Teen Mom UK Next Generation #2

Who’s your favourite so far?

  • Angel

  • Chloe

  • Ellie

  • Isha

  • Whitney


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Also regarding Ellie, even though she drives me mad watching her, the no touching issue is concerning to me.

I'm not saying this is the case here but as a child (8 years old) I was abused and the impact of that has followed me into adulthood as far as relationships are concerned.
I've got 2 children and I have no problems with showing affection to them but in a relationship it's always been an issue.🤷‍♀️

Don't get me wrong I don't treat people like shit because of what's happened to me but it might explain some of how she deals with things.
I think it could be this or that she didn’t get that much affection at home. Like the only one who really showed me affection was my mum but then when she past away no one in my family did hugs or cuddles like my sister would try but it wasn’t the same let’s just say it’s like hugging a rock 😂 so too me now it was awkward when friends at college would be hugging each other because none of my friends at school would do it. They’ll say I’m not affectionate at all when it’s not that I’m just not use to it or find it awkward with the big differences.
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I guess everyone has different boundaries and I personally don’t care what my partner looks at online but if ellie thinks it over steps the boundary she should communicate that. It was clear last episode she refuses to communicate with him so i doubt she has told him. I am surprised they are together though they just seem to co exist together if that makes sense
I’m not bothered but if you’re looking through someone’s phone to catch them out cheating then that’s something else it shows you don’t trust them.
I personally wouldn’t snoop on someone's phone because it’s their phone end of the day their privacy.

I can see Ellie is the type to think it’s normal and probably has that all boys the same and boys does you dirty
 
Am I right in thinking Chloe is being offered an adapted bungalow because she has fibro and endometriosis?! What 😂
She said she struggles with the bath so I guess it has a bathroom like this
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Yeah I obvs don’t agree with going down your partners phone but I don’t agree with what Luke was doing. Don’t think you should be actively letting other girls know you find them attractive etc and his excuse of liking it to “support” them is laughable lol
Yeah I’m in the middle with this one. I personally would never go through my partners phone and don’t care whose pictures he likes. I know he has female friends and work colleagues and wouldn’t bat an eyelid if he liked their photos. But I think there’s a difference between liking a photo and stepping the line. Especially when it’s just one girls photos you’re always liking or commenting making it clear they’re hot etc I don’t agree with. I guess everyone has different things they’ll accept and not but if he’s in a relationship with Ellie he shouldn’t then be telling other girls they’re attractive but personally don’t see an issue with liking a picture
 
Yeah I obvs don’t agree with going down your partners phone but I don’t agree with what Luke was doing. Don’t think you should be actively letting other girls know you find them attractive etc and his excuse of liking it to “support” them is laughable lol

I guess everybody has different boundaries. To me if my boyfriend likes another girls/an influencer/ a celebs photo it doesn't really bother me. I don't think anything of it at all. I like pics/vids of male influencers and celebs who I find attractive and I also like other males photos. Doesn't mean I want to sleep with them, doesn't mean I'm going to cheat on him. It's just a like on social media and I don't think it's that deep. It would be very unrealistic to expect somebody to stop seeing that others are attractive just because they have a partner. In my mind, it only crosses a line when you take it further than a like and make suggestive comments/message that person.

However like I say I do respect that everybody has different boundaries and if that is something that would upset you then it is what it is, it's not for me to judge. Each relationship is different.
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It must be. Never in my life have I struggled in the bath. Even when I’m at my worst pain days on morphine I can still climb in the bath ffs 😂

erm can you stop being ableist please ;)
 
Yeah I’m in the middle with this one. I personally would never go through my partners phone and don’t care whose pictures he likes. I know he has female friends and work colleagues and wouldn’t bat an eyelid if he liked their photos. But I think there’s a difference between liking a photo and stepping the line. Especially when it’s just one girls photos you’re always liking or commenting making it clear they’re hot etc I don’t agree with. I guess everyone has different things they’ll accept and not but if he’s in a relationship with Ellie he shouldn’t then be telling other girls they’re attractive but personally don’t see an issue with liking a picture
I guess everybody has different boundaries. To me if my boyfriend likes another girls/an influencer/ a celebs photo it doesn't really bother me. I don't think anything of it at all. I like pics/vids of male influencers and celebs who I find attractive and I also like other males photos. Doesn't mean I want to sleep with them, doesn't mean I'm going to cheat on him. It's just a like on social media and I don't think it's that deep. It would be very unrealistic to expect somebody to stop seeing that others are attractive just because they have a partner. In my mind, it only crosses a line when you take it further than a like and make suggestive comments/message that person.

However like I say I do respect that everybody has different boundaries and if that is something that would upset you then it is what it is, it's not for me to judge. Each relationship is different.
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erm can you stop being ableist please ;)
Yeah I agree context is very important here, don’t care if it’s female friends etc but half naked pictures which is what Luke was liking is disrespectful imo. I had my ex confess to me that he was up to no good (if you know what I mean 🤮) when he was looking at/ liking these kind of pics (which included “female friends” and I think it’s a whole different ball game when these girls are accessible vs celebrities/ influencers) which really opened my eyes and he cheated throughout so I just think people who do that are that way inclined as that’s not an issue in my current relationship at all. Obvs don’t become blind once you’re with someone and everyone has a look, even in person etc, but I think some just take it too far
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Clearly I’m doing endo wrong because my bath is a normal one. Must go beg online my struggles to the council help me get this 😂
Hope you’re setting up a photoshoot in a fetal position as we speak 🤣
 
Obviously trust is needed to a certain extent because if you’re there accusing your partner 24/7 it’s going to be a very boring and draining relationship but on the flip side wether you trust them or not, saying you trust them doesn’t stop them cheating on you as it’s completely out of your control. It’s often seen as like a magic shield, you must trust him or it’s done for!! Presumably every person who’s been cheated on trusted their partner.

Could be an unpopular opinion
 
Does anyone follow or know of thatgurlamg? That is all I see with the salon owner 😂😂 Also can't believe how rude and unprofessional Ellie was when handing out her CV. I know she's young and nervous but still.
 
That whole being offered a bungalow that's been adapted has really annoyed me. I know people with both conditions and yes when they have flare up's they struggle. I have problems with my joints and when they flare up I struggle with getting in and out my bath but she's literally playing the system here. I watched a tiktok of a woman who was completely paralysed and lived in a flat accessible by steps. She's literally had to drag herself out the wheelchair and down the steps on her hands. When asked how shed get her chair down she said she couldnt. So basically a prisoner in her own flat. Yet chloe here is offered a bungalow so many other people are waiting for with no quality of life while they wait. 😭😭
 
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