Sarahs Day #52 Thriving off the fact that her two week old is hospitalised because it boosts her engagement

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PiesAndLattes said:
Heya, sorry about that! It really isn’t intentional.

As I mostly create the new threads, I’ll explain quickly how I chose the thread title. I sort the post by most liked and then scroll through to find any thread titles. If it is something that has been created a little while ago (which now can only be days as these threads are moving fast) I check if there is something next in line closer to the day of thread creation. If it is more relevant to the situation occurring (ie this hospital visit) I will use that one instead as when people google certain terms it brings up the thread page.

It really isn’t intention, and I’m sorry it’s happened 4 times as that must be frustrating! I just try keep it super relevant to get the thread more views etc.
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ahah oh my god no worries :) completely understand!
 
Anyone catch her saying “I’m due for a feed soon” 🙄

also if Kurt was calling her when she was at home saying mal was ready to feed, does that mean he was allowed in with him??

I’m a labor nurse and I see people come to visit their babies in NICU all the time as it is attached to our unit. No one is carrying designer bags, I’ll tell you that much.

incredibly strange that she has not mentioned missing her other child!!! What the heck!!

lastly, while I totally understand that parents want to capture their small babies through pictures because they are growing and changing so rapidly, I don’t think that every photo needs to be shared especially during such a vulnerable and (what should be) private time.
 
Her post about being positive and grateful just kind of fell flat for me. You would think she would mention having a supportive family there to help, her happy son at home being taken care of by her great husband and giving thanks to all the medical staff giving care to her son. Nope. Just another opportunity to pump herself up to her followers. Sadly, if she said anything of the sort, it would be less "poor me" driven and the attention would not pour in.

Someone above made a very good point about Sarah's behaviour and her potentially feeling under watch in the medical setting. Sarah isn't someone that is very good with the small details, timelines and routines. She's used to a very "wing it", seat of her pants approach to mostly everything and a medical environment would clash with that kind of attitude. Also, I wouldn't be surprised if she felt super uncomfortable being surrounded by all that Western medicine that she has vocalized a strong distrust of.
 
Anyone follow Leighannsays? She had a baby with health problems almost a year ago, hasn’t made a single video since birth. Disappeared from social media for 3 months. Hasn’t posted a single picture from the hospital or shared what her baby’s condition is. All she’s shared is that she had a tube down her nose (oxygen? No idea) and that she has had speech therapy since the very beginning.
 
baloo_14 said:
I followed Beth for awhile but I find her just as shallow as Sarah tbh. She posts selfies of her flat stomach and thigh gap knowing exactly what that does to other women who struggle with their own body image after birth.
Also the more they shove the bible in their Instagram posts the more disingenuous it feels. It’s performative Christianity in my books.
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Agree. She seems like a very basic and shallow person. Lacking depth and any real culture. I find it hard to view.
 
UARxyz said:
Anyone follow Leighannsays? She had a baby with health problems almost a year ago, hasn’t made a single video since birth. Disappeared from social media for 3 months. Hasn’t posted a single picture from the hospital or shared what her baby’s condition is. All she’s shared is that she had a tube down her nose (oxygen? No idea) and that she has had speech therapy since the very beginning.
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i checked her out, looks like she did post from the hospital but it was very much “please respect our privacy” and “my concern is my baby, I’ll update as appropriate” which is really great. Looks like baby had a feeding tube for a while but I don’t see any mentions of what the health condition was. Seems like she handled the situation appropriately unlike sez
 
UARxyz said:
Anyone follow Leighannsays? She had a baby with health problems almost a year ago, hasn’t made a single video since birth. Disappeared from social media for 3 months. Hasn’t posted a single picture from the hospital or shared what her baby’s condition is. All she’s shared is that she had a tube down her nose (oxygen? No idea) and that she has had speech therapy since the very beginning.
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Yep and I believe she shared a little bit regarding some treatments they had to travel for for baby, but I do remember either a post or story from her saying that basically someday she thinks she’ll share what they’re going through, but they aren’t ready yet so please respect that. It was done very tastefully if I’m remembering correctly.
 
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What is she even trying to say with these emotions.
 
lazydonut said:
Yep and I believe she shared a little bit regarding some treatments they had to travel for for baby, but I do remember either a post or story from her saying that basically someday she thinks she’ll share what they’re going through, but they aren’t ready yet so please respect that. It was done very tastefully if I’m remembering correctly.
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yes yes well she shared a little bit just to let us know they’re alive basically 🙈 i was just kind of exaggerating to make a point on how she could choose to handle virtually the same situation..
 
You know what, duck her.
Even if she IS going through something, PPD or whatever, you’re Sarah’s bleeping Day. Your privilege will ensure you get what you need.

I had a baby recently, and if they had to go to hospital I’d be fucked, because I don’t have family, I don’t have a supportive partner. I don’t have 1.2M followers that will send me tit if I say I need it. My other children would literally have to come with me.

duck 👏 THAT 👏 witch 👏
 
fallingtides said:
I don't want to dismiss mania as a response to trauma and stress - but everything about her always feels so calculated that it's hard.
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Her mania is a response to the fact she's realised she essentially tried to kill her baby, garnering sympathy the whole time, and gotten away with it. Wearing him wrong, filming him coughing and headbobbing, taking him to a party. He was often blue/purple, apparently not even feeding "for days". Remember when he first came into the world he was a cluster feeder, and how much she HATED it. I honestly believe she restricted his feeding which is why he went so lethargic and started refusing. All the while she was posting about how sick he was and how it was impacting HER, letting all that sympathy from her teenage stans who have no idea about being a mother or the true seriousness and extent of her actions. And then finally decided to actually take him to hospital, probably because Kurt begged. She is 100% on a manic "high" because she did all this, got the reactions she wants, and once he's better (I genuinely PRAY to GOD he gets better) she will be able to take him home with no repercussions. Having her baby didn't fill that void she had, its all these actions and the sympathetic responses she received that filled her cup. She will do this again.
 
passerby123 said:
Obv she is manic with the hospital chair stories.. but at the same time anyone else thought.. at least she’s staying in the hospital and sitting around.. unlike Leah Itsines 🙄🙄
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Leah is way too attached to Mitch, I don’t think Sarah and brother-husband have that same relationship haha

ohnaur said:
Anyone catch her saying “I’m due for a feed soon” 🙄

also if Kurt was calling her when she was at home saying mal was ready to feed, does that mean he was allowed in with him??

I’m a labor nurse and I see people come to visit their babies in NICU all the time as it is attached to our unit. No one is carrying designer bags, I’ll tell you that much.

incredibly strange that she has not mentioned missing her other child!!! What the heck!!

lastly, while I totally understand that parents want to capture their small babies through pictures because they are growing and changing so rapidly, I don’t think that every photo needs to be shared especially during such a vulnerable and (what should be) private time.
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I think this is because she is the most selfish person and just thinks about herself. It should have been “baby is due for a feed soon” but she’s so wrapped up in herself it just came out as “I”.
 
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