Hate to say this and only Naomi and the people close to her know how it really is (I hope I’m completely wrong) but to an outsider it really looks like Nola is an inconvenience. Naomi really doesn’t come across as maternal which is fine as not everyone takes to motherhood naturally. I have a family member that’s a bit like her but the difference is even though she lets the dad be very hands on, she also really cares and tries her best but with Naomi it seems like she cba. Summer seems very different with Carmelo and it really shows in photos but Naomi either shares things online that have gone wrong or tantrums that Nola has thrown and in general saying how annoying it is to have a toddler etc.
I also never used to pay much attention to people saying that Nola has unbrushed hair etc and I put it down to a toddler being difficult and not wanting it done but it’s sad always seeing her in such muted colours and plainest clothing.. she’s a kid ffs. It doesn’t even seem like Naomi puts any thought into her outfits, literally just buys a few plain sweatshirts and trousers and puts her in crocs. I understand if it’s due to Nola wanting to be in comfy things she’s used to, whether it’s just a preference or due to something else that has been speculated on here.. but I’m sure clothing that’s a bit more child friendly, with a bit more thought put into it wouldn’t affect Nola negatively in any way?! I don’t think clothing is the most important thing and if a child is happy that’s all that matters but it won’t hurt to dress her up a bit like other little girls her age?! What photos will they have to look back on.. I’ve probably made this into a much bigger thing than it is but have been thinking it for a while..
I don’t think Naomi is a bad mum and none of us know the real truth but you can see the major lack of interaction between mother and child and it’s most likely due to her watching tv or being on her phone and expecting Nola to entertain herself on the daily.. If this isn’t the case then I wish she would show more of her with Nola doing things that don’t involve taking her on a coffee run or to Disney land. On the other hand it’s lovely to see how Derrick is with her
I also never used to pay much attention to people saying that Nola has unbrushed hair etc and I put it down to a toddler being difficult and not wanting it done but it’s sad always seeing her in such muted colours and plainest clothing.. she’s a kid ffs. It doesn’t even seem like Naomi puts any thought into her outfits, literally just buys a few plain sweatshirts and trousers and puts her in crocs. I understand if it’s due to Nola wanting to be in comfy things she’s used to, whether it’s just a preference or due to something else that has been speculated on here.. but I’m sure clothing that’s a bit more child friendly, with a bit more thought put into it wouldn’t affect Nola negatively in any way?! I don’t think clothing is the most important thing and if a child is happy that’s all that matters but it won’t hurt to dress her up a bit like other little girls her age?! What photos will they have to look back on.. I’ve probably made this into a much bigger thing than it is but have been thinking it for a while..
I don’t think Naomi is a bad mum and none of us know the real truth but you can see the major lack of interaction between mother and child and it’s most likely due to her watching tv or being on her phone and expecting Nola to entertain herself on the daily.. If this isn’t the case then I wish she would show more of her with Nola doing things that don’t involve taking her on a coffee run or to Disney land. On the other hand it’s lovely to see how Derrick is with her
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