Siobhan O’Hagan #46 Ned Philanderers has 'come' and gone, living differently didn't last long

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Nico93 said:
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once everyone is consenting and having a good time, they should be free to sleep with whoever they want, and however many people they want. “Acting the woman” is a harmful trope used to devalue women based on their number of sexual partners. No one should ever be made feel less than because of that number.

there are plenty of other complaints to be made about SOH and influencers in general, but sex shaming isn’t it IMO.
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I think it’s more about the lying. And having a baby with a man without it being planned that she doesn’t know (at best - in my opinion it was planned - everything is to coincidental - including him being from Dublin). That behaviour is shameful in my opinion and shows a harmful lack of empathy and selfishness.
 
Do we think on that faithful night when the folks, raisin and peanut were all gone to bed she swiped right on the Tinder machine with Darragh and said yep that's my guy and stomped straight to the Black Forge scrote fest!? She was there alone at 3 in the morning.
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steve1989 said:
The thoughts of being in that flat on my own with a newborn would give me anxiety. She will definitely move nearer baby daddy or her family.
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She should cut the bullshit and realise that now. She would save herself an estimated 30 grand. I think she is banking on making the big time as a mammy influencer. That's where her head is at right now as she dreams about travel with a baby and all the product endorsements.

The reality will be very different and she will be found out as she doesn't have the skills or drive to implement the step up as a mammy influencer.

She fails at the first test - basic hygiene.
She fails at the second test - ability to cook/prepare meals
 
lap said:
If she said something like this it would make her so much more likeable.
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Siobhan will be the best new mother ever, it will be a breeze to her, she will be saying, I wonder what all the fuss was about, the most amazing baby ever, so smart, smarter than the others etc.

Life will be perfect, morning walks, 3fe coffee, Grand Canal dock etc. "Oh Dublin - I'm so happy" "Bali, London, Alvor, Sydney - I feel sorry for all those lost unfulfilled souls"

Meanwhile there will be a lowly paid au-pair in the second bedroom up feeding the baby at night.
 
Spoofersthelotofthem said:
Do we think on that faithful night when the folks, raisin and peanut were all gone to bed she swiped right on the Tinder machine with Darragh and said yep that's my guy and stomped straight to the Black Forge scrote fest!? She was there alone at 3 in the morning.
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I don’t know, I wonder now if someone from the group Ned was with might know Peanut or his gf and the two groups met up at some point that night or over the weekend beforehand? They’d be around the same age and Dublin is small.
 
influencethis6 said:
Key word there "fakeness"
It's all bullshit.

She left Bali as she was the odd one out & it finally dawned on her that, sadly, the party was long over & she was still there. 34 & hanging out with 20 year old!
She literally washed, rinsed repeated the Bali 'experience' for several years. And gained nothing from it, except sun burned skin.

London was not a stepping stone. It was a 'duck it' I have overstayed & best move , but anywhere but home! And sure Diren will look after me if I move to London

I so wish she wasn't Irish. She is thd complete anthetis of an Irish woman. She is such a conceited, Bratish idiot.

It's all kittens & rainbows now playing house / getting ready for the baby. But the land of her life is just around the corner.

I doubt the "we" will survive the first 6 months.

And while I'm.ranting....We would all be up at 5am stomping about the place if we could schedule naps in to the day! We have real jobs, real families & guess what.. a real life!

Ahhhh she has annoyed the tit out me with that email!
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Exactly! She could hide her nonsense amongst all the other instahuns in Bali.
But you now are around people who knew her before insta went to her head. Surely she'd be embarrassed. Perhaps, another reason she hasn't moved back to Swords. She knows, deep down, she would be the subject of local amusement
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Yeah, it’s like she either saw Sinead and Jack getting on in Bali and wanted that life or panicked when she realised Sinead was heading back to Sydney, didn’t fancy that so thought duck it I’ll have a kid! It’s crazy behaviour!

If she came out and said my values changed but the child was unplanned but we’ve decided to make a go of it, even that would sound better but it’s the oh I didn’t have a plan but this was the perfect stepping stone for the plan that didn’t exist.
 
She did have a plan though. She said herself. Left Bali after an epiphany….i.e.she wanted the baby/man combo. Moved to London to achieve the plan. Found Ned. Executed plan. Pregnant. I think she thought she’d be in a relationship or that Ned would sleep walk into partnership with her. That didn’t happen and that is where the “oh I had no plan” shite comes from. Her plan failed at the point Ned acted like any rational human would.
 
Spoofersthelotofthem said:
Siobhan will be the best new mother ever, it will be a breeze to her, she will be saying, I wonder what all the fuss was about, the most amazing baby ever, so smart, smarter than the others etc.

