Teen Mom Young & Pregnant #35

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Nah that is soo weird.
I wonder if the people jumping to his defence would let him babysit their kid.. or take them swimming? Too many red flags for me, makes me genuinely worried for H safety, we all know Charlie is far too wrapped up in herself and proving how perfect her boyfriend is to worry about safeguarding her child and ensuring boundaries are in place.
 
Nah that is soo weird.
I wonder if the people jumping to his defence would let him babysit their kid.. or take them swimming? Too many red flags for me, makes me genuinely worried for H safety, we all know Charlie is far too wrapped up in herself and proving how perfect her boyfriend is to worry about safeguarding her child and ensuring boundaries are in place.
I’m not defending him at all and no I wouldn’t let him baby sit my kid or take them swimming because I don’t know him 🤦‍♀️. Mud sticks is all I’m saying..
 
You can see she’s desperate to have a boy with Ollie. Most people would say I don’t care what it is as long as it’s healthy but she’s not said that she’s said she wants a boy. She’s already done the girl with Brett
See I’m not defending her but I thought it was natural wanting the opposite sex after your first? I know my sister said she would like a girl after my nephew but would said she wouldn’t mind ether though
 
I don't really understand the gender thing myself, I don't see how it makes a difference. 😬 My friend had two boys and said before she found out the sex of her second that if it was another boy she'd try for another baby but if it was a girl she'd stop then 😬 and I'm one of 3 and same situation with my parents... They had a 3rd because they wanted a girl. Although they gave up after a while trying and my mum went in to be sterilised and found out at her pre op she was pregnant with me but still 🥲

I get that it's a real thing and I wouldn't want to invalidate people's feelings and you can't help you feel, I just really don't see how it makes a difference to your life whether your kids are male or female. 🫢
 
I don't really understand the gender thing myself, I don't see how it makes a difference. 😬 My friend had two boys and said before she found out the sex of her second that if it was another boy she'd try for another baby but if it was a girl she'd stop then 😬 and I'm one of 3 and same situation with my parents... They had a 3rd because they wanted a girl. Although they gave up after a while trying and my mum went in to be sterilised and found out at her pre op she was pregnant with me but still 🥲

I get that it's a real thing and I wouldn't want to invalidate people's feelings and you can't help you feel, I just really don't see how it makes a difference to your life whether your kids are male or female. 🫢

I suppose people have a preference and I can understand people who are upset at first but it’s when people go on to resent the fact they’ve not got what they wanted. Unpopular opinion but as someone who had a baby who was seriously unwell/still needs extra cares ops etc I think people should just be grateful for having a healthy baby they can take home. I don’t think Charlie has voiced any opinions on it though
 
Personally, I don’t judge people for having a preference… however… I find it odd to be so brazen about it, especially on social media.

I never had a preference with either of my living children… I did want a girl in a pregnancy where I had a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks and the guilt and self loathing that left me feeling I don’t think will ever leave me. I felt for a long time like I’d cursed myself and the baby.
 
Who does this make everyone think of 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
 

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