Teen Mom UK #23

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Blondeangel2515 said:
2) if you have to have your bloody partners account on your phone then bloody get out of that relationship. No relationship should invade peoples privacy or accounts it’s just wrong and controlling 🤦🏼‍♀️ And apparently he realised he wanted her and their relationship is stronger than ever
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Exactly what I thought. It’s one thing not being private and keeping things from your partner but having to have their accounts logged in on your phone is just another level 🤦🏻‍♀️ Like you said if you can’t trust someone enough to not wanna be logged into their accounts then get out of that relationship ffs
 
Jennytea said:
Exactly what I thought. It’s one thing not being private and keeping things from your partner but having to have their accounts logged in on your phone is just another level 🤦🏻‍♀️ Like you said if you can’t trust someone enough to not wanna be logged into their accounts then get out of that relationship ffs
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Exactly! Like I’ve promised myself if I ever have to be that woman that needs to check my partners phone then I would have to force myself to leave.
If it was the other way round and it was Jordan having Chloes accounts on his phone their would be ww3 and people saying he’s controlling and a narcissist for it but because it’s Chloe it’s seen as normal.
Just goes to show the shows she’s putting on making out they are stronger than ever when reality the Instagram relationship is on the rocks really

Snoopy_988 said:
But there is ways around phobias, as you can be sedated, as I also have a phobia and always get sedated when having any major dental work
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But… not making excuses up but his phobia maybe even stopping him making a phone call to the dentist for even a check up. He may not know how to register etc or even have one. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I don’t know I’m a bit more understanding, knowing loads of people that’s been in care who have never been the dentist this is what they’ve told me why they don’t know or they just don’t see the point as they haven’t been in ages so what’s the point now Ste could have the same mindset
 
Blondeangel2515 said:
Exactly! Like I’ve promised myself if I ever have to be that woman that needs to check my partners phone then I would have to force myself to leave.
If it was the other way round and it was Jordan having Chloes accounts on his phone their would be ww3 and people saying he’s controlling and a narcissist for it but because it’s Chloe it’s seen as normal.
Just goes to show the shows she’s putting on making out they are stronger than ever when reality the Instagram relationship is on the rocks really


But… not making excuses up but his phobia maybe even stopping him making a phone call to the dentist for even a check up. He may not know how to register etc or even have one. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I don’t know I’m a bit more understanding, knowing loads of people that’s been in care who have never been the dentist this is what they’ve told me why they don’t know or they just don’t see the point as they haven’t been in ages so what’s the point now Ste could have the same mindset
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Agree with you here and at the minute dentists round here (Lancashire) are still not taking on either and during a house move I forgot to sign up with a different one then all of a sudden covid hit and I'm too terrified to see an emergency dentist desperately need a filling but would need to be sedated and they're not sedating for fillings 😂
 
Rach88 said:
Agree with you here and at the minute dentists round here (Lancashire) are still not taking on either and during a house move I forgot to sign up with a different one then all of a sudden covid hit and I'm too terrified to see an emergency dentist desperately need a filling but would need to be sedated and they're not sedating for fillings 😂
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For all we know ste may not even know they could sedate him if that’s what he’s scare about or maybe he just feels too embarrassed to go to any dentist even an emergency one 🤷🏼‍♀️ Or to even phone one and say listen me teeth are terrible i never looked after them as a kid or what not.
I don’t know I think the thought of he’s too scared like me but I get sedated makes it seem too simplistic for all we know he could of had a traumatic experience that stopped him going
 
Blondeangel2515 said:
For all we know ste may not even know they could sedate him if that’s what he’s scare about or maybe he just feels too embarrassed to go to any dentist even an emergency one 🤷🏼‍♀️ Or to even phone one and say listen me teeth are terrible i never looked after them as a kid or what not.
I don’t know I think the thought of he’s too scared like me but I get sedated makes it seem too simplistic for all we know he could of had a traumatic experience that stopped him going
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I think it's a serious fear as he was offered free treatment by a dentist but was too scared. I had a phobia for years due to a mean dentist. I'm over it now as I've a dentist who isn't judgemental and doesn't tell you off. I feel sorry for ste
 
I’m not a huge fan of ree but if what was posted is true I imagine it would be more than one slap (as awful as it is) for the children to be removed. I’d never slap my child but I know some parents see no issue with it - though it’s a lot more rare now than it was when I was growing up.
Maybe that coupled with the weed? I don’t know if she has a balcony but I’d hate to think of her smoking weed in that tiny flat around the kids.
I also don’t think deleting pictures of the kids gives much away, she doesn’t have many posts and tends to delete them regularly so maybe they just didn’t fit in with her aesthetic (🙄) anymore?
 
I got slapped a few times when I was growing up but it didn't help "discipline" me at all. It really was only a few times so it's not like I was an abused child but it did kind of teach me to "fear" my mum if that makes sense, don't see how anyone can say it's not a big deal! Anyway I hope it's not the case for Reanne's kids.

I feel really bad for Ste as well, he's clearly going through it with his dental situation, I've not got dentist fear but I can totally understand why people do it's just awful to be so frightened of them when they are there to help :(
 
tspnwn said:
I got slapped a few times when I was growing up but it didn't help "discipline" me at all. It really was only a few times so it's not like I was an abused child but it did kind of teach me to "fear" my mum if that makes sense, don't see how anyone can say it's not a big deal! Anyway I hope it's not the case for Reanne's kids.

