Blondeangel2515
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I think it could be this or that she didn’t get that much affection at home. Like the only one who really showed me affection was my mum but then when she past away no one in my family did hugs or cuddles like my sister would try but it wasn’t the same let’s just say it’s like hugging a rock so too me now it was awkward when friends at college would be hugging each other because none of my friends at school would do it. They’ll say I’m not affectionate at all when it’s not that I’m just not use to it or find it awkward with the big differences.Also regarding Ellie, even though she drives me mad watching her, the no touching issue is concerning to me.
I'm not saying this is the case here but as a child (8 years old) I was abused and the impact of that has followed me into adulthood as far as relationships are concerned.
I've got 2 children and I have no problems with showing affection to them but in a relationship it's always been an issue.
Don't get me wrong I don't treat people like shit because of what's happened to me but it might explain some of how she deals with things.
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I’m not bothered but if you’re looking through someone’s phone to catch them out cheating then that’s something else it shows you don’t trust them.I guess everyone has different boundaries and I personally don’t care what my partner looks at online but if ellie thinks it over steps the boundary she should communicate that. It was clear last episode she refuses to communicate with him so i doubt she has told him. I am surprised they are together though they just seem to co exist together if that makes sense
I personally wouldn’t snoop on someone's phone because it’s their phone end of the day their privacy.
I can see Ellie is the type to think it’s normal and probably has that all boys the same and boys does you dirty