in.

Said it once and ill stand by what i said, she is manipulative (even towards oli as we can quite clearly see) and she should honestly be ashamed of herself, that poor baby has absolutely no clue. these are the sort of actions that will cause Harlow to have abandonment issues and separation anxiety later in life. i've witnessed it with my own eyes.
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You are so right! I am 26 and have been told by a councillor that my issues are because of seperation anxiety and which goes hand in hand with that emotional neglect as a child of the same age as harlow going through a family break up. I then watched my mum get married and uproot us several times.my dad also lived 300 miles away and the going back and forth was awful! So Charlie you need to think about the long term impact as this does and will happen to your Harlow. And its so so sad to see. I hate my mum for it and you want to hope Harlow doesn’t learn to feel the same.
 
Charlie wouldn’t listen to anyone she does as she pleases she doesn’t give a tit about Harlow or she wouldn’t be rushing into this ridiculous move. She’s so needy and that comes before anything. Charlie knows best as we all know she’s done everything wrong in being a parent to that poor child and the people agreeing with what she’s doing is why Charlie is the way she is. All us mums are clearly are more maternal than she will ever be as we seem to have more care and concern over her child than she does and that’s worrying. All I can say is Brett please go to court or your daughter will be up sticks and moving a lot further than 300 miles when he gets posted
 
It’s so selfish. There isn’t just her and Brett in this either, Harlow has family. Jane adores that little girl. Harlow has just started a child minders and will of settled and made friends. I can’t see any other reasons they’ve chose so far besides getting homed in the barracks. (Is that the correct word? I’m clueless when it comes to the army/marines.)

Love can make people do very stupid things but no love should override the love you have for your child and their best interests.
 
Yes Brett has his faults but no one can ever say he's a bad dad. No matter what's happened, Harlow has always been his number one priority. Harlow is just a pawn in Charlie's games, she doesn't have her best interests at heart. I absolutely think that Harlow would have a much happier life if she lived with Brett full time. Charlie should be ashamed and embarrassed to call herself a mother, and it shows Ollies true colours by allowing Harlow to be taken from her real dad... YES OLLIE, YOU ARE NOT HER DAD - YOU'RE JUST CHARLIE'S LATEST VICTIM! The pair of them are vile, completely Team Brett and Harlow over here. Disgrace of parent you are Charlie you duck lipped woman. Hey, but why am I surprised when your own parents never cared for you either, might as well carry on the family cycle ay! head
 
I really feel for little Harlow in all of this. For all of Brett's wrongs, one thing that nobody can deny is that he clearly loves that little girl, and she loves him too. How is it fair on her to drag her away from her Father? Yes, Charlie has said she'll meet him half way but those are just words, will she ACTUALLY? I don't know that she would to be honest.
 
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