Life will be perfect, morning walks, 3fe coffee, Grand Canal dock etc. "Oh Dublin - I'm so happy" "Bali, London, Alvor, Sydney - I feel sorry for all those lost unfulfilled souls"

Meanwhile there will be a lowly paid au-pair in the second bedroom up feeding the baby at night.
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With lots of ‘☺️☺️☺️’
 
For me personally and for most people presumably getting pregnant from a ONS would be their worst nightmare. She obviously did it on purpose. Is she too lazy to try and find a partner first? Or does she think she's so well equipped to be a parent she doesn't need the relationship part. I mean the woman is too lazy to pick up after herself. I'd love to ask her what her thought process was behind the decision.
 
Spoofersthelotofthem said:
Siobhan will be the best new mother ever, it will be a breeze to her, she will be saying, I wonder what all the fuss was about, the most amazing baby ever, so smart, smarter than the others etc.

Life will be perfect, morning walks, 3fe coffee, Grand Canal dock etc. "Oh Dublin - I'm so happy" "Bali, London, Alvor, Sydney - I feel sorry for all those lost unfulfilled souls"

Meanwhile there will be a lowly paid au-pair in the second bedroom up feeding the baby at night.
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She definitely thinks it will be like that. However she should have maybe caught up with her ex pal Felcity before she left London instead of Diren…. Felicity has said herself today that somethings got to give and for her it’s her instagram when she’s trying to be a good mum/partner/work …. and she seemed to have it much more together than Shiv! She’s in for a huge surprise!
 
The most worrying part of her toxic positivity for me is that any random could stumble across her insta and think she "has it all" - travelled the world living her 'best life', built a business, supportive partner, got pregnant easily, coming home to raise a child 'together', blah blah blah. That can have such a toll on people - especially women who are struggling to conceive. Single women. Etc. People with integrity who want a baby for genuine reasons, who could offer a child SO MUCH MORE than this reckless, selfish weapon of a woman.

To me, there's such a gap between SOH and a decent, genuine person with integrity and how they might handle this clusterfcuk of a situation.

Someone with integrity:
Gets preggers from a ONS - hey guys, this happened and honestly it threw me into a tailspin. I used to talk about my 'childfree' life but deep-down, I knew that it was something I might long for under different circumstances. It was a defence mechanism, really. I'd just never had that loving environment of a happy relationship - and I don't this time, either. It's unexpected, and I'm honestly scared of what's ahead. But I'm going to prioritise giving this child the best possible life. Hence moving home to Ireland, something I never really anticipated. Hence educating myself on motherhood, and working on my business during these months while I have the time.

SOH:
Gets preggers from a ONS - great news! "We're" knocked up and my values have changed so I'm moving home sneakily and then going to pretend it was the plan all along. "Living differently" and being child / mortgage / relationship-free in Bali / London? Don't know what you're talking about, I reserve the right to lie to anyone and everyone for years and build a business off the back of it and then suddenly change my tune when I'm reckless enough to get preggers through unprotected drunken sex with a randomer. Oh and as if that's not bad enough - now I'm hiding behind the 'privacy' value (something I've never demonstrated in any part of my life before) to pretend I've been responsible in this completely careless decision and am going to play happy families and allude to being loved up and coupled up with said randomer. Because fcuk it, make hay while the sun in shining - hashtag ad, hashtag spon, babies are expensive ya know?
And what's next for me is to probably to inadvertently shame women out there who can't get pregnant easily, or don't want to get pregnant, who knows - I might even get a decent business idea out of it.
 
Madamex said:
For me personally and for most people presumably getting pregnant from a ONS would be their worst nightmare. She obviously did it on purpose. Is she too lazy to try and find a partner first? Or does she think she's so well equipped to be a parent she doesn't need the relationship part. I mean the woman is too lazy to pick up after herself. I'd love to ask her what her thought process was behind the decision.
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The happiness was oozing out of her in December and when she made the announcement for something that went against every inch of her being and what she has been shouting about for years 🚩. If her pre pregnancy values meant that much to her she would have been absolutely traumatized during December. There's pictures of her the day after finding out at a Jiu Jitzu competition absolutely delighted because in her fucked up head she had bagged the double - the baby and the man something she convinced herself she would never get and with her personality I don't blame her. She's an utter dope.

That is exactly why I think she had an intention to let her guard down and took a what will be will be approach.

Also I think she doesn't want the baby - she wants the Instagram validation that comes with it and the new freebie market.
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Can someone get her spreadsheet and do an audit of the formulas . Shes talking bollix.
 
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