rebeccaloves__ #43 soaked too much in, now RVK_Loves is in the Bin

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So she has no time to overthink, yet "weirdly" overthinks?
Okey dokey then...

Also Hi Grabby, this trip isn't very exciting for you, is it? Your every story and post is an obvious response to what you are reading here. WA not all you crack it up to be I see.
Also no one other than your Mum needs to see 900 pictures on your kids doing the same thing on the same bit of sandy for two weeks. Shove it on your invasion of privacy, releasing their names vanity private insta. Either take an interesting picture of something someone else might want to do or learn a measured approach to Instagram.


Please and thank you.
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twolittlegeese said:
Today’s caption, grateful for Benpedalo but the traits she lists being ‘takes photos’ and ‘carries all our stuff’. 100% reading here at this point!
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Ah crossed posted, but completely agree!
 
Justine said:
She did delete it but she is mentioning vaguely the trouble at the beginning of their relationship at the start of this Q&A post (also full of gems!):
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Reading through that eye rolling Q&A blog boast posting... good god. I'd forgotten about that but then anything she posted, just seemed to roll all into one. It just affirms what an uber I know better, know-it-all control freak of gigantic proportions hole she is. Living a stepford wife bubble with the pandering peeado accountant/property developer extraordinaire/self taught can put his hand to anything etc. She really comes across as an utter cnut and I'm shocked she has... or is that had, any friends at school/university because surely everyone was beneath her.
 
What is the consensus on her actual age when they met? She suggests it is 15 and then got together 18 months later so 16.5 ish maybe 17.

Her dates based on that blog post indicate she was 14 (she writes in 2017 and is born in 1993 and says they've known each other for 10 years) and that they waited 18 months that would make her 15.5 or I hope 16. What was he doing for 18 months as a 25/26 year old man writing letters etc...they had a first date where he bought her a pearl bracelet! What in the disney/debutante fantasy of a child was going on?

I know this has been discussed a 1000 times, I think I've checked myself once before. But it never fails to shock me. It is really quite incredible.

She says she was old for age but mentions getting rat arsed with her nan in new york. I'm so confused. Would the real Becky please stand up?
 
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Reading through that eye rolling Q&A blog boast posting... good god. I'd forgotten about that but then anything she posted, just seemed to roll all into one. It just affirms what an uber I know better, know-it-all control freak of gigantic proportions hole she is. Living a stepford wife bubble with the pandering peeado accountant/property developer extraordinaire/self taught can put his hand to anything etc. She really comes across as an utter cnut and I'm shocked she has... or is that had, any friends at school/university because surely everyone was beneath her.
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I think the majority of her friends are from school and I suspect once those friends start having families, there will be less time for the cosy little get togethers such as the cringey ‘Galantines’.

I think she deliberately kept herself away from anyone at university because she had to rush home to Ben to be the stepford wife. (And of course she doesn’t drink alcohol or coffee - meeting up for a free glass of water just isn’tthe same!)

Her focus at uni appears to have been organising their wedding which was days after her final exams. Not exactly aspirational.
 
Faceymcfacey said:
What is the consensus on her actual age when they met? She suggests it is 15 and then got together 18 months later so 16.5 ish maybe 17.

Her dates based on that blog post indicate she was 14 (she writes in 2017 and is born in 1993 and says they've known each other for 10 years) and that they waited 18 months that would make her 15.5 or I hope 16. What was he doing for 18 months as a 25/26 year old man writing letters etc...they had a first date where he bought her a pearl bracelet! What in the disney/debutante fantasy of a child was going on?

I know this has been discussed a 1000 times, I think I've checked myself once before. But it never fails to shock me. It is really quite incredible.

She says she was old for age but mentions getting rat arsed with her nan in new york. I'm so confused. Would the real Becky please stand up?
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It was ‘over ten years ago’ in 2017. Pretty sure someone here worked the dates out and she had just turned 14. Those 2 years spent writing to each other before they could be together ‘properly’ are him grooming her.
Also I forgot he’d done volunteer teaching in Africa 😲
 
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So December 2017 when she wrote that ahe was wanting to brag that they'd been together for over 10 years unofficially and 9 years 'properly"

She was born March 93 (honestly can't believe this as she is such a fuddy duddy!!) And he is August 1982

So according to her they met when she was at best 14 (14 y 9 m between Mar 93 and Dec 07 but they have been together for 'over' 10 years not just 10 y exactly) and he was 25 ... absolute weirdo. Then waited until she was about 15.5 before going public I reckon

Honestly sickening that he was travelling with his teenage gf while ahe was doing her a levels... nothing to be bragging about at all. No wonder he has no friends!!

That pic on that blog that she has kindly dated to 2010... she was 28 and she was 17 🤮 🤮🤮

IndominusRex said:
It was ‘over ten years ago’ in 2017. Pretty sure someone here worked the dates out and she had just turned 14. Those 2 years spent writing to each other before they could be together ‘properly’ are him grooming her

Also I forgot he’d done volunteer teaching in Africa 
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iam also concerned about his volunteer work abroad 🤮
 

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Hehe

I can see why she deleted it. It's both unintentionally horrifying and hilarious.

'It's funny though isn't it how now nobody is really bothered by the age gap at all. Yet if it was the other way round, if I was 10 years older than Ben then everybody would call me a cougar!'

There certainly is a name for people like Ben!!!
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I love that as much as she tried to bury this blog post, it continues to haunt her. And of all the photos she had to choose when talking about their Disney-esque "unexplained connection" she chooses one which looks like the can't bear to touch each other. Weirdos.

clarification re age they met - Grabs said it was school trip to Wales, and he was an ex-pupil "helper" - so FACT. My knowledge is that the school used to do trips there in Y7 and Y9 - she would have been in yr 9, therefore depending on time of year she could have been 13 or (assuming it was summer term) would have been not long turned 14, him 24, turning 25 that year. The way she writes it it sounds like she was slightly short of 16 ("waiting 18 months") when they got together "properly" - whatever that means! That's my understanding of it anyway, purely taken from what she has written, their dates of birth.
 
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She really was wasn’t she? 😳
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Her parents have enabled it too (presumably because she stamped her flippers until they complied) if my teenage daughter bought home a MAN ten years older than her there is no way it would be accepted and she’d be grounded, and he would be reported to the police. I feel sorry for Bentos when she gets to her early teens and realises her parents got together when her mum was that age 🤢
 
Oh dear. She’s fucked when she gets back to the UK. She’s going to hit rock bottom. But she needs to own her privilege tbh. And realise how fortunate she is. But she won’t. Obvs
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Her parents have enabled it too (presumably because she stamped her flippers until they complied) if my teenage daughter bought home a MAN ten years older than her there is no way it would be accepted and she’d be grounded, and he would be reported to the police. I feel sorry for Bentos when she gets to her early teens and realises her parents got together when her mum was that age 🤢
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My youngest is 13. I would honestly be arrested if a man showed any interest in her. I told my 3 about Grabbys ‘love story 🤮 and I’m proud to say they were absolutely horrified. So many questions…..
 
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