Sarah's Day #76 Three kids, in over her head, neglectful by choice, all you hear is her own selfish voice

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edendv said:
She was pregnant and knew she was pregnant in NZ. She speaks about it in later vlogs after she had announced about how she just wanted party pies and nuggets and even went to buy skittles but realised they had gluten in them. So yeah, she was snowboarding pregnant with Fox and she knew it too.
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Thank you 😊 She also said when her and Kurt were talking just before the gender reveal for Fox that she thinks it’s a girl! Kurt’s guess was a boy 😂
 
cumcustard said:
View attachment 3252541 qWtf is this lunchbox??? Where’s the food? I think this is the worst one yet! This looks like morning tea. Where’s his lunch? I hope the educators at his kindy/ daycare give him a sneaky sandwich.
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Just turkey??? I know kids love to eat the turkey/cheese whatever off their bread but at least put some bread in there in case he is hungry which he will be after this lunchbox of nothingness!!
 
Jesus what the heck is that lunch! My daughters pre school here in the UK provide all her food for the day. She has a muffin or cereal for breakfast, something warm for lunch such as lamb and pearl barley stew or parsnip soup with garlic bread along with fruit and yoghurt, a oatcake or breadstick for a snack mid afternoon then her ‘mini dinner’ is usually veggies and humous with fruit or sardines on toast. That’s for roughly 8 hours a day. I will then usually feed her something at home before she goes to sleep. On the days where she’s home with me it’s a similar variety of food. She’s the same age as Fox with just as much energy. The fact she thinks that is a healthy meal for a growing boy just proves how distorted her relationship with food is. If she had proper nutritional education she would be offering much more food for that boy which solidifies the fact that she should absolutely not be spouting nutritional education online for thousands of impressionable people.
 
This picture of his lunchbox, plus the evidence of her saying no to F when he asked for Sarah’s food,(but then allowed M to eat her food) starts feeding the seed that she could be restricting him slowly. She has this idea that F would be strong, (which for her is shredded and lean), M to be her little chef/foodie so he is allowed to be “soft” “angelic”.
The different dynamic in how she treats both children makes you wonder what really goes on behind the scenes…
 
cumcustard said:
View attachment 3252541 qWtf is this lunchbox??? Where’s the food? I think this is the worst one yet! This looks like morning tea. Where’s his lunch? I hope the educators at his kindy/ daycare give him a sneaky sandwich.
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Wowsers! Can’t wait to compare to my preschool lunches next year. Again, my kids would be done with that by 10am. Wtf is wrong with her
 
BooBoobedoo said:
This picture of his lunchbox, plus the evidence of her saying no to F when he asked for Sarah’s food,(but then allowed M to eat her food) starts feeding the seed that she could be restricting him slowly. She has this idea that F would be strong, (which for her is shredded and lean), M to be her little chef/foodie so he is allowed to be “soft” “angelic”.
The different dynamic in how she treats both children makes you wonder what really goes on behind the scenes…
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Yes! She is sooo weird! Its sad but fascinating to watch at the same time. The way she always describes 🦊 as strong, the man of the house and a protector. Which is soooo strange to call a 5 year old the protector.
We’ve seen her portion sizes for the whole family too. She doesnt even give Kurt a man sized portion. And complains that he devours all the lasagne when having seconds. Thats because her lasagne is pathetic with two layers of pasta. You’d think he would say something about all this but maybe he’s scared of her.
 
cumcustard said:
Yes! She is sooo weird! Its sad but fascinating to watch at the same time. The way she always describes 🦊 as strong, the man of the house and a protector. Which is soooo strange to call a 5 year old the protector.
We’ve seen her portion sizes for the whole family too. She doesnt even give Kurt a man sized portion. And complains that he devours all the lasagne when having seconds. Thats because her lasagne is pathetic with two layers of pasta. You’d think he would say something about all this but maybe he’s scared of her.
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Thank you for seeing my point of view.
I remember seeing her cooking videos where she showed her lasagna, however she was sooooo sneaky and showed the audience Kurt’s portion and her portion was SIGNIFICANTLY smaller. Hers was the same as F and M’s. She was approx 33 wks pregnant.
Her behaviours around food is concerning, not only for her, but her family too.
 
