Married at First Sight UK #9 Gobble gobble

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Chanita on ADHD. being a social worker she probably sees kids pre-diagnosis all the time so has a good idea of the signs BUT what I hated about this - if he had a dodgy mole and she said that doesnt look right, you should get it checked. Would anyone have a problem? It just screams that ADHD is a slur and something to poke fun at. I was really surprised how the "experts" reacted to her tbh

Gemma is a product of childhood trauma. It said she was adopted so she quite possibly has attachment issues and it looks like her mother tolerates or encourages her over sexualised behaviour which is disturbing to be honest. I get that she's an adult but its painfully obvious that it comes from a place of insecurity and she's used sex to get the attachment she longs for.
Again the "experts" seem to miss these ridiculously obviously cues... 🙄 not to dismiss her behaviour, it's pretty awful but Matt is not it. He's a terrible match for her. They clearly just looked at tattoos and no more. He's controlling and overly aggressive. She would probably be better with a wet blanket like george tbh...
 
Summerwalker said:
100% I think they have just seen two people with tattoos and went ahhhh yes this will work out because they look the same however, they clearly don’t think the same she’s a lovely woman I don’t believe how she acts is to hurt it’s clearly a trauma response to what’s happened in her past do I think they should have let her on the show absolutely no she is clearly a vulnerable woman he know he can carry on talking to her like tit and I know this because I’ve been her she’s clearly scared of abandonment also as she can acknowledge, he treats her like tit, but won’t leave she is clinging to this version of him in her head and not the reality in which he shows no interest in her his nasty his self obsessed and no matter what he will aways make himself a victim why because his nothing but a narcissist men like that are incredibly dangerous because his very good with his words he knows how to manipulate very well he clearly suppressing anger when he argues also we all seen how he was with witchney across the table you could see he wanted her more then he wanted gem

Gem has cleared up rake head and his comments
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What does messing about eating oysters entail though?!

I'm sick of her in her stories this morning to be honest, berating the show for ruining lives. She saw the new version MAFS in the UK last year, she knew exactly what kind of show it was. At least with something like Geordie Shore when it first started you could defend those in it because they were 18, very naïve, and plied constantly with drink. This is very different. She's constantly going on about what he said etc. at the wedding and other times, well why not share what he said then?!
 
Some people think oysters resemble fanny and make an orgasmic face when eating them for lols. For example, Ramona:
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I’ve been thinking more about Gemma, I used to work in child protection and would often see over-sexualised behaviour in very young girls entering the care system, it could be quite uncomfortable being around them and she reminds me very much of them.

There is no problem in having a healthy sexual appetite particularly as a young women and she shouldn’t be shamed for that, however that is not what she is displaying, she is desperate for male attention and is saying what she thinks they want to hear. It would be interesting to see her spend time with Chanita who must have come across such behaviour in her working capacity too.

It’s negligent of the producers to allow her to behave like this for the fun of viewers in my opinion.
 
LittleMissOnions said:
Your analysis is spot on, Gemma clearly craves affection and she uses sex to get that, she just takes it a step further than the usual insecure girl would do and doesn’t just put out but talks about it at length.

This program is destroying her by putting her with that ignorant shepherd pie headed, Wi-Fi faced tosser. Her language is appalling but I am willing to bet if she found someone who worshipped her she wouldn’t find the need to talk like that
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I dont mind Gemma as I had a friend like Gemma through school and college and she was known to like sex and make it a big topic and offered it on a plate but deep down she was so insecure.
Gemma is now having to have those insecurities of hers highlighted on tv but she is getting on with it and trying to fix these issues but has one stubborn angry partner who doesnt like to be confronted with his issuess so he uses her personal issues to humiliate her 🙄 ass😔.

This couple wont ever work.

Id like to rearrange these couples myself and sort out a few matches.

George and the Canadian lady who left seem like a better match. Both been there done it and with kids.🤔

Id have liked to see dates with others seeing as the show isnt producing much true love matches.
 
HaloGirl said:
Don’t want to tread on anyone’s toes or moderate, but please put any storylines that have not already happened with a spoiler tag. This includes Instagram stories, other social media, posts from the Daily Mail.
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Hi I’m so sorry can you tell me how I can edit my post to change it to a spoiler

MissGlitzyRitzy said:
I dont mind Gemma as I had a friend like Gemma through school and college and she was known to like sex and make it a big topic and offered it on a plate but deep down she was so insecure.
Gemma is now having to have those insecurities of hers highlighted on tv but she is getting on with it and trying to fix these issues but has one stubborn angry partner who doesnt like to be confronted with his issuess so he uses her personal issues to humiliate her 🙄 ass😔.

This couple wont ever work.

Id like to rearrange these couples myself and sort out a few matches.

George and the Canadian lady who left seem like a better match. Both been there done it and with kids.🤔

Id have liked to see dates with others seeing as the show isnt producing much true love matches.
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Right his not the right man for her at all his not understanding in my opinion she needs to 1 have therapy she needs guidance on how to control the things she says it really isn’t her fault when your so used to be only wanted sexually you start to believe that it’s all your good for so you feel as if you need to constantly sexualise yourself because you worry you yourself isn’t enough i understand Gemma and it’s shame this all being broadcasted in a very manipulative way we don’t see everything they do and I do believe he deffo does the same off cam he just won’t do it cam because he knows he’d be called out right away
 
Summerwalker said:
Hi I’m so sorry can you tell me how I can edit my post to change it to a spoiler


Right his not the right man for her at all his not understanding in my opinion she needs to 1 have therapy she needs guidance on how to control the things she says it really isn’t her fault when your so used to be only wanted sexually you start to believe that it’s all your good for so you feel as if you need to constantly sexualise yourself because you worry you yourself isn’t enough i understand Gemma and it’s shame this all being broadcasted in a very manipulative way we don’t see everything they do and I do believe he deffo does the same off cam he just won’t do it cam because he knows he’d be called out right away
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The mods have changed it so it’s all good. :) Thank you mods!
Otherwise the spoiler tag is the third option from the drop down is next to the T with the arrows.
 
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