Phoebe Court #23 She’s making a list, she’s checking it twice, money saving tips, who needs her advice.

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That doesn't surprise me in the slightest.
 

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JSquared said:
Why do SO many of these ‘influencers’ seem to think good content is slagging off their kids? Being_ribbon is another.
Me and my partner want kids, after a couple of losses, but some posts I see really make me worry I’m going to hate the little ones we are praying for?!
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Aw no, please don’t think that! I don’t think I’m naturally maternal and I’m nothing like Feebs. I look at these Insta mums - this head, Mrs Meldrum and This Mama Life and it blows my mind they have multiple children when they clearly don’t want any! Being a parent has its frustrations and ups and downs but it’s how you deal with them that’s important.

A 2-year-old isn’t going to listen to direction and retain it and that’s why we have to look after them as best we can. But accidents do happen which is what this is - I doubt he thought “swivel on this witch” and did exactly what she told him not to do. Or maybe he did because he’s sick of her bullshit too?

The lack of self awareness with this one is staggering. Have I got frustrated at my son? Yes. Do I feel tit after I do it? Also yes. Most parents will admit there are times like this but she is just so unrelatable. There’s no way she fumed silently either - unless she sulked with them of course. That post is quite upsetting and she needs to take her maternal rage and get in the bin.
 
JSquared said:
Why do SO many of these ‘influencers’ seem to think good content is slagging off their kids? Being_ribbon is another.
Me and my partner want kids, after a couple of losses, but some posts I see really make me worry I’m going to hate the little ones we are praying for?!
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Don't feel like that at all. I've mentioned it on here before but I feel like these days, all the mum influences are in competition as to who has it worse. With so much exaggeration to try and compete.

I posted on here a while back that I actually look forward to spending time with my kids and thoroughly look forward to school holidays and hate when they go back.
And I had a reply saying "Good for you. But you're part of the problem"
And told that I was being unrealistic.

Seems like you can't talk about enjoying your kids anymore without "being part of the problem"
Of course not every day is sunshine and rainbows. But it doesn't mean I don't love spending time with them.

Thought I'd add that I'm also not very maternal or whatever 😂
 
I had to really stop myself replying to the decompressing story. Try having a “morning” with your child, then a tearful nursery drop off then actually going to a 10 hour shift at work. Not sitting on your arse dicking about on the internet!
Herbert doesn’t need to go to nursery, he obviously hates it, she really dislikes them kids. They are such an inconvenience to her, how long before they start to feel that if they don’t already!
 
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Would love to know what her hard week consists of? She really has no idea how privileged she is 🙄
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exactly!
she lives on a different planet to the rest of us.
I’m not this stressed and I work full time, part time carer for my mum and have a toddler. Like the vast majority of us I’m bricking it about the cost of living but yet I still don’t need to take time out or take my rage out on my child. I don’t think I’m doing anything to the rest of us on this forum. She really is in a world of her own.
for those that follow there will now be a week of hotdogs in a flask and other tit content
 
Bless her, she's having problems juggling all the feelings that come from 2 small children and herself. All those stories over Feelings! Not about actual problems like not knowing where next meal is gonna come from, how next months rent or mortgage is gonna get paid or about problems going on in the workplace and ppls everyday concerns of jiggling home, kids and work.

I dont mean to disregard 'feelings' but its not even something she needs to sit and fester about cos she's got 3-6 hours of freedom before those inconveniences return and cause her maternal rage to build up for the next week again 🙈🤣
 
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