Maybe it shouldn’t but it really bothers me when Sophie uses the term lesbian to describe herself. I understand that people may have had realizations or not realized they were gay until later in life, but if you are still attracted to men and having sexual encounters with men (headboard banger), you are not a lesbian! Terms like bisexual and queer exist to encompass people who have attractions to both sexes. Even if you’re 95% into women and 5% into men, that is still bisexual. I find it harmful to actual lesbians for a bisexual woman like Sophie to use that label. It feeds into the harmful stereotype that lesbians secretly want men or “just haven’t met the right guy yet”.