Mrs Meldrum #150 Living the dream, aff linking Shein

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Bumble2019 said:
Also, she keeps saying "i know im being really cryptic, Im sorry" etc but she's not really being very cryptic is she! She's basically saying that she thinks Poppy is a pain in the arse and is ruining planned family days out and that her behaviour is so difficult (whether that be at school or at home or both) and they are trying out removing her from school to see if it helps. Short of saying "Poppy has ASD/Autism/is ND" etc she's not being very cryptic at all!
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Poor Poppy is getting the worst or both worlds. Criticism about her behaviour without explanation and context due to “privacy”. Still stand by my comment that, if they had any type of diagnosis, we would know all about it (CONTENT!) and she would be so far up Hinch’s bum hole that only her Vejas would be sticking out
 
Poor Poppy. Melds isn’t being cryptic at all. She is using every ASD descriptor without actually saying the word autism.

Let’s look at it this way. Is she ashamed Poppy could have autism and/or ADHD? Doesn’t fit with her perfect family image does it?

Either way what she’s doing is very damaging - ridiculing her daughter’s behaviour online to thousands while not using the term autism under the guise of protecting her “privacy”. Make it make sense!!!
 
AnnaBanana85 said:
Poor Poppy. Melds isn’t being cryptic at all. She is using every ASD descriptor without actually saying the word autism.

Let’s look at it this way. Is she ashamed Poppy could have autism and/or ADHD? Doesn’t fit with her perfect family image does it?

Either way what she’s doing is very damaging - ridiculing her daughter’s behaviour online to thousands while not using the term autism under the guise of protecting her “privacy”. Make it make sense!!!
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This is it for me, you either talk about it, or you don’t.

You do not whine about her behaviour, that there may well be a medical reason for, to thousands of people online. That isn’t protecting her privacy in any way, shape or form.

Just stop sharing your kids online full stop, that is protecting their privacy.
 
Tamara said:
I seen that what an absolute bloody witch of a mother she is!!!!
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Poppy was monitored very closely whilst Beggy was pregnant and then was in NICU, if there are issues then maybe it’s down to that! Poppy was such a sweet little baby but never included. The only child Beggy has ever seemed to like is Go Florence. S was a lively chatty little girl back in the old vlogs and Rebecca used to speak horribly to her.
 
ellyjelly2 said:
Poppy was monitored very closely whilst Beggy was pregnant and then was in NICU, if there are issues then maybe it’s down to that! Poppy was such a sweet little baby but never included. The only child Beggy has ever seemed to like is Go Florence. S was a lively chatty little girl back in the old vlogs and Rebecca used to speak horribly to her.
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I didn't watch her in those days. How did she speak to Safiyah back then?
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"A chunky vlog" - How old is this woman????
 
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Pinklady567 said:
If you didn’t think Rebecca dislikes Poy, then watch the latest 2 videos. My god she absolutely hates Poppy, it comes across so badly in the two videos! She is an awful women! Never ever happy, doesn’t work, lives in a giant house, drives a brand new car yet she can’t cope with Lee being away for 2weeks! bleeping he’ll get a grip!!
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She says he’s away for three weeks, she used to do that yuuuurs ago when he was away. He’s home for three weeks! Away for two and she can’t cope! I do think for Poppys sake it would be better if he was home as he genuinely seems to love her, unlike her witch of a mother. However he also needs to bloody stand up to Rebecca.
 
ellyjelly2 said:
Poppy was monitored very closely whilst Beggy was pregnant and then was in NICU, if there are issues then maybe it’s down to that! Poppy was such a sweet little baby but never included. The only child Beggy has ever seemed to like is Go Florence. S was a lively chatty little girl back in the old vlogs and Rebecca used to speak horribly to her.
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I watched her at this time and don’t remember Poppy being ‘monitored closely’? I’m sure Beggy probably made it out that way as I’m sure she made a big deal out of how ‘small’ she was measuring but let’s not forget this was her last rodeo at selling some content and she was determined to make the most out of it.

Poppy was in the nicu for 12 days and Beggy left her the first day and barely visited. If I remember correctly she went somewhere to film content whilst she was in the hospital in those first few days.
 
Poor P, God that was a hard watch. Kids are difficult at times, parenting is difficult at times but stop labelling your child at every opportunity without labelling her.

I have two daughters, one is quiet and the other isn't. My youngest is boisterous, full of beans and in the beginning was quite an adjustment for me but that's not my daughter's issue, that's mine. You adapt your parenting skills, everyone is different and that includes your own kids. Saying its nice to get your older two out of the house and leaving the youngest at home is so hurtful. How about doing things that the three of them can enjoy? Yes there's an age gap but there's plenty available that all three can do. Good on Poppy for saying no, she's a strong willed little girl and I'm absolutely here for it.
 
avabella said:
I watched her at this time and don’t remember Poppy being ‘monitored closely’? I’m sure Beggy probably made it out that way as I’m sure she made a big deal out of how ‘small’ she was measuring but let’s not forget this was her last rodeo at selling some content and she was determined to make the most out of it.

