I was reading the recommended visitation with a dad in this situation if not exclusively bf and it should take place with the presence of the primary caregiver up until the baby is 12months old and then gradually increased alone time until overnights at 2yrs old. The fact these two have gone straight in with overnights and wkends at 3 months old baffles me, for love nor money I wouldn’t hand over my baby to let’s face it a virtual stranger overnight at 12 wks and I can’t see a judge enforcing that separation at this stage when it goes against the courts own expert recommendations. Does she have any motherly instinct?