Stacey Solomon #32 Rex has a nasty gash but swipe up and make me some cash

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VeeP said:
The heck they can’t! Mine sure did ask me questions, forbid me to go to certain places, not to hang around some bad influences, made sure they knew where I was at all times. It’s called being involved in your child’s life and having severe consequences for lying. Phoning to make sure you are where you say you are. I was raised strictly but for my own good. There is no way SS could hide an entire 23 year old boyfriend and if they were okay with that, it’s disgusting for the parents to have allowed it and for fhe 23 year old to be essentially a pedalo.
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you know what my parents did the same….but teenage me couldn’t actually give a tit about lying to them even though there were severe consequences

you cannot know what your 17/18 year olds are doing every minute of the day (although these days it’s easier with all the tracker apps around!)

they need to make their own mistakes and live their lives.
 
Sp20191 said:
you know what my parents did the same….but teenage me couldn’t actually give a tit about lying to them even though there were severe consequences

you cannot know what your 17/18 year olds are doing every minute of the day (although these days it’s easier with all the tracker apps around!)

they need to make their own mistakes and live their lives.
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I agree with what you say to an extent because I know many teens will lie to their mum and dad but when an entire grown man is involved? I would be doing everything in my power to make sure he wouldn’t be around my girl again. That’s all I’m saying, really. That I don’t know any parent who’d be thrilled or ok with their child and a man being together. It’s criminal in parts of the world, even.
 
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This was only two years ago, look how much better she looks. No stupid smile, no mentally deranged look ....petition for bring back this Stacey
 
Summernights said:
View attachment 628664 qThis was only two years ago, look how much better she looks. No stupid smile, no mentally deranged look ....petition for bring back this Stacey
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The difference is actually scary!! She honestly looks like a different person, the orange hair really is so draining on her colouring.
But I wonder how much of it is down to having a baby and the lack of sleep that comes with that?
I have definitely aged 6 years in the last 2 thanks to my babies 😅
 
VeeP said:
I agree with what you say to an extent because I know many teens will lie to their mum and dad but when an entire grown man is involved? I would be doing everything in my power to make sure he wouldn’t be around my girl again. That’s all I’m saying, really. That I don’t know any parent who’d be thrilled or ok with their child and a man being together. It’s criminal in parts of the world, even.
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I can’t really say anything to that I was 16 and my husband was 20 when we met, so technically he was a man too (still together by the way and I’m now 32) would I be thrilled about my daughter being with a 23 year old at 17? no
could I do anything about it? Also no.

17 year olds can leave home, live on their own, have babies, there’s literally nothing you can do about it.
 
VeeP said:
The heck they can’t! Mine sure did ask me questions, forbid me to go to certain places, not to hang around some bad influences, made sure they knew where I was at all times. It’s called being involved in your child’s life and having severe consequences for lying. Phoning to make sure you are where you say you are. I was raised strictly but for my own good. There is no way SS could hide an entire 23 year old boyfriend and if they were okay with that, it’s disgusting for the parents to have allowed it and for fhe 23 year old to be essentially a pedalo.
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She 100% could have there was girls at my school who did exactly that . I'm involved in my kids lives but I'm sure they bend the truth a bit
 
VeeP said:
The heck they can’t! Mine sure did ask me questions, forbid me to go to certain places, not to hang around some bad influences, made sure they knew where I was at all times. It’s called being involved in your child’s life and having severe consequences for lying. Phoning to make sure you are where you say you are. I was raised strictly but for my own good. There is no way SS could hide an entire 23 year old boyfriend and if they were okay with that, it’s disgusting for the parents to have allowed it and for fhe 23 year old to be essentially a pedalo.
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have you heard of street grooming gangs? If you have children who will be teenagers I would totally recommend finding out about it. It’s a massive risk and happened to many girls from nice families
 
My 18 year old has a baby with a 21 year old, difference being he's the boy with an older girlfriend. Did I know about it? Yes. Was I happy about it? No, could I stop him? No. I was devastated when I found out about the baby, bit he's stepped up and fully supports them as do we. And he will probably go on to have more children with another woman (hopefully in at least 10 years 😉) so what does that make him or her? Also, not that it makes a difference, we are a 'nice' family, good jobs, married, own home etc live in a good area.
 
Sp20191 said:
you know what my parents did the same….but teenage me couldn’t actually give a tit about lying to them even though there were severe consequences

you cannot know what your 17/18 year olds are doing every minute of the day (although these days it’s easier with all the tracker apps around!)

they need to make their own mistakes and live their lives.
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I was pretty much same as a teen..i was often no where near where my mum thought i was !
Im pretty strict with my own kids though but try to explain why..as i did do one hell of a lot of stupid stuff and sometimes got myself in situations that put me in danger.
I dont like the tracking of people though..i know someone who does this to her entire family checking where they are - her eldest is at work and so is her husband ..they are both grown adults!
She randomly checks where they are during the day..I find it quite controlling !
 
Ineededausername said:
This thread often wanders down the mums net route...with people using their personal situations to justify their opinion, reading about someone's cousins friends wife's dog doesn't change others opinions. Just because something happens in someone's life it doesn't rejig society instantly as a result 🤦🏽‍♀️😂 Sorry not sorry 😂
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I was literally thinking this has turned into mumsnet!😂
Stace do something annoying please hun xo
 
grumpy-nosy-cow said:
I was pretty much same as a teen..i was often no where near where my mum thought i was !
Im pretty strict with my own kids though but try to explain why..as i did do one hell of a lot of stupid stuff and sometimes got myself in situations that put me in danger.
I dont like the tracking of people though..i know someone who does this to her entire family checking where they are - her eldest is at work and so is her husband ..they are both grown adults!
She randomly checks where they are during the day..I find it quite controlling !
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I admit to tracking my 11 year old when he’s out with his friends (not constantly just every now and again, I have severe anxiety so it stops me phoning him every 2 mins 🙈) BUT I’d never do it as an adult and I’m certain he wouldn’t have the tracker app on his phone anyway!
 
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