As annoying as she can be in ways I am 10000% Team Sarah on this one! He wasted 7 years of her life then blind sided and discarded her for a new and shiny new person.. it is so textbook and it is seriously
crappy on Joes part.. I bet he had started something before the end of the relationship
also of course she’s thinking of marriage at her age and after that long together..absolute BS that she shouldn’t “apply” pressure.. this just allows men the narrative of it being the woman’s fault when they’re looking for real commitment