Rebeccaloves__ #48 We’ve seen this holiday before, same old photos are such a bore

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Gossipqueen30 said:
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No grabs, if Freya has actually come home and said this, then solutions is exactly what you need to be focusing on. For example, bath her and cut her nails and brush her hair so she’s not the dirty kid in the class. Oh and stop embarrassing her in front of her peers by pushing her to school in a buggy at the age of 4!!! If no one wants to play with her, then as a parent SOLUTIONS are exactly what you need to be providing to ensure she’s not labelled the scruffy weird kid in the class! 🙈🙈
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Agreed. I feel like it is my job as a parent to try and find solutions if possible. The finding solution IS support. The video is wrong. I agree that saying"It will be better tomorrow" is not supportive but it actually isn't finding a solution either... She's just advising to replace saying fluff to your child with saying more fluff to your child.
That's just another cop out of actual parenting for Grabs. She thinks all her Pinterest activities make her the best mama when in fact she fails her children on the basics of parenting (hygiene to name one...)
 
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No grabs, if Freya has actually come home and said this, then solutions is exactly what you need to be focusing on. For example, bath her and cut her nails and brush her hair so she’s not the dirty kid in the class. Oh and stop embarrassing her in front of her peers by pushing her to school in a buggy at the age of 4!!! If no one wants to play with her, then as a parent SOLUTIONS are exactly what you need to be providing to ensure she’s not labelled the scruffy weird kid in the class! 🙈🙈
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I get why this resonates with her. It's like, if your underaged daughter is being targeted by a 24-year-old pedalo, you should SUPPORT IT, not try to find a solution. Am I right??
 
She should've stuck to just posting about their boring dated house renovations by her 10x clever than yours, {twit of a retired} husband; the bland carbon copy decor of every property they've lived in; the garden and floral delights etc, etc. She's irrelevant because she did everything 10 years earlier than all of her peers. She's stuck in a time warp of being that 13 year old girl catching the eye of an 24 year old loner {and all the tit it created} in an 30 years old body. She's well out of her depths trying to fit into the mama influencer genre.

HOW TO TELL ITS AUTUMN IN GRABBIESVILLE
🍏 The kiddos are picking apples {off the ground}
🥮 Vomit pumpkin porridge
🍄 Reading autumn themed books at mealtimes
🍂 Kiddos in autumn themed clothing
🍁 Grabby wearing the stripey top & tulle skirt combo
🎃 Halloween Tatt
🌰 Selfies of ill-fitting clothing and pensioner shoes
🌬️ More Halloween tatt from Tkmaxx

I cannot believe that Grabby didn't know the reference to Baby Boom {I'm sure her pensioner hubby would} by someone who replied to her post. I'm even more surprised that Benpeeado hasn't jumped all over it and add yet another business venture to the Sterling portfolio 🤣

School mum era... Oh shoot me now 🤦🏻🤦🏻

My kids are adults but when they were little, I never felt the need to post any photos of my kids attending other kids parties. I was always too busy having a natter with the other parents but I did post my kids own parties online on Facebook on custom mode. I've also never read books at the table whilst my kids were having lunch or dinner, it's soo distracting and weird. Books were for winding down for the day/bedtime.

You cannot tell me that other mums up the school don't know of her, her social media account{s} and gossip about her whilst rolling their eyes.

Ajtw09 said:
This! But, also, surely her PR company should give up on her. Does anyone who knows about these things, think the PR firm would be getting feedback when this sort of backlash happens? Presumably TU have paid the PR company and/or Grabby and got absolutely nothing in return, aside from some disgruntled Tattlers going after them. Would TU have a contract with the PR firm whereby they might not have to pay if something wasn’t right?
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I'm shocked the PR company haven't dropped her, given she fucks up things and is continually losing followers.
 
Such an invasion of their privacy, will Freya want thousands of strangers knowing that she's been upset and is feeling lonely at school? It's so sad that Grabby doesn't feel the need to protect their feelings, it's literally no one else's business if that little girl is struggling with making friends. I feel so sorry for her 😔
 
Justcyrious said:
She wanted to illustrate the point she’s in her “school mum era” 🙄

Is it normal to read your kids books while they’re eating? If they’re having dinner at 4pm and you don’t feel like jointing in, surely you could just chat? Why get them used to books read to them at mealtimes?
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It’s not normal…..

But it probably saves time and gets the ‘kiddos’ into bed earlier!!
 
