Teen Mom Young and Pregnant #21

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Jpc1993 said:
Hell on

He’ll only be gone back to work and be home each weekend so 4 days. He’s not deploying
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Depends where he is stationed my brother was based 4 hours drive from our house so even though he had a daughter he only came home every 3rd weekend and 1 weekend his girlfriend would visit.if local for sure would be home every weekend
 
Jpc1993 said:
Nah I think Charlie is a totally lunatic BUTTTT I think Brett is just as crazy. Everyone praises him but he’s well sly! Just because he posts photos of Harlow at the weekend, let’s be honest she goes to bed and he leaves her with Jane and goes out. He probably does it during the day also for those saying when does he date?. Just because he posts a wee video of Harlow doesn’t mean he doesn’t then go out for a few hours. She might be an idiot but he’s go so much support at his mums 24/7 it’s probably easy to be a great dad and be so fun when there’s multiple people doing it. She went out late for food and everyone said ‘omg hope she didn’t take Harlow out late’
He did it yesterday and no one said wow where’s Harlow. At home with Jane! He’s no better.
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Well then Charlie should take a leaf out of Bretts book and not post her every move on social media. As Charlotte once heroically said “A private life is a happy life”
 
I don’t understand the posts in here saying it’s nice this new bloke is good with Harlow? (Or whatever, it was a couple pages back.) It isn’t nice this soon. It’s a red flag and anyone who thinks it’s “nice” is a bit delusional and weird. It isn’t nice to be that cosy with someone’s child after 2 weeks. I think it’s weird personally. But, everyone’s got an opinion, that’s just mine. He’s a typical single young navy lad, he’s seen Charlie as an opportunity. Place to crash and fanny to lay with until he’s back at work. (No offence to any army/navy wife’s or family of army lads, that’s a generalisation from the men I know in that field of work.)
 
keytotruth said:
Depends where he is stationed my brother was based 4 hours drive from our house so even though he had a daughter he only came home every 3rd weekend and 1 weekend his girlfriend would visit.if local for sure would be home every weekend
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Wow that’s sad. I’d still do every weekend so guess it’s personal preference
 
justheretonamedrop said:
I don’t understand the posts in here saying it’s nice this new bloke is good with Harlow? (Or whatever, it was a couple pages back.) It isn’t nice this soon. It’s a red flag and anyone who thinks it’s “nice” is a bit delusional and weird. It isn’t nice to be that cosy with someone’s child after 2 weeks. I think it’s weird personally. But, everyone’s got an opinion, that’s just mine.
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Louder for the people at the back!
Whats nice is for people to know they are compatible before laying down and creating a child. OK things don't always work out as planned but that doesn't mean you need to bed hop and parade a stream of men/women around a young child who cannot speak, total disregard for H safety simply because she wants to get laid. Its not nice its absolutely disgusting. Its not like she has plenty of free time when her child isn't around if she's that desperate.
 
I just remember being a child, maybe 10 years old and my dad would take women on dates with their children (So myself and whatever women’s children), bring them back and disguise it as a sleepover for me, and I would lay in bed and hear him and this random woman I’d met once “giggling” away. Me and these women’s children would be so so uncomfortable to be in eachothers presence so randomly, but I would never say anything, I thought him being an adult meant that was a normal thing. I would never do it to my child, whether they can tell me it makes them uncomfortable or not, sometimes children keep their mouths shut because they trust the adult is doing an okay, normal thing. People like Charlie neeeeed to be more considerate of long term effects, it’s okay “now” because Harlow can’t tell her she’s uncomfortable but Harlow doesn’t know better. Charlie should know better.
 
with the introducing too early, my brother was introduced very early to his fiancé’s children as she, at the time, was a single mother with two young children, and the father wasn’t involved and lived in another country: however, what they did do, was make it appear to the children that my brother was just a friend and nothing more so as not to confuse them - now, 2 years down the line, they have their own child together and the other children call my brother daddy and he is their dad, no doubt about it (as the bio father is well and truly not involved, not even met the youngest ), but i do think that if charlie had to have them meet, she could’ve pretended he was just a friend for harlow’s sake, until it was something more serious - and of course, brett is involved. But no matter the circumstances, there’s always a way around it, such as having it appear they’re just a friend in front of the child
 
justheretonamedrop said:
I just remember being a child, maybe 10 years old and my dad would take women on dates with their children (So myself and whatever women’s children), bring them back and disguise it as a sleepover for me, and I would lay in bed and hear him and this random woman I’d met once “giggling” away. Me and these women’s children would be so so uncomfortable to be in eachothers presence so randomly, but I would never say anything, I thought him being an adult meant that was a normal thing. I would never do it to my child, whether they can tell me it makes them uncomfortable or not, sometimes children keep their mouths shut because they trust the adult is doing an okay, normal thing. People like Charlie neeeeed to be more considerate of long term effects, it’s okay “now” because Harlow can’t tell her she’s uncomfortable but Harlow doesn’t know better. Charlie should know better.
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I am so sorry to hear you had to go through this, it sounds absolutely awful!

We know that Charlie reads here, so I sincerely hope she sees your post and it sparks a change in her. God only knows if I were her and I'd just read what you'd been through I'd feel mortified that my child may also feel that way. I really hope she realises the damage she could be doing to that poor, beautiful little girl :(
 
WilmaHun said:
I am so sorry to hear you had to go through this, it sounds absolutely awful!

We know that Charlie reads here, so I sincerely hope she sees your post and it sparks a change in her. God only knows if I were her and I'd just read what you'd been through I'd feel mortified that my child may also feel that way. I really hope she realises the damage she could be doing to that poor, beautiful little girl :(
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She won't care , she has no morals. Her mom bought her the same way by look of it
 
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