Teen Mom Young and Pregnant #21

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Jpc1993 said:
Wow that’s sad. I’d still do every weekend so guess it’s personal preference
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He couldn't afford it :( there was a toll in between plus working all week finishing at 6 by time home then leaving Sunday so could sleep be up 6am Monday for work.when he was moved less than 2hours away he was home all time even mid week nights etc
 
pandanine said:
with the introducing too early, my brother was introduced very early to his fiancé’s children as she, at the time, was a single mother with two young children, and the father wasn’t involved and lived in another country: however, what they did do, was make it appear to the children that my brother was just a friend and nothing more so as not to confuse them - now, 2 years down the line, they have their own child together and the other children call my brother daddy and he is their dad, no doubt about it (as the bio father is well and truly not involved, not even met the youngest ), but i do think that if charlie had to have them meet, she could’ve pretended he was just a friend for harlow’s sake, until it was something more serious - and of course, brett is involved. But no matter the circumstances, there’s always a way around it, such as having it appear they’re just a friend in front of the child
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With your brother the girl obviously never got free time with the bio dad not involved but Charlie can be with any man when Brett has Harlow, and still keep Harlow & any man separate. She has it easy
 
I really don’t like the fact she Introduced Oliver to Harlow so quickly, infact on makes my skin crawl thinking of a random man around a child. Even if you knew him at school that really means nothing what she must of been 11-15 if he’s the year above how can you know if he’s safe to be around your kid from that. It’s really bleeping weird
 
Teenytot said:
With your brother the girl obviously never got free time with the bio dad not involved but Charlie can be with any man when Brett has Harlow, and still keep Harlow & any man separate. She has it easy
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yeah that’s my point, like there’s no excuse really, 1) brett is around and 2) she could’ve made it appear as though oliver was her friend, so no excuse for what she’s done really is there
 
I really dislike the “known them years/from school” defence people use like said above, it means naff all. It furthers the stigma that all weirdos are stranger danger off the street. Some of the vilest people are right on your door step and often friends and family as sad as it is. Would I leave my child in the company of an old female friend I lost touch with from school? Definetly not. I struggled dropping my baby off for his first day at nursery today. All those strangers, me not seeing everything. I could never bring a man around that soon. I understand people’s circumstances are different, and with no free time or being a lonely single mum you could really rely on the extra company, but I couldn’t do it myself. Toddlers aren’t given enough credit sometimes, like said earlier, she can’t talk, she can’t say full sentences and she doesn’t fully understand but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t feel. Children are their own people with their own emotions and boundaries. :( I’m not saying for 1 second this guy is a bad person, or would harm Harlow at all, but as a mother, you’ve got to protect your baby. Even emotionally.
 
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Can you imagine Charlie’s reaction if it was the other way round with Brett posting lovey dicey family pictures with Harlow and his new girlfriend - she would go mental!
 
my ex introduced my son behind my back to a girl he had only just started seeing I was very upset as I had a partner for quite a while by then and I still hadn’t introduced them as I knew it wasn’t appropriate or right. He went on days out with her, my son and her kids, had her at his house, only to break up with her a few weeks later. People that do things like that really don’t understand the damage it can cause to a child’s life. Good for her if she wants a relationship but she needs to keep it separate from Harlow until she knows it’s a serious relationship and for good, but judging by her track record with Brett and how quickly she’s moved on this doesn’t strike me as serious at all. He’s using her and she wants to move him in around her child after a couple weeks together. Absolutely awful
 
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