Every time she posts these she spells bocconcini in some new and fucked up way. This is the worst yet
 

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I can't believe that's all the food she gives fox for the day whole 6 hours, my 2 kids have small recess box with snacks, then a lunch box fruit and sandwhich and snacks then a crunch and sip container with fruit, they literally take 2 lunchbox and 1 container seem excessive, but if i sent them with 1 lunchbox they would literally come home and eat the entire pantry that would be that hungry, she clearly under feds him or he's not a great eater like she say he is lol
 
Can't wait until her boys are teenagers and eat her out of house and home. My two teenage nephews (16 & 14) and niece (5) visited last weekend and they ate:
3 litres of juice, 2 large bags of chips, extra large French stick, 3 containers of dips, a large platter of chopped veges for the dip, 2 punnets of strawberries and an entire rockmelon....:oops: they then went to my sisters where that ate 3 packets of biscuits and an entire cake. Mind you, they didn't come for lunch that was just the snacks hahahaha.
 
At this point, I’m convinced that the lunchbox posts are purely baiting to incite a bit of rage and increase her engagement. The lack of carbohydrates in that lunchbox is abhorrent, and there is absolutely no way an early childhood educator (who has a duty of care to ensure that children are being adequately fed) would see that, inevitably have to deal with a hungry 5 year old who would easily consume the whole amount in less than 10 minutes, and not ask the parents to pack food more food - with enough energy to fuel a growing child for the entire day.

And honestly, employees at centers in NSW are mandatory reporters who have an obligation to report neglect to the DoJ if a child is not having their needs met. So if the preschool has asked them to pack more (and she’s not), then she’s actually treading a dangerous line and risking opening a can of worms where their family may be investigated.

Like I said, I want to believe that this is just rage baiting. But if it’s not, at least she’s got eyes on her who have a legal obligation to report neglect if it is occurring.
 
kitty_cat123 said:
I can't believe that's all the food she gives fox for the day whole 6 hours, my 2 kids have small recess box with snacks, then a lunch box fruit and sandwhich and snacks then a crunch and sip container with fruit, they literally take 2 lunchbox and 1 container seem excessive, but if i sent them with 1 lunchbox they would literally come home and eat the entire pantry that would be that hungry, she clearly under feds him or he's not a great eater like she say he is lol
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My kid would throw this at me and ask where her sammich was 😂
 
bw19 said:
At this point, I’m convinced that the lunchbox posts are purely baiting to incite a bit of rage and increase her engagement. The lack of carbohydrates in that lunchbox is abhorrent, and there is absolutely no way an early childhood educator (who has a duty of care to ensure that children are being adequately fed) would see that, inevitably have to deal with a hungry 5 year old who would easily consume the whole amount in less than 10 minutes, and not ask the parents to pack food more food - with enough energy to fuel a growing child for the entire day.

And honestly, employees at centers in NSW are mandatory reporters who have an obligation to report neglect to the DoJ if a child is not having their needs met. So if the preschool has asked them to pack more (and she’s not), then she’s actually treading a dangerous line and risking opening a can of worms where their family may be investigated.

Like I said, I want to believe that this is just rage baiting. But if it’s not, at least she’s got eyes on her who have a legal obligation to report neglect if it is occurring.
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I get what your saying but DCJ are not going to bother investigating this, he’s being fed, sure it’s not what a lot of people feed their kids and she has an obvious issue with food and this life surrounding food will cause issues for the kids but DCJ can barely investigate the kids who have no lunches daily
 
She basically confirmed unless F does some kind of activity, she doesn’t give him a big lunch. I can’t remember exactly what it was, but she posted a story (was discussed here) saying F had Karate or something so she made sure he had a big lunch (it was a normal lunch lol).
 
pippyforyou said:
She basically confirmed unless F does some kind of activity, she doesn’t give him a big lunch. I can’t remember exactly what it was, but she posted a story (was discussed here) saying F had Karate or something so she made sure he had a big lunch (it was a normal lunch lol).
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I remember her saying that. So I guess she thinks it’s ok to eat a little more as long as you’re burning it off? It’s all about weight?
 
saaahhhhreal said:
I get what your saying but DCJ are not going to bother investigating this, he’s being fed, sure it’s not what a lot of people feed their kids and she has an obvious issue with food and this life surrounding food will cause issues for the kids but DCJ can barely investigate the kids who have no lunches daily
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Yes your right. I think she’s neglectful and disordered. But there are a lot of kids who dont bring lunch to school at all and dont eat breakfast beforehand.
I remember when my girls were at school, a boy used to steal from lunchboxes and it was very sad. The school ended up providing food. They put on breakfast every morning for the kids who didn’t eat at home.too.
This will bite her in the butt when they are older. F being so restricted now will make him binge behind her back.
 
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