Phoebe Court #23 She’s making a list, she’s checking it twice, money saving tips, who needs her advice.

[walterisback]

She’s so desperate to be child free that she doesn’t care whether he’s upset or not. She just rationalises it to herself.

 

[francesthemute]

What is she on about today.

How dare she have such high expectations of her 5 and 2 year olds ability to ‘regulate’ their emotions when she cannot do it at all?

All she has to do is be bleeping nice until 9.00. Why is that so hard?

She is the most selfish, self-centred woman alive. Everything is about her. Not her tiny kids having to deal with her rage and her emotions. Her ego is out of this bleeping world.

I try not to say things like I feel sorry for the kids. I am sure they adore her and feel safe and happy and loved with her. They clearly have everything material they could ever need, they get lots of stimulation.

But they are exposed to Phoebe’s extreme moods on a daily basis. they will learn to adjust their behaviour to try and make her happy and they will blame themselves if they don’t. They won’t think, god mums a pain in the arse today. They’ll think, I got things wrong, I made mum unhappy.

Doesn’t she realise that?

Phoebe read ‘Why Love Matters’ it’s great but be warned it’s not about making yourself look bleeping amazing like hypnobirthing or baby-led weaning. It’s about honouring your kids as gentle souls and leading with compassion and empathy.

 

[Esbeepea]

Jesus. Her parents really did a number on her. What a bleeping brat.

 

[pencilpen]

Omg I used to follow her when she'd lost the weight, I'd forgotten about her tbh and looked her up after seeing this thread wtf happened!?!

 

[Globetrotter]

Love that book. I feel like it's more than just hormones too, we all get a bit narky round time of month but not to this extent. Could it be a mixture of the thyroid thing too? I know she says she's got other medical worries on her mind too but tbh she's latched onto a possible condition so she shouldn't be worrying about that too much until everything comes back confirmed months down the line, especially if it's causing her to flip out on kids!
I'm thinking the pain in the neck probably wasn't helped last week when she was fannying around in a field in middle of October semi naked

 

[walterisback]

What gets me is the complete contrast between the raging, I can’t cope posts and the happy, bright eyed ads. She’s a psychopath.

 

[Becclo44]

Bet she was fuming she was only allowed one piece of salmon for that ad

 

[WhatABore]

But they don't eat together with the kids and they don't get stuck in a rut because they have hello fresh every day when the kids are in bed. Stop bulls**tting

 

[Pandakitten]

What does ‘when Jim and I were 18 and living together with our parents’ mean? Was she living with him at that stage? That sentence makes them sound like siblings (‘our parents’) rather than partners.

 

[Getagripppppy]

So many Tesco ads. I’d love to see their contract with these influenzers

 

[francesthemute]

What gets me is the complete contrast between the raging, I can’t cope posts and the happy, bright eyed ads. She’s a psychopath.

You’ve hit the nail on the head here.

Which version of Phoebe does she expect us to believe?

The content of the ads is always at odds with her posts and stories too. Meaningful mealtimes together? When? Self-care, hygiene? No. Skin care? Another no.

Full of tit

 

[wonderingtwirl]

What does ‘when Jim and I were 18 and living together with our parents’ mean? Was she living with him at that stage? That sentence makes them sound like siblings (‘our parents’) rather than partners.

I mean they all look alike so who knows

 

[Stimpii]

Feebs if you’re struggling with a 2 and a 5 year old I can’t wait until they get a bit older: then the real fun starts

 

[Lauz2427]

She’s such a bellend. So it’s vespers show today and only now is she reading what she needs to look like and wear.
I’m not saying I agree with these kids having to wear make up to dance shows because personally I think it’s ridiculous but that’s what she’s signed up for so surely you’d read it before the actual day in case you needed something you hadn’t got?!

 

[Hastaggifted]

If I had to see it, I'm bloody well making sure you lot have to see it too!! Moose hoof is about to bust outta those jeans!

 

[Minniemousesshoes]

I haven’t really paid attention. But why aren’t they at vespers show. Either one or both of them (shows and as a couple ). ?

 

[ghostriderhere]

I haven’t really paid attention. But why aren’t they at vespers show. Either one or both of them (shows and as a couple ). ?

I thought that too, why was she waiting in the car?? Probably thought “I saw the first one, didn’t need to see a second”.
also notice the post talked more about her own success at SURVIVING and thanking the workers…didn’t have a lot to say about her own daughter yet again

 

[Huffchug]

Why was she sat in her car while vesper was still doing her show?

 

[swipe_up]

Damn what’s going on with the lack of brows

 

[LennyBriscoe]

I haven’t really paid attention. But why aren’t they at vespers show. Either one or both of them (shows and as a couple ). ?

Aw no, she didn’t even go and see the show? That’s awful, imagine Vesper looking for her mum and/or dad and then not being there .

Sorry to dump this here but I’ve had a bit of maternal rage today. I’ve fallen into a trap of comparing things and thinking other people have ‘got my life’ and it’s such a negative place to be. I only have one child and he’s ASN and on the grand scheme of things, it was nothing I lost my tit over. I would give anything to go and see my son in a show or play football but he’s 6 and has significant developmental delay. I think it’s why this feat winds me up so much, she has no idea how lucky she is.

Sorry for being a Debbie Downer, I had to get that off my chest.