Sara asiya - misssaraasiya

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uglybettybetty said:
Plus how could anyone be in a relationship knowing it’s a “mutual exchange” that makes it sound like a business deal😭😭😭 yuck
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Literally every relationship involves a series of exchanges though? It doesn’t have to be the most salacious extremes of sugaring/sex work but even the very normal primary breadwinner/primary parent set up is an exchange of money, labour, health, potential, etc.!

And yeah the catch here is clearly a bloke wanting domestic support to manage (at least) two teenage daughters.
 
I think the true ‘soft life’ exists for very few. In my experience the vast majority are miserable stay at home Moms/Wives who are financially trapped and get given a bit of pocket money. I think she’s been watching far too many ‘sprinkle sprinkle’ videos, and the reality of not working and being financially dependent on a man can be horrific for many. The happiness that handbags and shoes deliver is very short lived, and for all we know he could be monitoring every purchase.

The red flag for me is the ‘pictures please’ line. Why would you ask your partner for pics when you know they’re out meeting their friends? Sounds like he wanted evidence of where she is and who she’s with while he’s working. I sensed by some of her content prior to getting into this relationship that she was absolutely desperate to be in a relationship (which I’m not judging). But when you come from a place of desperation, you can accept poor and even abusive standards.

Also the girls in the pic are her friends. Of what I remember he has a young son.
 
Amyk86 said:
I think the true ‘soft life’ exists for very few. In my experience the vast majority are miserable stay at home Moms/Wives who are financially trapped and get given a bit of pocket money. I think she’s been watching far too many ‘sprinkle sprinkle’ videos, and the reality of not working and being financially dependent on a man can be horrific for many. The happiness that handbags and shoes deliver is very short lived, and for all we know he could be monitoring every purchase.

The red flag for me is the ‘pictures please’ line. Why would you ask your partner for pics when you know they’re out meeting their friends? Sounds like he wanted evidence of where she is and who she’s with while he’s working. I sensed by some of her content prior to getting into this relationship that she was absolutely desperate to be in a relationship (which I’m not judging). But when you come from a place of desperation, you can accept poor and even abusive standards.

Also the girls in the pic are her friends. Of what I remember he has a young son.
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This was my thoughts too. It raised a red flag especially because he said it in such a “sweet” way. Automatically thought that was weird
 
I remember her from her ratchet twitter days, she was v racist towards south Asians and arabs. She is proud of taking it up the ass btw, I think that’s why older white guys pumped and dumped her. Her mother looks HAGGARD af and obviously enables her to find a rich man cos they had a poor upbringing. She does the most to amalgamate herself into being a British white girl, surely she must miss spicey food when she’s forcing that cotswold lifestyle on herself. She’s always been boy crazy, so no suprise that she jumps from man to man. The guy she’s with now is the same height as her
 
Just saw the video where she’s talking about this thread🙂😂😂 I always find it really funny when creators make actual posts about their tattle thread, they are just promoting it. that’s how I was introduced to this website, when someone that I followed made a post about it. I made an account and have been here ever since. She must be lurking here every day and the comments must’ve really got to her for her to address it the way she did.
 
uglybettybetty said:
Just saw the video where she’s talking about this thread🙂😂😂 I always find it really funny when creators make actual posts about their tattle thread, they are just promoting it. that’s how I was introduced to this website, when someone that I followed made a post about it. I made an account and have been here ever since. She must be lurking here every day and the comments must’ve really got to her for her to address it the way she did.
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this. As someone said, if she was truly unbothered she wouldnt give it a second thought, but she is obviously peeping this thread nearly everyday AND made a video about it, thats how ‘unbothered’ she is 🤣 i still havent seen the video but I’m sure I can imagine her bullshit

i love it when they advertise this forum as so many people come in and have their eyes opened
 
what she needs to do is get her fiance to invest some major therapy for her so she can understand why she is so superficial and only cares about the materialistic things her fiance can give her.

in the words of the great come dine with me contestant… ‘what a sad little life jane’
 
I do find her mannerisms a bit cringe but I’ll be honest I don’t get why people are mad she’s literally mid 30s dating a guy with a good salary. Designer gifts are normal when you earn that much. Some women are getting gifted luxury cars lol
 
qtr100 said:
I do find her mannerisms a bit cringe but I’ll be honest I don’t get why people are mad she’s literally mid 30s dating a guy with a good salary. Designer gifts are normal when you earn that much. Some women are getting gifted luxury cars lol
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Good for her, I think it’s amazing if she is in a happy relationship with a man who wants to spoil her and make her feel appreciated. But her reliance on the material things aren’t good and after a while she will feel empty even from the most extravagant of gifts. It’s bizarre also how she almost gets a kick out of boasting about it? I think that’s what rubs so many people up the wrong way. The fact that she almost advertises it is really unclassy and as you said, really cringe! Overall she seems to be quite a boastful person and it’s just so icky. The way she salivates over material things is weird and could indicate she relies on that stuff for temporary dopamine fixes but that’s just my opinion
 
uglybettybetty said:
Good for her, I think it’s amazing if she is in a happy relationship with a man who wants to spoil her and make her feel appreciated. But her reliance on the material things aren’t good and after a while she will feel empty even from the most extravagant of gifts. It’s bizarre also how she almost gets a kick out of boasting about it? I think that’s what rubs so many people up the wrong way. The fact that she almost advertises it is really unclassy and as you said, really cringe! Overall she seems to be quite a boastful person and it’s just so icky. The way she salivates over material things is weird and could indicate she relies on that stuff for temporary dopamine fixes but that’s just my opinion
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Exactly! She probably assumes we’re saying these things out of jealousy or because we don’t have the same in our relationships. Maybe some are speaking from that place, but not all of us.

My partner is more than capable of buying me whatever I want and when he does I don’t need to post on my social media to boast about it. I don’t place that much value on material things or judge the worth of my relationship based on what he can buy. I also don’t feel the need to post daily unboxing videos for strangers.


She did the same thing in her previous relationships too. When she was with that older guy, she constantly posted about the expensive restaurants he took her to and the things he bought her. If someone feels the need to post about these things constantly, it’s either due to low self-esteem or because they’re trying to convince others of how great their relationship is.
 
Pinkii said:
Exactly! She probably assumes we’re saying these things out of jealousy or because we don’t have the same in our relationships. Maybe some are speaking from that place, but not all of us.

My partner is more than capable of buying me whatever I want and when he does I don’t need to post on my social media to boast about it. I don’t place that much value on material things or judge the worth of my relationship based on what he can buy. I also don’t feel the need to post daily unboxing videos for strangers.


She did the same thing in her previous relationships too. When she was with that older guy, she constantly posted about the expensive restaurants he took her to and the things he bought her. If someone feels the need to post about these things constantly, it’s either due to low self-esteem or because they’re trying to convince others of how great their relationship is.
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Hmm I used to think women who didn’t grow up with luxuries would be the ones to show things off but honestly I see tons of designer obsessed women from wealthy families constantly doing unboxings. I assume it’s because they’re simply just materialistic, labels are a big source of happiness for them. Sara also wants to fit in with the many influencers that follow her, they all have the same items it’s like a uniform lol. That’s the part I find most cringe, she has no sense of personal style or what actually looks good on her body shape she’s just buying what’s popular. That being said I still think her birkin is a replica she never showed herself being offered it at the boutique.
 
Is she really just constantly posting stories on her wedding day 😂 must be as boring as her hen do looked
 
Omg how sad 🤣🤣

you can’t convince me she doesn’t live for social media and the likes!!! She tries to convince her followers otherwise but she lives for the validation of others
 
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