Poppy was in the nicu for 12 days and Beggy left her the first day and barely visited. If I remember correctly she went somewhere to film content whilst she was in the hospital in those first few days.
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She went out for brunch with her friends one day whilst she was in NICU
 
She exaggerates everything, two weeks away becomes three, using something for years means a few weeks and Poppy never sleeping is a few disturbed nights. The way she is speaking about Poppy is horrible, if Poppy has a condition then she shouldn’t be sharing how that makes her behave and being so negative about it. If she is just a stronger personality than her other two then suck it up. She’s not built for parenting at all, she might like Lee home every night but she would have to manage the rest of the time all the time! And she’s presuming he would clock off at 5pm 🤣 perhaps if they adjusted their spending they could downsize and live a more modest life. Or she could sell her Elizabeth Duke diamond, would make more money than all her bobbled vintage listings!

I think she is possible just creating drama to give her something to talk about as she has nothing else going on!
 
I feel so sad for Poppy, is there nothing to protect children online anymore? Why does she need to share Poppy’s behaviours to all her sheep.

the first vlog was all about her self indulgent spa days and retreats - she’s really milking it with WeeLee that she can’t cope.

I understand that parents of neurodivergent children need to have a voice and speak up and be supported.

but all she is doing is continually dragging that poor kid online and focussing on how she’s feeling then the comments from all the sheep about how sorry they are for her that Poppy is acting out - duck OFF she’s not been interested in that child since the paycheck arrived for her birth
 
Binny is a nasty, evil witch! If P does have any behavioural problems, it's her mothers doing! She has openly encouraged the other two girls to berate and be nasty to P. Does anyone else remember her trapping P on the stairs between the top and bottom stairgate and laughing because P was crying? She left her in her cot for the majority of the day then moaned because she didn't sleep at night. We only see a "Snippet" of their days, god only knows what we don't see!
 
ellyjelly2 said:
Poppy was monitored very closely whilst Beggy was pregnant and then was in NICU, if there are issues then maybe it’s down to that! Poppy was such a sweet little baby but never included. The only child Beggy has ever seemed to like is Go Florence. S was a lively chatty little girl back in the old vlogs and Rebecca used to speak horribly to her.
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Probably because one child was unplanned, one planned and one planned only for content. It is not opinion, it's all put out there by the parents.
 
Bumble2019 said:
I didn't watch her in those days. How did she speak to Safiyah back then?
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"A chunky vlog" - How old is this woman????
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She was horrible, really snappy at her, she was a really bright little spark but over the two or three yuuurs I watched online she just became quieter.
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MrsDimSum said:
I feel so sad for Poppy, is there nothing to protect children online anymore? Why does she need to share Poppy’s behaviours to all her sheep.

the first vlog was all about her self indulgent spa days and retreats - she’s really milking it with WeeLee that she can’t cope.

I understand that parents of neurodivergent children need to have a voice and speak up and be supported.

but all she is doing is continually dragging that poor kid online and focussing on how she’s feeling then the comments from all the sheep about how sorry they are for her that Poppy is acting out - duck OFF she’s not been interested in that child since the paycheck arrived for her birth
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The thing is Poppy seems to get on well with her peers, play dates, being invited to tea, if she was that bad other kids/parents would be more unlikely to do that. Poppy was the content/money child, then Beggy blew up her career. Poppy has always been excluded.
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avabella said:
I watched her at this time and don’t remember Poppy being ‘monitored closely’? I’m sure Beggy probably made it out that way as I’m sure she made a big deal out of how ‘small’ she was measuring but let’s not forget this was her last rodeo at selling some content and she was determined to make the most out of it.

Poppy was in the nicu for 12 days and Beggy left her the first day and barely visited. If I remember correctly she went somewhere to film content whilst she was in the hospital in those first few days.
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Yep! I remember it well! She loved dressing her up etc but once those days had passed she was over it! Lee genuinely seemed to have a wonderful bond with her and used to go on bike rides and film it, was loads more interesting that what Beggy puts out! Poppy had a lovely time with him.
 
It doesn’t make any sense.

Her three kids are at school all day. She does not work. How can she possibly need an additional adult home ‘so she can breathe at the end of the day?’ Her day is spent walking the dog, going to jazzersize, drinking smoothies, and filming herself trying on clothes!

The only parenting she does is the school run, homework, dinner, clubs, showers, bed. Most parents do this after a full day at work and a commute. Including parents with neurodivergent kids!

She’s going to be met with a lot of dropped jaws of confusion, not solidarity.

And Lee is home for weeks at a time so every couple of weeks she gets two or three weeks respite from this 25 hours of parenting.

Absolutely mind boggling, and deeply deeply concerning.

Get some therapy Beggy, you need to understand the real world and how to function in it. Or get some medication. And maybe review your lifestyle? If somebody with such an easy self indulgent life full of endless daily self care is so convinced their life is hard, they need to take a hard look at whether the balance is right - she’s so indulged that she has no capacity at all for the smallest amount of normal.
 
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