Going back to the question about the PR agency and how it all works, I have some experience through my job. My organisation (a Gov dept) has just started testing working with influencers to get important behaviour change messages out to a specific audience. We had to do a lot of due diligence on their background! Depending on whether TU have used an agency or whether Grabby has approached them herself (which is possible) TU are v likely to give feedback. I estimate she will have been paid around £2 -3k for that reel based on prices we were quoted 😳
 
Mitzymooface said:
Going back to the question about the PR agency and how it all works, I have some experience through my job. My organisation (a Gov dept) has just started testing working with influencers to get important behaviour change messages out to a specific audience. We had to do a lot of due diligence on their background! Depending on whether TU have used an agency or whether Grabby has approached them herself (which is possible) TU are v likely to give feedback. I estimate she will have been paid around £2 -3k for that reel based on prices we were quoted 😳
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2-3k for what looked like a couple of hours tops of slapdash ‘work’
 
This thread is giving me life at the moment.

I feel very strongly that when you have a 4 year old little one that you are VERY much there to solve their problems, help them, make their lives easier and happy - they've got a long time ahead to find out how tough the world is. The vile Not So Smug Now also promotes this narrative of 'letting them get on with it' - basically let them deal with their own problems ... no, you are their Mum - you don't get to opt out.

I am absolutely sure that Grabby's PR agency will have read this thread - there is no way that young, media savvy PR practitioners won't have looked her up on here. I would be VERY interested to know what they think of her.
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Mitzymooface said:
Going back to the question about the PR agency and how it all works, I have some experience through my job. My organisation (a Gov dept) has just started testing working with influencers to get important behaviour change messages out to a specific audience. We had to do a lot of due diligence on their background! Depending on whether TU have used an agency or whether Grabby has approached them herself (which is possible) TU are v likely to give feedback. I estimate she will have been paid around £2 -3k for that reel based on prices we were quoted 😳
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That's UNREAL ... and for £3K she can't even turn a coat sleeve the right way round. FFS. That's like a month's wage for most folk.
Don't give in to the narrative that she's poor or struggling for money. She's just tight and grabby and she'd sell her Grandmother if she could shill a few quid from it.
 
More fool TU/Sainsburys/the PR firm if they actually pay GrubbyGrabby for that crappy reel. They should have it in a contract that the work has to be of a certain standard before she gets paid, otherwise she’ll always just churn out crap if she knows she can get away with it.
 
Just in case they are reading, I will 100% not be buying from TU. Not because I don't like what Rebecca stands for but because she made the clothes look terrible. Unfortunately her reel made them look cheap, and Rebecca is very slim so if she can't make cheap clothes look good there is very little chance of them looking good on anyone else. She had every chance to change my mind but the slapdash reel, funnily enough did not do it.
 
Faceymcfacey said:
Just in case they are reading, I will 100% not be buying from TU. Not because I don't like what Rebecca stands for but because she made the clothes look terrible. Unfortunately her reel made them look cheap, and Rebecca is very slim so if she can't make cheap clothes look good there is very little chance of them looking good on anyone else. She had every chance to change my mind but the slapdash reel, funnily enough did not do it.
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Totally agree. The coat looked worse than anything I've seen from Shein or Primark etc. Jumper looked like it will bobble after 1 wash and the rest just looked like tat.

I still don't understand the influencer payment stuff tbh. That reel was shocking quality and up for less than 12 hours, how can she have been paid 2-3k for it? I thought it would be in the contract that's a certain number of advertised items have to sold, or something, to be paid in full? I'm totally clueless though. Just seems like a such a stupid way to conduct business if a company isn't willing to do proper research on the influencers they use beforehand.
 
tacotaco said:
Has anyone tried to get in touch with the PR agency about her? Although I fear the woman who runs it probably couldn’t care less about morals and just sees the £££.

The sad white play dough with the filthy nails has now made it onto the grid 🤦🏻‍♀️

She is completely useless, in every aspect.
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Yes a close friend of mine contacted the PR company over a previous ad or Collab ( I can't remember which one). The company didn't reply but she noticed a day or two later she'd been blocked by Grabzelda from seeing her Insta. So clearly they not only don't care but likely actively let her know to block non believers.
 
Skewbedu said:
Yes a close friend of mine contacted the PR company over a previous ad or Collab ( I can't remember which one). The company didn't reply but she noticed a day or two later she'd been blocked by Grabzelda from seeing her Insta. So clearly they not only don't care but likely actively let her know to block non believers.
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That happened to me too with another influenza. I emailed a company and next thing I was blocked. Some companies are ridiculous
 
Skewbedu said:
Yes a close friend of mine contacted the PR company over a previous ad or Collab ( I can't remember which one). The company didn't reply but she noticed a day or two later she'd been blocked by Grabzelda from seeing her Insta. So clearly they not only don't care but likely actively let her know to block non believers.
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I liked a comment that criticised an ad she did and got blocked by grabby and a couple of other influencers (who weren’t anything to do with it!). They definitely share names around 😂
 
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