MAFS Australia season 10 (E4 pace) #6 Thor the good of everyone, Shannon's trip to Mercury should be permanent

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Comewhinewithme said:
because he's an abuser, if he said that stuff on TV imagine what he has said to her on and off for 7yrs behind closed doors, poor girl has probably tried to get away time and time again.
I imagine he has drummed stuff into her head that is similar, no one else will want you, you've gotten fat (pregnant) you're not as pretty as u used to be. I'm the best thing for us.
If she has any hope she should run a mile and take that child before he has an influence over them.
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yes I can see exactly what you mean. He’s absolutely vile. I should imagine that his ex is completely trodden down. How must she be feeling too, in all this?
 
docmum said:
I agree. It’s become a real highlight and big help for my MH by having a fixed weekday evening routine and laughing more than I’ve laughed in ages - definitely something to look forward to!
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Totally the same as that. Im sitting there and suddenly realise my face is starting to ache from smiling and laughing. You don't realise how much you miss laughing and smiling until it happens.

Work is a bit crappy at the moment and most days I leave feeling down or angry, once I've been in here though with you lovely lot I actually feel like a weight has been lifted off me ♥️
 
I don't think I'll be here tonight. I'm too upset.

I'm really upset. I got rejected from both jobs. When is it my time for luck? I never catch a break. I'm fuckin stuck in tit customer service jobs. Any time I try so hard to get out. It's like everything is in the odds for me to fail. I've had so many rejections.

I'm so embarrassed. I'm 22, I've achieved absolutely nothing in my life. I left school thinking my future was bright. I left with amazing grades but I'm trapped in minimum wage shop jobs because I cannot cope with higher education. I feel sick with shame. I've cried so much I've threw up. I finished work an hour ago and I've sat in my car crying my eyes out. I haven't went home yet.

I know I'm still young but I'm in the same position I was 4 years ago. In a tit job with no prospects, tit mental health and still suffering from the same eating disorder that forced me to drop out almost 5 years ago and I can't get any access for help.

I feel like no matter how hard I try I always get kicked down to earth any time I feel like things might be looking up
 
Dancing_in_the_dark said:
Oh ffs I need to put children up for adoption. I’ve got a 7:30 pick up tonight 🙄 why can’t they just put it on at a decent time. One where they stop beeping out the swearing too. If we have to hear about intimacy and mel riding her way to divorce then surely we can cope with a few fucks ect
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Wouldn't tonight be a good time to teach them about independent travel?
 
Things will change @Princess of Scots - it’s not a reflection on you or what you’ve already achieved and if anything you just need to be a little kinder to yourself. You put yourself out there which is the hardest thing to do, you’ve gained even more experience and a slightly thicker skin.
try to join in tonight if you can just to distract your brain for an hour and a half, even if your heart isn’t in it. It won’t change the tit day you’ve had but it’ll get you closer to waking up tomorrow and doing everything again. You’ve got this and we’ve got you here too ❤️
 
Princess of Scots said:
I don't think I'll be here tonight. I'm too upset.

I'm really upset. I got rejected from both jobs. When is it my time for luck? I never catch a break. I'm fuckin stuck in tit customer service jobs. Any time I try so hard to get out. It's like everything is in the odds for me to fail. I've had so many rejections.

I'm so embarrassed. I'm 22, I've achieved absolutely nothing in my life. I left school thinking my future was bright. I left with amazing grades but I'm trapped in minimum wage shop jobs because I cannot cope with higher education. I feel sick with shame. I've cried so much I've threw up. I finished work an hour ago and I've sat in my car crying my eyes out. I haven't went home yet.

I know I'm still young but I'm in the same position I was 4 years ago. In a tit job with no prospects, tit mental health and still suffering from the same eating disorder that forced me to drop out almost 5 years ago and I can't get any access for help.

I feel like no matter how hard I try I always get kicked down to earth any time I feel like things might be looking up
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Sorry to hear this, as someone older it's going to be hard to say this without sounding patronising I guess and it's like telling someone not to worry...like they've never thought of that themselves! But you are so young!

You have a life ahead and it doesn't seem like it now but the fact you are pushing yourself shows how determined a person you are, the fact you can see at 22 there is more to life its huge in itself, you know there are people who sit and let the yrs go by but already you're hungry for more. I can only see that as a positive ❤️
You will get there, as my mum used to say to me, look some people take the short road and get there fast, you take the scenic route but you still get there in the end😂
What I always did with an interview is, tell myself they need me more than I need them, hell they are the ones advertising might sound weird but it kind of gave me a confidence walking in.
come on for a lurk later and hopefully cheer you up 😘
 
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