I feel really bad for Ste as well, he's clearly going through it with his dental situation, I've not got dentist fear but I can totally understand why people do it's just awful to be so frightened of them when they are there to help :(
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Yeah I totally don’t agree with using violence as discipline, I speak to my child. Could never fathom hitting him. How anyone could is beyond me but I know some do, even occasionally. I do think though it’s probably not enough for her children to be removed, especially in light of some recent horrendous high profile cases in which children were left in homes where they were severely abused
 
lolachi said:
Yeah I totally don’t agree with using violence as discipline, I speak to my child. Could never fathom hitting him. How anyone could is beyond me but I know some do, even occasionally. I do think though it’s probably not enough for her children to be removed, especially in light of some recent horrendous high profile cases in which children were left in homes where they were severely abused
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Yeah I agree it really does have lasting effects. Not to sound dramatic but I'm well grown up now and when my mum shouts at me in a certain voice it still kinda scares me a bit as pathetic as that sounds 😂

That said, social services are so debatable. Look at all the cases of extremely abused children that have so sadly died at the hands of their parents but they didn't intervene :(
 
lolachi said:
Yeah I totally don’t agree with using violence as discipline, I speak to my child. Could never fathom hitting him. How anyone could is beyond me but I know some do, even occasionally. I do think though it’s probably not enough for her children to be removed, especially in light of some recent horrendous high profile cases in which children were left in homes where they were severely abused
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Sorry I somehow missed your last sentence where I totally just said what you did!!! You're so right.
 
tspnwn said:
Yeah I agree it really does have lasting effects. Not to sound dramatic but I'm well grown up now and when my mum shouts at me in a certain voice it still kinda scares me a bit as pathetic as that sounds 😂

That said, social services are so debatable. Look at all the cases of extremely abused children that have so sadly died at the hands of their parents but they didn't intervene :(
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It’s not pathetic at all, please don’t say that how you feel is totally valid. I had a traumatic childhood and it really does stick with you. I would say for me it’s sometimes the more “minor” incidents that had more of an impact. Children are a bundle of emotions and how their parents treat them shapes how they are as an adult, even something tiny or unintentional can have a profound effect x
 
lolachi said:
It’s not pathetic at all, please don’t say that how you feel is totally valid. I had a traumatic childhood and it really does stick with you. I would say for me it’s sometimes the more “minor” incidents that had more of an impact. Children are a bundle of emotions and how their parents treat them shapes how they are as an adult, even something tiny or unintentional can have a profound effect x
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It really is! It can even be in a comment or how they react to something you've done that has an effect. Can't remember where I read the quote "mother is god in the eyes of a child" but it does ring true when you think how your parents do shape your childhood. I hope Reanne hasn't done it, it'd be so so awful for those kids. I sound ridiculous because I don't have kids therefore can't possibly imagine having multiple like she does! She must get unbelievably stressed and I do feel for her but still, can't be hitting your kids if true. Speaking of "if true" anyway, I feel like a bit of a dick now just sitting here speculating, do we have actual definitive proof of that? I'm not on social media so all the instagram stuff I only get from you guys on here x
 
tspnwn said:
Yeah I agree it really does have lasting effects. Not to sound dramatic but I'm well grown up now and when my mum shouts at me in a certain voice it still kinda scares me a bit as pathetic as that sounds 😂

That said, social services are so debatable. Look at all the cases of extremely abused children that have so sadly died at the hands of their parents but they didn't intervene :(
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It’s not stupid. I was the same but if the teacher roared at me (there was one that took me outside and roared at me for no reason at all, what I remember I was correcting him on something that happened in the class) the stupid bloody pain in the arse kid that always got sent out came walking down the corridor and seen my eyes start to water. I was completely fine but emotionally it bought back the emotions and that of what happened at home. After that I never heard the end of it from that kid 🙄 but to be fair everyone hated him he bullied year 7s every year.

I think the thing is people are viewing it as Ree may have had the kids taken off her for one reason “hitting the kids” when in reality social services would probably take them for more than one reason that we don’t know about or the extent of it. As someone said she’ll probably have had them for a while under child protection and we don’t really know the ins or outs. For all we know she could of hit the youngest which would be more at risk then hitting her oldest and it may not have been a first time thing it could just be the first time she’s got caught.

I just want to apologise as this taking kids off etc grinds my gears as being someone who was taken off and people make out social services does it for stupid reasons it really insults me due to my own experience
 
tspnwn said:
It really is! It can even be in a comment or how they react to something you've done that has an effect. Can't remember where I read the quote "mother is god in the eyes of a child" but it does ring true when you think how your parents do shape your childhood. I hope Reanne hasn't done it, it'd be so so awful for those kids. I sound ridiculous because I don't have kids therefore can't possibly imagine having multiple like she does! She must get unbelievably stressed and I do feel for her but still, can't be hitting your kids if true. Speaking of "if true" anyway, I feel like a bit of a dick now just sitting here speculating, do we have actual definitive proof of that? I'm not on social media so all the instagram stuff I only get from you guys on here x
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I think so far it’s just the comments on tiktok. I hope it’s not true, for the sake of the children!
I have a 3 year old and honestly I couldn’t imagine having 3 young babies, I think it would be incredibly stressful. Though if it is true it’s no excuse for her alleged behaviour. I’m sure Megan or billie will post something alluding to it if it is the case!
 
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