Number 2’s not here yet and oldest is having moments. I said I had to call the midwife (because they have to know who I’m speaking to every time) yesterday and I got “not againnnnnnn”. When we got home from reduced movements they were so boisterous with me, jumping on me, knees and elbows to the tummy and ended up in full meltdown. I totally understand why and my heart breaks for them but the “it’s ok to be worried but it’s not ok to hurt mummy” is not in the least effective.
I remember being in the baby bubble and thinking ‘why didn’t I do this sooner, I want to do it again straight away’ then getting further down the line wondering and if I could shove them back in there
Ideally a bit closer gap would have been better, it feels crazy to be starting again, it just didn’t pan out that way but ngl, I’m glad they’re starting pre-school in Sept for both our sakes.