Poppy Hollins & Jay Porter #2

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tiredmom said:
Do other areas actually house people like this though? In my area it’s only the ‘less popular’ areas that become available unless you’re priority (homeless) I have gave up trying to get a bigger house.. my son is in a wheelchair due to his disabilities , cannot share a room etc and because of all of his medical equipment the room he’s currently in isn’t big enough, and when he gets older I won’t be able to carry him up the stairs. I don’t have a dining room to make a bedroom etc . I genuinely don’t know what I will do obviously I’m housed so not a priority in the sense compared to those who are homeless
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look into mutual exchanges/ the OT recommendation definitely x
 
The way Jay talks about Poppys body is horrible nobody deserves to be body shamed like that especially when that’s the mother of his kids! He’s always saying the most hurtful things he clearly enjoys doing that and she understandably does look hurt and gets insecure when he makes those insults but she then she tries to act unbothered and is like “yeah you’re right” but there’s nothing wrong with her body at all even if she didn’t have kids and she looked the way she does she still looks absolutely fine!

I would hate for her or any woman to think there was something wrong with their body because of tit and lies their partner says to them just to put them down. It’s not funny so when he tries to say after he’s just joking it’s not something you should joke about when you could really hurt her feelings or make her so insecure. You can see her sitting there with his words playing on her mind.

In my opinion Poppy is better looking than him , I personally don’t find him attractive at all and it’s crazy for him to make fun of her when he’s nothing special to look at. I think part of him wants her to feel insecure so that he’s the one in control by making her believe he’s the best she can get and any insecurities he has about himself it makes him feel better about himself by making her insecure.

like others have said he needs to grow up , learn to have respect , be kind and stop being a bully cause that’s what he is speaking about her body like that. I’m all for having banter and I think it’s important for everyone in a friendship or relationship to be able to have banter but he crosses the line with the things he says you should never try joke about cause it’s cruel.
 
In a day and age where phrases like red flag and walking icks are freely used and more than ever people are aware of toxic narcissistic behaviours, WHY is no one calling him Out? Why is it just banter?
because she’s smiling and agreeing for the views?
Id Hate to have daughters growing up with a male role model like him
 
Poppy seemed so confident and stood up to Jay when I first started watching them, she seems so insecure now and goes with whatever Jay does and says. She’s always looking to him to check she’s saying the right thing in videos. She said she possibly wanted more after this baby, Jay said there’s no chance so she changed her mind and said no more - all within a minute. I think these degrading comments have been affecting her for a while
 
Sophiadee said:
Poppy seemed so confident and stood up to Jay when I first started watching them, she seems so insecure now and goes with whatever Jay does and says. She’s always looking to him to check she’s saying the right thing in videos. She said she possibly wanted more after this baby, Jay said there’s no chance so she changed her mind and said no more - all within a minute. I think these degrading comments have been affecting her for a while
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I agree, part of me thinks she posts the videos as a cry for help sort of. Every so often there are comments that call him out about his behaviour, one of their older videos hit my fyp the other day and it was about jay stepping up for one day because of all the comments. Obviously didn’t last long but she’s probably hoping if it happens enough he’ll stop completely 😬
 
It’s one thing to have banter in a relationship everyone likes to be able to laugh with someone they love that’s healthy but what Jay and Poppy do isn’t banter it isn’t healthy it should not be normalised or excused cause they don’t laugh with each other at harmless simple things , they think it’s banter for him to speak about her the way he does and for him to laugh at her which is horrible to watch and listen to. I don’t think Jay and Poppy understand what banter actually is because speaking horribly about your partners body making fun of her and being a bully towards her is not banter but he’s convinced Poppy that it is so she just takes it mainly since she’s had kids is when she seemed to change and just let him speak to her the way he does and she makes excuses for him.

I think she’s desperate to have this perfect relationship and family life to prove people wrong and ignore the truth. Sadly she’s become very insecure which I think anyone with a partner like Jay would become insecure understandably. You’re supposed to lift your partner up by complimenting them and speaking highly of them not saying cruel things about her body. He enjoys making her insecure cause he’s insecure.

A lot of people on TikTok are so caught up in this relationship goals bs of influencer couples who paint this perfect image and have babies so people get distracted by that content and people get all wrapped up in that thinking it’s the relationship is cute and funny when it’s all fake. it’s sad people can be so distracted by the fakeness they can’t see the red flags and the bullying that’s happening in the tiktoks. Thankfully all of us on here can see it but unfortunately I think Poppy will always put up with this immaturity and nastiness from him especially as she’s about to have three kids with him. Jay is not a nice person.
 
