Married at First Sight UK #18 is over no more sits, gigs and wigs

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I think Gemma is the sort of person who doesn't realise even people like the infamous 'Cock Destroyers' are playing up to the camera rather than talking like this 24/7.

Obvious NSFW link for those unfamiliar with the viral video from a while back:


I watched a James English podcast with Sophie she was really hyper and she’s been through a lot!

 
Has she, as in Gemma, actually just posted a pic of her posing naked in front of the mirror with her kid standing outside the door?!

**Edited to add her name as I had just said she 🤦🏼‍♀️

🙈🙈 she has now gone on, deleted that story and cropped him out.....
 
Has she, as in Gemma, actually just posted a pic of her posing naked in front of the mirror with her kid standing outside the door?!

**Edited to add her name as I had just said she 🤦🏼‍♀️

🙈🙈 she has now gone on, deleted that story and cropped him out.....
I don’t know why I’m not surprised by that…🤦‍♀️
 
I love watching Gemma’s insta it’s just a car crash of contradictions. So her edit on MAFS was bad but then admits her new guy also didn’t get her overly sexualised ‘humour.’ Hun you’re not a comedian if no one finds you funny…
It’s not humour it’s too much. If a bloke was like that with a woman it would be instant red flags but because she’s a woman thinks she can just say it’s ‘jokes’

What’s the deal with the housing? So she says she’s known for a while that he had to leave her current house but just hasn’t done anything about it?!
Probably because she was more bothered about the dick. She keeps saying how many friends she has and how close to her mum, yet none of them are putting her up for a while?
Reckon the constant posting was thinking she’d probably get something gifted like hotels etc until she was sorted
 
Yeah Matt had his own issues no doubt, but I genuinely felt bad for him dealing with Gemma. The way she would speak to him and try to force physical contact/affection when he clearly wasn’t into it made me uncomfortable. If their genders were switched I’m sure producers would’ve stepped in.

That being said I feel sorry for her too tbh. I found her whiny, pushy and entitled on the show. And honestly I struggled to feel sympathy for how her experience turned out. However, she doesn’t strike me as an inherently nasty person playing things up for attention (like some other MAFS people.) I think she just seems a bit …. off tbh. Very erratic and up and down.

And she’s seemingly completely unaware of herself and how she comes across to others. It also doesn’t seem like she has anyone behind the scenes in her corner. Someone to hold her accountable and offer guidance and common sense advice (which she is sorely in need of).
 
How on Earth was this an answer to the question that was asked?! It’s all WOE IS ME, she’s so narcissistic.

I also have no sympathy for her apparently “homeless” situation. She said she had known for a while she had to move out, then is making it out to be a huge last minute upheaval. It only happened because she didn’t plan or try to find anything in time and is now just scrounging off the goodwill of other people. Talking about being homeless, yet actually has a roof over her head whilst constantly showing booze she’s drinking. She’s chaotic and I feel so sorry for her sons, why is she also dressing them up like extras from Peaky Blinders?

I get a real Jack Monroe vibe from her, always the victim and everything is always someone else’s fault.
 

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How on Earth was this an answer to the question that was asked?! It’s all WOE IS ME, she’s so narcissistic.

I also have no sympathy for her apparently “homeless” situation. She said she had known for a while she had to move out, then is making it out to be a huge last minute upheaval. It only happened because she didn’t plan or try to find anything in time and is now just scrounging off the goodwill of other people. Talking about being homeless, yet actually has a roof over her head whilst constantly showing booze she’s drinking. She’s chaotic and I feel so sorry for her sons, why is she also dressing them up like extras from Peaky Blinders?

I get a real Jack Monroe vibe from her, always the victim and everything is always someone else’s fault.
What on earth is that response 🤣 she 100% the sort of person who checks in on facebook at the hospital
 
How on Earth was this an answer to the question that was asked?! It’s all WOE IS ME, she’s so narcissistic.

