Mrs Meldrum #150 Living the dream, aff linking Shein

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Pretty certain than jumper in tonight’s second blog didn’t make the declutter jumper video??
Yip, you're right. Thought the same. She's full of tit and her drawers are still full of tit jumpers.
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In the interests of balance she did admit to struggle to get into a 10 now, a 6 being something maybe her big toe would manage now. How's your skinny genes Binny?
 
I can sit here smugly with my hair journey. I’ve gone from brown to blonde (last week), I also cut inches off as I wanted a change. My hair is in amazing condition, despite not following the latest trends of smothering in oil etc.
I could do with that lovely tattler telling me the good purple shampoo though 😉
I like Aveda Blue Malva. Seems expensive, but you need very little.
 
Did I read right? P is being taken out of school to try and manage her behaviour at home?

Many children behave great at school/other activities then play at up home. That’s what they do. However Beggy is so lazy as a parent that she doesn’t want to deal with P. If she wasn’t so lazy and insisting on the quiet times in their rooms or children doing as they are told then she Beggy would manage better.

I suspect P has a lot of her mother in her! She probably behaves a lot like her mother did too as a child.
 
Reading between the lines, it sounds like Poppy is non-compliant/avoidant with Beggy and Beggy can’t cope. I say that because she talks about having Lee home every day to do dinner/bath/bed and let her “breathe”. Until she removed her, Poppy was in mainstream school from 9 - 3pm. Goes to bed at, what, 8? Obviously behaves well enough in the morning/evenings that Meldrum can still be doing some filming. Behaves well enough to be in main stream school. So Beggy was “dealing” with her on her own for 2 hours in the morning pre school and 4 hours in the evening after school plus weekends. Two weeks a month. And is in a complete lather. There are much bigger issues at play here and I think family therapy is what’s needed. Rather than going on holiday, they should be paying for that. The root cause needs sorted out.
 
As much as I have a laugh about Binny, those uploads bother me. The poor youngest child has always been treated differently and brought up around tension. Conceived only for the clicks and afflinks, Binny pushed Lee for a 3rd baby and they got the beautiful, fun filled Poppy.

Excluded from her early days once out of baby hood and the never ending Poppy print clothing there were many open conversations between parents and her sisters about excluding the little one because of her behaviours blah blah blah. All uploaded. If strangers can see the years of divisive parenting from the little that's shared online it says a lot around who's to blame here and it is a very sad insight to what it's like in that home the rest of the time.

The venom in the face of Binny particularly in the 2nd part of that chunky vlog was uncomfortable. She really needs to put the camera down if things are as bad as she's making out. Focus on her family's needs, not her own attention seeking ego. If Mother gets what she wants the hair and make up is done and she's bouncing like Tigger, particularly if Lee around to hand hold. If anything stops her doing what she wants she's like a raging pouting ball of anger.

If anyone in that house needs timeout or behavioural support, it's Mother. She's clueless to the real world, to real relationships, parameters or expected behaviours as she's never had to do it, never,

She's doing terrible damage if she doesn't step back from these vlogs and this P content and once again others around her, Lee, Grandparents etc stand by and watch this neglect. They should be ashamed of themselves.
 
As much as I have a laugh about Binny, those uploads bother me. The poor youngest child has always been treated differently and brought up around tension. Conceived only for the clicks and afflinks, Binny pushed Lee for a 3rd baby and they got the beautiful, fun filled Poppy.

Excluded from her early days once out of baby hood and the never ending Poppy print clothing there were many open conversations between parents and her sisters about excluding the little one because of her behaviours blah blah blah. All uploaded. If strangers can see the years of divisive parenting from the little that's shared online it says a lot around who's to blame here and it is a very sad insight to what it's like in that home the rest of the time.

The venom in the face of Binny particularly in the 2nd part of that chunky vlog was uncomfortable. She really needs to put the camera down if things are as bad as she's making out. Focus on her family's needs, not her own attention seeking ego. If Mother gets what she wants the hair and make up is done and she's bouncing like Tigger, particularly if Lee around to hand hold. If anything stops her doing what she wants she's like a raging pouting ball of anger.

If anyone in that house needs timeout or behavioural support, it's Mother. She's clueless to the real world, to real relationships, parameters or expected behaviours as she's never had to do it, never,

She's doing terrible damage if she doesn't step back from these vlogs and this P content and once again others around her, Lee, Grandparents etc stand by and watch this neglect. They should be ashamed of themselves.
Agree. There are wider issues at play and that is why family therapy is really needed. Meldrum needs some urgent help regarding resilience/coping and emotional regulation. Poppy will be mainly a product of her environment. Lee is dreadful for facilitating all this but it was ever thus. His priority is appeasing Binny and that is clear for all.

What is interesting is that the Meldrum Seniors aren’t putting their hands in their pockets - so they will need to move as Binny won’t get a job. There you go. Consequences.

It’s obvious that Binny has traipsed around trying to get a diagnosis for years but none has been forthcoming or, boy, wouldn’t we all know. They need urgent help with family dynamics and inter-personal relationships.

There’s also a ton of pressure on due to finances which won’t be making that house a very pleasant place to be as Binny is highly reliant on external factors to manage her mood - hair dos /impulse purchases/positioning herself on insta for clout as “well off”.
 
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she cuts her own hair!

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She's all over the place in that 2nd vlog from 5.20..... Maybe she should have watched that back....she's just manic warbling.... sees her hair, brushes her hair... 'we're at a crossroads', 'wants to make life easier', Lee's hurt his back, crazy content. 😱

Comments about the music on vlog 2 and this weird comment on vlog 1....
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Did a long post but deleted this to say,

she cuts her own hair!

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Heading for a Britney... 😕
 

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I think they should both downsize and Binny goes to work.

She might not physically show the girls anymore but thier digital footprint is still out there growing. I hope Poppy never has to watch those vlogs, devastating for a child.

Binny is thick if she thinks taking P out of school will improve her behaviour at home, I feel she's just being punished and actually enjoys school and taking her out is punishment.
 
Talking of their digital footprint... The titles of many of the vlogs since she's 'come back' on you tube are very telling.

A bit pathetic
A Quiet week
I haven't quit
What's been going on
Feeling exhausted
Finding routine
Feeling low over Christmas
He's finally home
Hibernating for winter
A cosy weekend hiding from the storm

No mention of the podcast?
 
That was difficult to watch. There is absolutely no empathy towards Poppy or any consideration to how she may feel.

She would rather uproot her family from their home than get a job in order to have Lee at home. If that’s not total selfishness then I don’t know what is.

Also, she keeps saying "i know im being really cryptic, Im sorry" etc but she's not really being very cryptic is she! She's basically saying that she thinks Poppy is a pain in the arse and is ruining planned family days out and that her behaviour is so difficult (whether that be at school or at home or both) and they are trying out removing her from school to see if it helps. Short of saying "Poppy has ASD/Autism/is ND" etc she's not being very cryptic at all!
 
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