Thank you! The amount of people who seem to think he’s not 50% responsible is really alarming
Exactly admitting you’re trying to get pregnant and having a one night stand call it what you want but it’s entrapment.
Absolutely. By not wearing a condom he effectively consented to the potential of both a child and chlamydia (or whatever else).
Well co- parenting or not he’s on the hook for child maintenance at least until the child is 18 or in some cases until they’re finished in full time education so that could be until the child is 23 (which is the agreement I have with my ex husband) That’s an expensive one night stand. If he pays €400 a month maintenance for 18 years that’s around €85,000/€86,000. If it’s until college is over then you’re looking at around €110,000 in todays money. Wowsers.
Surely she will have to learn how to cook actual food because the baby will need to be weaned at some point t and they can’t live off Camille or Deliveroo. What will she feed the poor child??? It’s like she’s one of those 16 and pregnant mothers who is utterly clueless about how to adult. Like how she’s 35 and can’t do basic adult things is beyond me.
I bleeping can't stick her, where "we" wanted to raise the child is she for realHoney I’m home
After several trips across the Irish Sea over the last few months, I am finally moved back to Dublin.
As humans, we are constantly evolving, and our values often change too.
A couple of years ago, I would never have thought that I would be happy living in Dublin, but I have changed (read: gotten older).
Now, the thoughts of sitting in a busy beach club in Bali has no appeal to me! I am really appreciating all the beautiful reasons to live in Ireland (chicken fillet rolls for one).
I love Ireland and being Irish, and there was no question of where we wanted to raise our baby. (Although ask me again in a couple of years when I'm standing in the rain at the side of a gaa pitch!).
I was going to say that this move wasn't part of the plan, but really - I never had a plan. I always went with what felt right at the time - including deciding on a whim to leave Bali and move to London last year.
It felt like the perfect stepping stone to this next chapter.
Perception is everything, and I find myself noticing all the small things that make me grateful to be home. These are things I took for granted and would have missed when I was living in Bali/Thailand/London.
I suppose there's a life lesson in that. When you look for things to be grateful for, no matter what the situation is, you can find a reason to appreciate what you have.
If you are always complaining or finding issues in things, you will never feel content in yourself.
This was just a little update email, and to let you know I am very ready to take on new clients for The Furnace.
I shared some feedback on my story today that came in. It was about the mindset section of The Furnace. It's not just about a training plan and a calorie target. It's how you learn to adapt them to your life, your goals and your values (which can change!).
If you want to get started, click the button below, or feel free to reply with any questions about how The Furnace works or if it would be suitable for you.
Thanks for reading,
Siobhan "Home is where the heart is" O'Hagan
And a 3 pack of condoms would be… what €2?
expensive lesson Ned .Would you go wayShe's an absolute bollox for getting up early, especially as she then needs naps throughout the day so it's clearly not benefitting her whatsoever but haaaaate this shite of oh sleep now coz u won't get any when the baby is here.
it could literally be years before she gets the opportunity to have a lie once she becomes a parent so yes she should (if thats her cup of tea) enjoy an auld lie in once in a while. It will be a rarity soon enough.
They are both absolute bell ends. I fully believe she planned to trap some poor soul. What sort of person willingly and knowingly changes someone’s whole world like that. Then there is him. He completely took the ginger fanny bait and he’s an idiot for not protecting himself, and having enough respect for the person he was doing the deed with, to wear a condom. So neither of them have any respect or consideration for other people and are only interested in what they personally gain from a situation, (quite literally) duck the other person and the impact it has on them. Sure, we need people like that raising babies
She’ll never show it though. She’ll admit it when the child is 18, after the fact. Like she’s always done. She always acts like it’s all wonderful at the time.Siobhan "if Darragh so much as looks at another girl I'm taking the child to Bali" O'Hagan
Watch this one go full psycho and a complete breakdown in their co-parenting at some stage. She does not have the emotional maturity or mental aptitude to handle such an event properly. .
I am here for it.
