Niomi Smart #79 'Money, money, money' Substack honey- trap!

Status
Thread locked. We start a new thread when they have over 1000 posts, click the blue button to see all threads for this topic and find the latest open thread.
1
If she’s gone back to him she really is a total lost cause. Absolutely mental. I guess she got scared of the fact that during these past two years she really did lose all her friends (and she’s not being offered the same job opportunities either) and he and his weird life are all she knows now. Like ”he gives me the ick but at least I’m not alone”.
 
Many people on here have speculated that there were many red flags for emotional abuse in their relationship. *If* Jamie was emotionally abusive or toxic to Niomi (I emphasise "if" because we don't know), it would be statistically more likely that Niomi would go back to him than stay away. I think the statistic is that it takes women 7 attempts to leave an abusive relationship before leaving for good. I have no idea if Niomi and Jamie's relationship was abusive, so I say this as a general statement for other women on this thread: if you leave a relationship because you had fears that you were being emotionally and/or physically abused, be wary of the temptations to return. Trust the former you that made that decision because she knew that, despite her love for that partner, she needed to leave. Sending lots of love to anyone who has had that experience ❤️
 
I feel genuinely upset that there’s the possibility of them getting back together. I hope to god it’s just a distant friendship rather than anything else.

I remember a guy I dated once who was really intense and OTT like how I imagine Jamie is, one of the first questions he ever asked me on our first date was about my father, he was really into psychology and said he seemed to attract the type of woman who didn’t have a father figure and he was constantly making us psychoanalyse our relationship. (This only lasted four months but made a huge lasting impression as it was so all-encompassing.) he met my family and they all hated him 🤣

She’s just so easily led, I can imagine him engineering a way that “the universe has led them back together” and she’ll lap it up and ugh, this will all become part of their relationship narrative, oh we tried to part but look what happened, what are the chances, we know now that it was meant to be.

Run Niomi! Don’t do it! It’s a trap
 
I never would have thought she’d go back to Lordon, but Tattlers are rarely (if ever) wrong.

It’s definitely a plausible theory. She’s clearly feeling low, had zero interest from any other men, minimal job offers, a failed substack, AND she said she hadn’t been able to secure a flat in London. Dozy cow will probably take that last point as a sign from the universe that she shouldn’t move back after all because the dates didn’t align or some tit.

If she has gone back to him, she won’t show his face… But they’ll signs - her not moving back to London being the biggest one of all.
 
I don't see any reason for her to suddenly start following Cape Town based accounts (two this week) unless she is planning on going there or is already there. Her IG follow list has always been a really good indicator of where she is/what she's doing/who she is seeing. Even when she's trying to keep things private, she fails, because she follows these accounts on her public IG instead of her private.

They both went silent on IG this week.
They both followed the same accounts on IG this week - a bunch of video producers by the looks of it (wedding video?!)
She is back to liking his posts again.
She is following accounts based in Cape Town - where he currently is.
She liked a comment advising her to keep her relationship private.
She looked miserable af in her last IG post. She cannot be on her own and cannot be without a man in her life. Maybe she figured that Lordon was better than no man at all.
Perhaps her return to London hasn't worked out like she thought it would - she doesn't have any real friends left, she can't find a place to live and her latest venture, her Substack newsletter, has been an embarrassing failure.
What does Niomi do when she's feeling down or has any problems in her life? She runs away. It wouldn't surprise me if she ran all the way back to him.
I always thought their very sudden split was too good to be true and that she got rid of him way too easily. I've always been surprised at how quickly he disappeared from her life; I didn't think he'd let her or her bank balance go so easily.


Of course, this could all be one big coincidence and maybe she's been at home all along and is on her way to India right now. I guess we'll know soon enough.
 
Last edited:
1712398818828.gif
 
Okay tell me if I need to take off my tin foil hat here but could Niomi have realised her engagement was tanking and faked the whole break up? I mean her videos/content when we were waiting for it to actually be announced had more views etc than anything she’s done in months…with Smart Skin going under and no jobs in ages, she needed an engagement boost if she’s going to start running yoga retreats…idk guys something smells off with this, even if it was Lordon’s idea to fake the break up because hes unpopular, I feel like she would do anything at this point to get attention
 
judgejohndeed said:
Okay tell me if I need to take off my tin foil hat here but could Niomi have realised her engagement was tanking and faked the whole break up? I mean her videos/content when we were waiting for it to actually be announced had more views etc than anything she’s done in months…with Smart Skin going under and no jobs in ages, she needed an engagement boost if she’s going to start running yoga retreats…idk guys something smells off with this, even if it was Lordon’s idea to fake the break up because hes unpopular, I feel like she would do anything at this point to get attention
Click to expand...
I honestly don't think so. She lies, but she's not an actress to be able to put something like that off. In her last video, you could genuinely see how unhappy and discontent she is, everyone was able to see it. She's only fooling herself because she truly believes if she says "I'm so happy" it becomes a reality. I do believe the breakup happened. IF she truly is back with him, unfortunately, like other people mentioned, it's very common to happen. I don't know if he's abusive but he's definitely manipulative and it was too good to be true he just let her go like that. I completely believe that he kept texting her and going after during these months. It's obvious she doesn't love him, but she's so so so fragile that in her head having Lordon might be better than having no man at all.
 
Wonder if Avocado Chef would have anything to say if they got back together? She clearly doesn’t like Nims now she knows what’s she’s really like. Verity HATES Lordon with a passion… It would be very messy if they got back together.

I’d be very sad/worried for her if our speculation turns out to be true.
But also, me:
1712405221208.gif
 
Status
Thread locked. We start a new thread when they have over 1000 posts, click the blue button to see all threads for this topic and find the latest open thread.
Back
Top