Unicorn_Poop said:
In a day and age where phrases like red flag and walking icks are freely used and more than ever people are aware of toxic narcissistic behaviours, WHY is no one calling him Out? Why is it just banter?
because she’s smiling and agreeing for the views?
Id Hate to have daughters growing up with a male role model like him
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I see people trying to call him out on their comments all the time and they always laugh it off and make a joke out of it
 
Did anyone else try and watch their YouTube pregnancy Q&A? I tried and honestly had to turn it off when he said the way he wanted to announce their pregnancy to their families was to toast “to love, to honor, if you can’t cum in her, cum on her” (but switch the last 2 lines and say she’s pregnant). I wouldn’t say I’m a prude… but I am still just in shock that that’s how they’d planned to announce a baby 😂
 
Katiek1218 said:
Did anyone else try and watch their YouTube pregnancy Q&A? I tried and honestly had to turn it off when he said the way he wanted to announce their pregnancy to their families was to toast “to love, to honor, if you can’t cum in her, cum on her” (but switch the last 2 lines and say she’s pregnant). I wouldn’t say I’m a prude… but I am still just in shock that that’s how they’d planned to announce a baby 😂
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It’s just BANTAAAAAA innit
His excuse for everything
 
Katiek1218 said:
Did anyone else try and watch their YouTube pregnancy Q&A? I tried and honestly had to turn it off when he said the way he wanted to announce their pregnancy to their families was to toast “to love, to honor, if you can’t cum in her, cum on her” (but switch the last 2 lines and say she’s pregnant). I wouldn’t say I’m a prude… but I am still just in shock that that’s how they’d planned to announce a baby 😂
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Especially to family. He's just an immature man child 😫
 
That would be a disgustingly immature way to do a pregnancy announcement in my opinion but it just shows yet again how immature Jay is and how much he sexualised everything. Unfortunately nowadays if you call someone out for speaking in a disrespectful or disgusting way , you will have people say you can’t take a joke but sometimes there are things that a joke shouldn’t be made out of cause it’s not needed and it’s embarrassing to talk like that. Poppy can try convince herself all she wants that it’s just banter and that her relationship isn’t toxic but sadly her relationship is very toxic and she doesn’t deserve to be body shamed and bullied by her partner but she’s going to stay with him allowing him to talk like that about her.

He’s moaning in the one of their recent tiktoks that she had a doctors appointment and it took hours cause Poppy forgot her phone or something and he got mad cause he was hungry so they had a fight and Poppy was crying. Another fight to add to their list. The way he shares there stories it’s like it’s his way of trying to act innocent and make her out to be the bad guy all the time in the hopes that everyone in the comments will agree with him and then he can use that against her to gaslight her by being like see you are crazy you are wrong and everyone agrees.

Usually their comments are just people calling them funny and that they love their relationship lol cause these people can’t see through them yet unfortunately and sometimes you’ll get comments of people calling Jay out but like I said in another post it’s unlikely anything is going to change in that relationship anytime soon cause Poppy is choosing to put up with him and having babies with him.

I know Poppy isn’t innocent in all of this either she exploits the kids too and has no problem being toxic arguing infront of her kids. Before anyone says it I understand no relationship is going to be stress free or not saying that a couple can’t have their bad moments but having a bad moment or argument that doesn’t happen very often is very different to their toxic relationship which constant fighting.
 
account70032 said:
That would be a disgustingly immature way to do a pregnancy announcement in my opinion but it just shows yet again how immature Jay is and how much he sexualised everything. Unfortunately nowadays if you call someone out for speaking in a disrespectful or disgusting way , you will have people say you can’t take a joke but sometimes there are things that a joke shouldn’t be made out of cause it’s not needed and it’s embarrassing to talk like that. Poppy can try convince herself all she wants that it’s just banter and that her relationship isn’t toxic but sadly her relationship is very toxic and she doesn’t deserve to be body shamed and bullied by her partner but she’s going to stay with him allowing him to talk like that about her.

He’s moaning in the one of their recent tiktoks that she had a doctors appointment and it took hours cause Poppy forgot her phone or something and he got mad cause he was hungry so they had a fight and Poppy was crying. Another fight to add to their list. The way he shares there stories it’s like it’s his way of trying to act innocent and make her out to be the bad guy all the time in the hopes that everyone in the comments will agree with him and then he can use that against her to gaslight her by being like see you are crazy you are wrong and everyone agrees.

Usually their comments are just people calling them funny and that they love their relationship lol cause these people can’t see through them yet unfortunately and sometimes you’ll get comments of people calling Jay out but like I said in another post it’s unlikely anything is going to change in that relationship anytime soon cause Poppy is choosing to put up with him and having babies with him.

I know Poppy isn’t innocent in all of this either she exploits the kids too and has no problem being toxic arguing infront of her kids. Before anyone says it I understand no relationship is going to be stress free or not saying that a couple can’t have their bad moments but having a bad moment or argument that doesn’t happen very often is very different to their toxic relationship which constant fighting.
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I saw that video and he was making fun out of her about the seat belt situation.
Me and my hubby have jokes but if ive been there, early stages of pregnancy, tired, hormonal and queezy. I would be fuming if he used that as content and laughed at me for 1000s to see
 
How old are they do we know? Poppy looks quite young, (25?) and if shes as young as I think, never mind Rosa, the sort of stuff Jay says could actually be damaging to poppy too
 
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