Simone Anderson #45 women's refuge money thief

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There's plenty of happy and wholesome families with involved parents who spend time with their kids in Hobsonville & Scott Point. The house has very little to do with it. Ultimately, it's just a building. There's tens of thousands of good mums and great parents in Auckland and whatever is stopping Simone from that kind of involvement has little to do with living in the city.

I would have thought someone who dreamed of being a mum would spend time with their kids, first and foremost. Maybe that's the place to start.
Did she dream of being a mum, or was it just a step on her perceived influencer ladder to "success"

She experienced the attention she received after the surgeries, what better to maintain this, plus the $ and freebies which goes with - than a wedding, then children. What life stage can you effectively "milk" for nine months, then post partum, then you have a cash cow for how ever long you choose to sell your child for. Add extra children, a pet, drama and she probably saw herself never having to pay for anything again. Influencer greed and planning at its finest.
 
Did she dream of being a mum, or was it just a step on her perceived influencer ladder to "success"

She experienced the attention she received after the surgeries, what better to maintain this, plus the $ and freebies which goes with - than a wedding, then children. What life stage can you effectively "milk" for nine months, then post partum, then you have a cash cow for how ever long you choose to sell your child for. Add extra children, a pet, drama and she probably saw herself never having to pay for anything again. Influencer greed and planning at its finest.
If we put aside the photo shopping, body obsession and we look at the actual value she brings in her career and home life it’s actually really sad.

If I remember right Trent chased her. I think he’s got controlling tendencies which she believes she needs. Her childhood was chaotic, parents separation, mums mental health issues etc. remember when they delayed their wedding and did that video? Trent was all “we will be getting married”

She has no personal marketable skill set apart from her self protecting control freak “everything must be just so” issues. Maybe her parents relationship was abusive and she’s that way because of that? Her weight loss was almost 10 years ago. Get over it Simone. Her kids will say no to pics very soon. Godbless MFM for being honest about Ronan not wanting pics. Would Simone do that?

Her hair and makeup stuff is average at best. She needs to get qualified and set up a basic salon at home. Simone blink twice if Trent would be ok with you being independent. Or working outside the home away from him for a couple of hours per day.

Trent’s parents being religious that’s fine, but I think Wendy is quite submissive and that’s why she’s helping T&S a lot. She seems lovely and caring and genuinely interested which gives me hope for Asher and Ryder. Trent has grown up with his mum mothering so he wants that from her in his relationship too.

Simome. It’s ok to be vulnerable. Honestly branch out and start providing for yourself.
 
I didn’t mean to detract from the lovely people who already live there. Who work hard with and for their families.

Yes and I suspect despite the outward appearances there, there are probably a few there who would be over the moon to get a fraction of the support Simone still enjoys from companies, despite her being unable to comply with the basic rules and regulations around influencer advertising - literally her actual job. Imagine going to a surgeon who couldn't figure out which way to hold a scalpel.
 
Yes and I suspect despite the outward appearances there, there are probably a few there who would be over the moon to get a fraction of the support Simone still enjoys from companies, despite her being unable to comply with the basic rules and regulations around influencer advertising - literally her actual job. Imagine going to a surgeon who couldn't figure out which way to hold a scalpel.
I think Simone is perfectly capable of complying, she just chooses not to. She knows the ASA have no power, and the very, very occasional slap of the wrist she receives does not seem to affect her at all. This despite the fact that she ‘forgets‘ to put ‘ad’ on her advertising sometimes several times a day.
 
She’s not a nice person. Clearly from friends who have ‘left’ her group there are undertones of nasty behaviour. We all know she has temper tantrums even if she tries to hide it. Trent will have some control. Sorry, but going from previous relationships she needs/wants this and probably has ‘dad’ issues. I just want to know what the rest of Trent’s family think of her when they all get together🤣
 
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Simmo liked this video on toilet training. Their philosophy is to basically keep them naked on day one and when you see them wee or poo, race them to the potty. Day 2, they will hold their wees etc a bit more and by day 3, you do 30 minutely potty breaks. I doubt Simmo could handle a naked Asher weeing and pooing in the nude around the house. It would kill her!
 
I maybe clueless when it comes to potty training as mine were pretty ok at it. Can I add that the nonverbal child who we did sign for was the best! But you do have to take time and at least a week. My theory was, if they were not wet after a nap or night time they understood how to hold themselves and that’s when I trained. Most were 2 yrs old and never needed a night brolley thing at all.
 
I maybe clueless when it comes to potty training as mine were pretty ok at it. Can I add that the nonverbal child who we did sign for was the best! But you do have to take time and at least a week. My theory was, if they were not wet after a nap or night time they understood how to hold themselves and that’s when I trained. Most were 2 yrs old and never needed a night brolley thing at all.
I haven't done it yet as my bub is only 6 months old and I imagine it can be quite time consuming and stressful at times but I recall Simmo acting all smug and silly while they were on a sponsored weekend away, instructing Asher to say words to the camera about toilets or potty (something along those lines) and was insinuating he was well on the way to being toilet trained. She'd never admit that she's actually really struggling with it and that it's harder than what she had imagined
 
to toilet train your child you need lots of time at home. Something Scammy could never do. She can't handle being at home one weekend, she's proven that. I've also never seen her have one on one time with A. Or Trenti he's always working they can't even have dinner together each night.

Speaking of her father itw been months and months or even close to a year since she has seen him. 👀
I wonder what Trenti got her for her birthday after all that?
F all. I suspect the partnerships drying up has resorting in trenti working over time to keep up with the mortgage/bills.

Ite very obvious in alot ways money seems to be abit tight.
 
Maybe she found a someone willing to diagnose her with ADHD and is abusing medication for that 🥴🥴

I wouldn’t wish this on anyone - I’m on medication for ADHD and am now underweight because I have no appetite, have to force down food every day just to maintain. It bleeping sucks having to choose between being able to function at life or enjoy eating. If she has done something like this she’s a massive bleep, elvanse is no joke
 
The shadow of the hand and phone made me so sad in the video of Ryder in the cot. Just the thought of waving a phone around in a sleepy baby’s face instead of turning out the light and giving them a cuddle and a kiss immediately, when she’s not even doing it for memories for herself, she’s doing it for Instagram. She posts so much parenting stuff as if she’s the best mum ever, but she’s doing so much damage with her need to show everything. It’s really really bleeping sad.
 
I wouldn’t wish this on anyone - I’m on medication for ADHD and am now underweight because I have no appetite, have to force down food every day just to maintain. It bleeping sucks having to choose between being able to function at life or enjoy eating. If she has done something like this she’s a massive bleep, elvanse is no joke
I’m so sorry! 🥰🥰 I know about this personally too - so I hope you don’t think I was making light/a joke of this situation!
… I also know people who abuse medications like this for improper purposes, and it definitely feels like something bitchface would do! 🤢🤬
 
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