I wasn’t going to get personal on here but the “nicest” guy I dated, ended up making me a basically a prisoner. He eventually got me a contract phone so I had no excuse to not call him and tell him where I was. He alienated me from my family, he did all he could to make me rely on him. I stupidly fell pregnant and it wasn’t planned obviously, he was fuming! He was adamant he didn’t want it and id be a struggling single mother. and unfortunately I lost that child, probably from all his
tit, but I lost that baby. The day it happened, I was slumped on the sofa in tears whilst he was telling me he’d actually thought about it and would like a family!!!!
He made my family believe he was a “nice guy who looked after me” they believed I had it made up, didn’t need to work, man with money and a nice house, when in reality, he got himself into debt to prevent me having a life!
And there was an age gap!!! I was 22 when we first started dating and he was 40! The age gap wasn’t a problem, I prefer older men, but nice guys, aren’t always nice guys.
I’m 31 now, married with 3 little ones, two are girls, and this terrifies me.
Paul is the exact type of guy that makes women absolutely TERRIFIED of any man that says their a “nice guy”: those words send shivers down my spine. I’ve dated 2 nice guys in my life, they had identical behaviour and were both absolute lunatics and abusers.
Women LOVE nice men, Paul, we just don’t like emotionally unstable twats that have a victim complex and threaten to off themselves whenever there’s a slight disagreement. YOURE AN EXHAUSTING HUMANBEING,