Secret Celebrity Gossip #164

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EL1976 said:
I think people are overlooking the fact that Jade Goody was just 27 when she died. There’s no doubt in my mind she would have grown as a person as she matured into middle age. Can anyone in their 40’s on here say they are the same version as their late-20’s self? I know it took me until my mid 40’s to become the person I was always meant to be.
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I think she wanted to be liked so if people were making encouraging noises about what she was doing/saying then she would carry that in or increase it. We saw that with the stripping off in BB3. They were laughing at her but at the same time encouraging her so she continued doing it even though she was uncomfortable doing so.
I didn’t watch CBB or the bullying row but I can imagine she said a couple of things and because Danielle and Jo thought it was funny it encouraged her to go further and continue doing so as it made her feel part of their group and liked.
Immaturity in these situations definitely played their part.
 
peekachu said:
What makes you think she is neurodivergent?
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Sounds terribly unscientific but its a vibe I get from her. Since being diagnosed I feel like I can sniff out fellow neurodivergents a mile away!

For me it's the angst and "immaturity" in the lyrics, the difficulty in relationships. Her slight awkwardness, the flapping when she's excited, possible eating / weight issues, difficulty with food textures, obsessions and special interests.

I'm aware the above are all human traits and it's very hard to know where a cluster of traits turns into adhd / autism so it could just be that she has those traits or that they're due to something else (trauma / anxiety/ BPD can often look look like adhd and autism and vice versa)

Currently you only tend to be diagnosed or considered a problem if you're not able to contribute to capitalism - conveniently ignoring the mental toll on "high functioning" or "high masking" people. My husband and I are high functioning autistic and adhd respectively but we've been on anti-depressants our entire adult lives because the "productive" lives we lead are very difficult to cope with and involve us masking / suppressing our true selves.

I can see why a lot of people would write T.S off from a neurodiverse perspective (she's rich and successful so can't have it) but some people are lucky or privileged enough to harness the positive "power" they have. I'd imagine it's less of a barrier to a blonde attractive, white, middle class talented girl than it is for a person of colour who is working class and comes from an unstable home for example.

Again not saying she does have it just trying to broaden minds about how it looks and affects people. People get very defensive about "armchair diagnosis" because they think saying someone is anything other than "normal" is a huge insult and that to me reveals an ableist mindset which I think the vast majority of us have, myself included.

Btw, not trying to be combative just pre-empting the pile-on from people who see being different as something awful.

Sorry for the essay, my adhd meds have kicked in 🤣
 
Multi-21 said:
I think she wanted to be liked so if people were making encouraging noises about what she was doing/saying then she would carry that in or increase it. We saw that with the stripping off in BB3. They were laughing at her but at the same time encouraging her so she continued doing it even though she was uncomfortable doing so.
I didn’t watch CBB or the bullying row but I can imagine she said a couple of things and because Danielle and Jo thought it was funny it encouraged her to go further and continue doing so as it made her feel part of their group and liked.
Immaturity in these situations definitely played their part.
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Jack Tweed whispered in her ear when in bed,about shilpla he said to Jade she’s a ‘p**i,thick as tit he was Shilpla was Indian.😡
 
Dollylovesshoes said:
Jack Tweed whispered in her ear when in bed,about shilpla he said to Jade she’s a ‘p**i,thick as tit he was Shilpla was Indian.😡
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God having jade as your mum and jack as a step-dad would have turned those kids into utter pricks. If Jade had lived and continued to make money in the public eye she'd probably have remained immature and unpleasant. It usually takes some sort of adversity / hardship for horrible people to take a good look at themselves.
 
helcob1977 said:
God having jade as your mum and jack as a step-dad would have turned those kids into utter pricks. If Jade had lived and continued to make money in the public eye she'd probably have remained immature and unpleasant. It usually takes some sort of adversity / hardship for horrible people to take a good look at themselves.
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Yep. Tragic that she died at 27 but she was utterly vile and abhorrent.
 
You know Jessica, a satin slip dress with a split and knee high boots is EXACTLY what I wouldn’t pick out for a Kindergarten Graduation… 🙃
 

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Restless Native said:
Agreed she was a complete muppet.

What I never understood was how lightly Danielle Lloyd got off over the CBB scandal. She was another nasty piece of work
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Oh she is an absolute bleep. I think because at the time she was pretty (before mutilating her face) so the media let her off lightly. Lloyd's career was railroaded by her behaviour on CBB, she could have had a much more lucrative career but she's now an instahun shacked up with a drug dealer electrician.
 
Restless Native said:
Agreed she was a complete muppet.

What I never understood was how lightly Danielle Lloyd got off over the CBB scandal. She was another nasty piece of work
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Oh yes she was,all three of them,Jade,Jo and Lloyd all giggling and taking the piss out of Shilpla,when Shilpla was taking a shower they hid the towel.Cunts.I couldn’t believe what I was watchingGlad Sheringham had nothing to do with Lloyd.
 
Wee Nora said:
Not disagreeing that he has done a good job raising his kids but I just can’t get on board with his doting Dad persona after reading about him allegedly getting a Tattler pregnant and trying to force her into an abortion.
I know anyone can come on here anonymously and say anything they like about anyone but this felt too specific to be made up. Said Tattler decided she was having the baby with or without his support but sadly ended up miscarrying and when she contacted JB to tell him the news he posted something on Instagram about the universe delivering when he asked for help. Can’t remember all the details but that’s the jist.
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Yeah I didn't know this!
 
Phil Anne Throw Pee said:
Oh she is an absolute bleep. I think because at the time she was pretty (before mutilating her face) so the media let her off lightly. Lloyd's career was railroaded by her behaviour on CBB, she could have had a much more lucrative career but she's now an instahun shacked up with a drug dealer electrician.
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And the Pringles #neverforget :sick:
 
Wee Nora said:
Not disagreeing that he has done a good job raising his kids but I just can’t get on board with his doting Dad persona after reading about him allegedly getting a Tattler pregnant and trying to force her into an abortion.
I know anyone can come on here anonymously and say anything they like about anyone but this felt too specific to be made up. Said Tattler decided she was having the baby with or without his support but sadly ended up miscarrying and when she contacted JB to tell him the news he posted something on Instagram about the universe delivering when he asked for help. Can’t remember all the details but that’s the jist.
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Yes, I remember this post. Here it is:

Jeff Brazier

For what it's worth hes done well bringing those boys up. But I think hes split with his wife. Both unfollowed each others on Instagram and shes removed her ring picture. Hes also done some snidey comments on his latest thread. About caring for the boys unlike some people !
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I’m sure he’s done a great job of raising the kids, but surely that’s the absolute bare minimum you can expect from a parent. It pisses me off that men get praised to high heavens when they’ve taken on the ‘burden’ of their kids as a single dad when literally millions of women do that every day. I know a bloke who has custody of his kids as his wife is an alcoholic and you should have seen the state of them sometimes when they turned up at school, yet everyone talked about him like he was some kind of saint. The bar is incredibly low for men and their kids.
 
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