Married at First Sight UK #8 Your targeted ads are going to be wild!! - No spoilers.

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Peachsquish said:
As someone who has been in an abusive relationship it is extremely easy to get sucked in and to believe someone when they are sorry afterwards especially once you have been isolated from other friends and family. Depending on the type of abuse from my experience it was far safer not to argue back.

I am projecting a lot but your comment comes across as in the same vein as the helpful family member who on hearing that my ex had hit me said 'well I find you annoying so I could quite see why he'd want to.'
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I hope you are safe now and Well away from your ex
 
MarshMallowMonster said:
Looking at Thomas on his SM now, he doesn’t seem to be that nice a guy if I am honest. I think how he spoke to Arfur was horrid, Thomas does actually agree but blames it on being drunk.

I don’t think him and Rozz are together tho they are proclaiming how amazing each of them are to all their followers.

I feel too meanwhile that Erica is big headed. Her reel does say girls dislike her cuz she is gorgeous. She is pretty but as we wise Tatters know, longevity isn’t guaranteed by looks alone. Same for Ella on her quest for (fake) beauty, the personality and core values lack.

Shona is milking her MAFS departure on her SM. She has to take some responsibility for her behaviour on MAFS IMO.

I only kinda like GeorgeS who takes the piss out of himself and Nathanial who is plodding on. Luke is looking for freebies on his SM. Jay and Trasha are partying together a lot. Rozz is promoting her florist business. Thomas works out. Bianca poses a lot. Ella pouts and has even bigger lips which don’t close. Arfur plays tennis.
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Erica should get her head out of her backside. If that many girls dislike her it isn't cos of her perceived amazing looks, it's the attitude she gives off. I've never not liked someone for being pretty but if they give off bigheaded vibes that's a different story.
 
daisybrown said:
Why did Erica assume Tasha was jealous of her looks? Tasha was acting like a mean girl, but to presume it is because you look good is a bit conceited?
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I agree, thinking someone doesn’t like you because you attractive is just so conceited, the fact she assumed that says a lot about her.

ETA it could be true in this example I suppose because it did seem to all start after she saw her in the bikini
 
Late to the party but just wanted to say I’ve met SO many men like Brad. The ones who have read a couple of spiritual books and act like they’re enlightened. They say reject the ego but are the most egotistical men you’ve ever met.
Generally they’re always misogynistic and have an abusive past. Russell brand is a prime example.
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Additionally, when Tasha said she’d only ever been in toxic relationships before it was a red flag to me, don’t get me wrong I know there are a lot of men out there that will treat you a certain way and make you act toxic but you don’t just meet someone who makes you forget that and recover overnight. She’s clearly got a lot of toxic traits still.
 
Howdy said:
Erica should get her head out of her backside. If that many girls dislike her it isn't cos of her perceived amazing looks, it's the attitude she gives off. I've never not liked someone for being pretty but if they give off bigheaded vibes that's a different story.
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Exactly. I like and have liked many attractive women. It's the fact her personality stinks why people dislike her.
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April89 said:
I agree, thinking someone doesn’t like you because you attractive is just so conceited, the fact she assumed that says a lot about her.

ETA it could be true in this example I suppose because it did seem to all start after she saw her in the bikini
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I'm betting something happened before that scene. I also don't think Erica looked amazing in her bikini. She looked alright but nothing that made me think wowser! She is just a normal slim girl in a bikini/costume that looked like a nip slip might happen easily.
 
pommobear said:
Oh, you mean that time way back when it wasn't a hate crime to say women don't have penises? What a terrible time to live in that was.

& it is relevant to the thread because of Ella's frankly insulting appropriation of womanhood.
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totally agree. And the fact they (media) are using him to push this false narrative that people can change sex and magically obtain different sex organs.
For people upset about “misgendering” please google the article “pronouns are rohypnol”
For people who want to know more about the reality of “bottom surgery” please look up Exulansic on YouTube
 
SaLou said:
I'm sure most people know you can't just magically be given a normal vagina. If anyone goes ahead with the surgery they will be told beforehand all it entails. Most don't have the surgery though.
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I don't think they are though, or are willing to believe in a fantasy that they don't take the reality in. Sometimes the colon is used.
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It annoys me Ella having her tits out like that 24/7, Im breastfeeding my second baby and if I get caught short and hes hungry and I have to breastfeed in public I get awful looks and comments and my breast isn't even showing like hers are. I literally get anxiety about having to do it out and about because of the tit people give me or disapproving looks even though breasts are literally there for feeding your young not for men to stare at.
 
I feel really uncomfortable when there is a lot of boob on show (not in a breastfeeding context AT ALL, just in a wearing not much one) as I just don’t know where to look, and it feels like being flashed at, and I might stare and look rude or weird.

I am quite a minger but have never ever disliked another woman for their looks. It’s only ever their personality.
 
Peachsquish said:
As someone who has been in an abusive relationship it is extremely easy to get sucked in and to believe someone when they are sorry afterwards especially once you have been isolated from other friends and family. Depending on the type of abuse from my experience it was far safer not to argue back.

I am projecting a lot but your comment comes across as in the same vein as the helpful family member who on hearing that my ex had hit me said 'well I find you annoying so I could quite see why he'd want to.'
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Sorry you had that experience. My mum's response was "well, if you weren't so argumentative..." sometimes it really is coming from inside the house.
 
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