I also have no sympathy for her apparently “homeless” situation. She said she had known for a while she had to move out, then is making it out to be a huge last minute upheaval. It only happened because she didn’t plan or try to find anything in time and is now just scrounging off the goodwill of other people. Talking about being homeless, yet actually has a roof over her head whilst constantly showing booze she’s drinking. She’s chaotic and I feel so sorry for her sons, why is she also dressing them up like extras from Peaky Blinders?

I get a real Jack Monroe vibe from her, always the victim and everything is always someone else’s fault.
She may not be living on the streets, but she is technically still homeless as she’s in temporary accommodation.
 
Sounds like a part time dad. We all have careers, he needs to step up more
I don’t want to disagree with you but do we know this only from what Gemma has told us?
I only say this with caution as my brother sees his kids every other weekend, despite begging and imploring his ex to ‘allow’ more access. She refuses, all while complaining, to all who will listen, that my brother is an awful father and refuses to see the kids me etc etc. all lies. And he’s taking her to court for more access. She’s one of those who says ‘yes you can have kids on such and such a date’ then when he turns up she refuses to open the door or she will be ‘out’. Where does he go from there? So he’s spent in excess of £15k to get this sorted by the courts.
Sorry to waffle off on a derail but I thought it would be interesting to hear it ‘from the other side’
Do we only have Gemma’s word for it or have we heard otherwise? Just a thought.

Oh and my brothers ex is a MASSIVE narcissist, not unlike Gemma!
 
I don’t want to disagree with you but do we know this only from what Gemma has told us?
I only say this with caution as my brother sees his kids every other weekend, despite begging and imploring his ex to ‘allow’ more access. She refuses, all while complaining, to all who will listen, that my brother is an awful father and refuses to see the kids me etc etc. all lies. And he’s taking her to court for more access. She’s one of those who says ‘yes you can have kids on such and such a date’ then when he turns up she refuses to open the door or she will be ‘out’. Where does he go from there? So he’s spent in excess of £15k to get this sorted by the courts.
Sorry to waffle off on a derail but I thought it would be interesting to hear it ‘from the other side’
Do we only have Gemma’s word for it or have we heard otherwise? Just a thought.

Oh and my brothers ex is a MASSIVE narcissist, not unlike Gemma!
Hmm true but she said they really get on and with the step mum so i assumed that he didn’t help as much as he should
you don’t actually have to have a solicitor in court you can represent yourself which will save money. Your bros ex is mad to not let him have more access! Im a single mother and have my kid 365 24/7 all whilst struggling to juggle uni. Id love nothing more than a relationship with his dad but unfortunately he cba and the courts decided against it for many reasons.
Also back to gemma, why is she even in accommodation? Surely her adopted mom has a spare room? Or does she speak to her dad?
 
I don’t want to disagree with you but do we know this only from what Gemma has told us?
I only say this with caution as my brother sees his kids every other weekend, despite begging and imploring his ex to ‘allow’ more access. She refuses, all while complaining, to all who will listen, that my brother is an awful father and refuses to see the kids me etc etc. all lies. And he’s taking her to court for more access. She’s one of those who says ‘yes you can have kids on such and such a date’ then when he turns up she refuses to open the door or she will be ‘out’. Where does he go from there? So he’s spent in excess of £15k to get this sorted by the courts.
Sorry to waffle off on a derail but I thought it would be interesting to hear it ‘from the other side’
Do we only have Gemma’s word for it or have we heard otherwise? Just a thought.

Oh and my brothers ex is a MASSIVE narcissist, not unlike Gemma!
I get you but Gemma says he's a good Dad in all her stories so can't imagine she would do that if any of this was going on in the background. If she was trying to make out he is an hole she would say that.

Hmm true but she said they really get on and with the step mum so i assumed that he didn’t help as much as he should
you don’t actually have to have a solicitor in court you can represent yourself which will save money. Your bros ex is mad to not let him have more access! Im a single mother and have my kid 365 24/7 all whilst struggling to juggle uni. Id love nothing more than a relationship with his dad but unfortunately he cba and the courts decided against it for many reasons.
Also back to gemma, why is she even in accommodation? Surely her adopted mom has a spare room? Or does she speak to her dad?
Doesn't speak to her Dad and apparently her mum "can't" help.
 
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