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Taylor17 said:
This is her definition of holding back from posting the private stuff. Anytime they say that, they always post the "private" stuff and say that the followers asked for it and if it helps one person blah blah blah. I wouldn't put it past this one to post a picture of the wake.
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Hiw does it help to see a child pass and if a followers want to see that they need there heads examined honestly, I've been to 3 kids funeral and christ it's hard to see!
 
Lassie don't go home said:
Hiw does it help to see a child pass and if a followers want to see that they need there heads examined honestly, I've been to 3 kids funeral and christ it's hard to see!
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Same I have attended 5 children's funerals and its just horrendous. I opted not to attend one 2 years ago (not close family) as I just find them too much. Its so wrong to be burying a child or young person.
 
I have never been at one but my brother attended one a few years ago of a sudden death, and he could hear the mother's wailing as he walked to the door of the house 😔 Absolutely heartbreaking 💔 I agree with others that sharing anything like those private moments tarnishes them, for me anyway, I keep them close to me and tell no one things my father said in his last days, things I said and did. It's too precious but SM means people just don't seem to get that a lot of the time now.. just regular Joe's included.
 
TennisTina said:
I have never been at one but my brother attended one a few years ago of a sudden death, and he could hear the mother's wailing as he walked to the door of the house 😔 Absolutely heartbreaking 💔 I agree with others that sharing anything like those private moments tarnishes them, for me anyway, I keep them close to me and tell no one things my father said in his last days, things I said and did. It's too precious but SM means people just don't seem to get that a lot of the time now.. just regular Joe's included.
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I was at one as a child, a sudden death too. I’m still haunted by her mother at the church, so consumed by grief, oblivious to the hundreds of people there to pay their respects. To this day, I’ve never seen anyone at a funeral as visibly broken as she was that day. I wonder would my feelings be different had her mum whipped out a phone to record any of it.
 
Is it just me or is it freaky to conceive your children on the anniversary of your meeting your husband and his cancer diagnosis?? Not to mention sharing that with the world.

Also for someone who claims to be religious, she's got two story screens today with god rather than God? Btw I'm an atheist but raised Christian but would still use a capital, the same way I would with Buddha or Allah.
 
Chatty9 said:
I cant see any angel faces in the grass?? Dates of conception, way too personal. How is months mind not til next weekend? Didn't she die the 5th March?
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Sometimes they get delayed, especially if there was another death in the area around the same time, and you don't want to share the months mind mass with them. I know of another one delayed a few weeks as there were a couple of other family occasions around then, and they wanted to keep them separate. 6 or 7 weeks is normal enough for a months mind (in my area anyway).
 
Can't look at her stories any longer, unfollowed her. I know grief can hit people in different ways, I've been through it myself, loosing a child. I just can't comprehend her thought process. Picking up a phone and recording, finding the words to write on posts... All I remember is being numb for a very long time.
She'll come to regret it in time and hopefully stop for her family's sake.
 
Hunzosrus said:
Sometimes they get delayed, especially if there was another death in the area around the same time, and you don't want to share the months mind mass with them. I know of another one delayed a few weeks as there were a couple of other family occasions around then, and they wanted to keep them separate. 6 or 7 weeks is normal enough for a months mind (in my area anyway).
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Oh really? I didn't know that and I used to live in a very rural area. Thanks for explaining 🙂
 
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