Sarahs Day #52 Thriving off the fact that her two week old is hospitalised because it boosts her engagement

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2xblended said:
I was thinking about this, and I believe there is a middle ground. What I suggested earlier was the middle ground: pause all your promotional stuff and don't exploit your son's illness!
They needed one unified post on their grid saying: "Due to unexpected circumstances, we're going to be offline for a while. We'll be back soon." and left it there.

Would it have caused some speculation? Maybe. But whatever the speculation, it would have been better than people thinking the baby was dead because of her vague-booking and baiting posts (what was that post about her praying over his body earth side or something?). I mean, that was just awful and caused a lot of people to panic! That is what leads to wild speculation.

I'd like to think the middle ground of silence on both their channels would have been respected by everyone. It is hard to respect her choice to repeatedly post her baby with his nasal tubes or in his hospital crib, in between ads for skincare products and a Whitefox sweater, as she is now. The last picture of the baby is pure exploitation and it's quite hard to overlook that this is an active choice she is making to garner sympathy for herself.

I do hear you that sometimes people get too nit-picky- I was not in the last thread, but I do feel this happens at various points. In this case, though, the topic is quite sensitive and people are hurting and upset, so I feel they're noticing details and reacting from a place of concern over the baby, not hatred of Sarah.
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Personally I think if they’d both disappeared that would’ve created more speculation, and outrage at her ‘baiting’ than what she has shown.
Id be more inclined to think the baby had died or was really really sick if that were the case, rather than us being able to see he’s quite alive from what she’s shown.
I actually don’t think the ‘morning routine’ reel was an ad at all. She barely showed the skincare, it was from brands that she didn’t tag as well.
Was it necessary? No. But it’s her ‘thing’ on insta/vlogs, and with not much else to do with a newborn in hospital I’m not really mad at her for banging that reel together.
And as for the White Fox? Well the Balenciaga was probably in the wash. 😉
I am also super guilty of nit picking, so no judgement for anyone there.
I just think it’s a bit far for people to be outright saying she wished her baby was dead, was trying to kill him etc.
she might make dumb decisions but I think it’s a bit far to be making serious allegations like that (and makes us look even more unhinged to whatever stan stumbles into our threads tbh).
 
WhiteFox said:
To the person above….you are right.
Sarahs day is no longer mentioned as a collaborator on white fox.

Hopefully this means it’s the end of that collab
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I think she mentioned in a story about wanting to collaborate with WFB again, but the stories cut off.
It seemed that they have ended the contract with her, or cut ties after the mess she has been in re CA, lack of sales...
 
ohnaur said:
Wait does anyone mind explaining why we are calling Kurt brother-husband hahaha
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I think the brother-husband thing comes from their weird sibling-like relationship. They don’t really seem like a romantic couple to me, more like roommates or siblings that live together. I don’t think I have ever seen them kiss apart from the wedding? Do they even like each other romantically? It doesn’t seem like it. They don’t really go on dates besides taking fox to the park, which isn’t really a date.
 
2xblended said:
They are under contract and will have to keep to an agreed schedule, so this would have been in his posting queue and automated. But it's still quite gross. He could have called Malibu and told them they're in crisis and he'd take up posting after everything was resolved, then paused his scheduled posts. It would have taken 2 minutes of work total.
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Yes, and at this point, Kurt not posting is to M's benefit. I'm really torn/curious about where Kurt is at rn, and it's crazy to think that we just have to assume whatever Sarah shows isn't true. I understand us wanting him to prove his positive attachment via photos and posts but there really is no way for us to know what Kurt's situation actually is, especially if it threatens Sarah in some way which she proves is often the case. Him sharing that he struggles to connect with infants doesn't equal "I don't like my son." He's been bolstering his business and posting less personal/connections to Sarah anyway.

I feel, truly, that if his side of the family doesn't step in, this is going to be an extremely unfortunate situation. My empathy for Kurt is bc of his potential status as a victim of abuse, and that he's their kids best shot at a healthy life. With the severity of their situation rn, I prioritize that alongside my issues with his morals/ethics.

All that to say, yes, contracts should be considered. Which makes doing skincare routines in hospitals convenient for a certain broken little baby bird
 
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"I've been telling al the nurses that my hobby while I'm here is eating"

You've just eaten some chocolate chickpeas witch, do you understand how disordered that is and fucked up to say while you're 2 week old is in the hospital?! Your "hobby" should be looking after your child, feeding HIM and checking he doesn't suffocate on those blankets and eating should just be something you're doing to survive, it shouldn't be at the forefront of your mind.
 
ActivatedAlmonds said:
"I've been telling all the nurses that my hobby while I'm here is eating"
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The nurses as soon as they leave the room:

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ActivatedAlmonds said:
"I've been telling al the nurses that my hobby while I'm here is eating"

You've just eaten some chocolate chickpeas witch, do you understand how disordered that is and fucked up to say while you're 2 week old is in the hospital?!
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Also, I'm not sure eating chocolate chickpeas is the flex she thinks it is. Hoeing into a family size block of Cadburys, or demolishishing a pack of Tim Tams would make her infinitely more likeable and relatable. Nibbling on a tiny pack of chocolate coated legumes (god I hope they're organic!) and calling it your "hobby" doesn't make you seem all chill and unrestricted with food, it just makes you look weird.
 
bleeepblooop said:
Yes, and at this point, Kurt not posting is to M's benefit. I'm really torn/curious about where Kurt is at rn, and it's crazy to think that we just have to assume whatever Sarah shows isn't true. I understand us wanting him to prove his positive attachment via photos and posts but there really is no way for us to know what Kurt's situation actually is, especially if it threatens Sarah in some way which she proves is often the case. Him sharing that he struggles to connect with infants doesn't equal "I don't like my son." He's been bolstering his business and posting less personal/connections to Sarah anyway.

I feel, truly, that if his side of the family doesn't step in, this is going to be an extremely unfortunate situation. My empathy for Kurt is bc of his potential status as a victim of abuse, and that he's their kids best shot at a healthy life. With the severity of their situation rn, I prioritize that alongside my issues with his morals/ethics.

All that to say, yes, contracts should be considered. Which makes doing skincare routines in hospitals convenient for a certain broken little baby bird
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This is so interesting! I love this perspective because if anyone remembers Kurt discussing his previous relationship, he had said that he wasn't happy and that he felt like it had really torn him down. Obviously we only see a snippet of their relationship and most of which is a "highlight" reel, but even that seems like they have an odd dynamic. I think the pressure started when they were only two years in and had already moved out together/were expecting a child. That's just my opinion tho!
 
So I got halfway though yesterdays stories and had to put my phone down in disgust.. Imagine thinking for a second that it’s okay to complain that the hospital chair that has been provided to you 1) is so noisy that when you need to move you wake up MKT 2) that it’s your “uncomfortable bed..”

How about being greatful for one bleeping second that you’ve been provided said noisy chair? The staff at the hospital did NOT have to provide you any kind of comfort, but instead, they decided to provide you with a high back padded chair and all you can do is complain about it? Is this head serious? What a first world problem to complain about..

A hospital is NOT your own personal hotel room Sarah, get a bleeping grip and dose of reality already. Your poor baby boy is struggling and all you can do is film your morning (skin care) routine to pass the time? 🤬
 
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BooBoobedoo said:
I think she mentioned in a story about wanting to collaborate with WFB again, but the stories cut off.
It seemed that they have ended the contract with her, or cut ties after the mess she has been in re CA, lack of sales...
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WFB are probably off too find their latest "young, pretty, skinny blonde" influencer. Haggard, aged, bitchy, 45 year old women are not the aesthetic they are going for.
 
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