cocochino
Chatty Member
I've a love island group chat with my friends. I ignore it mostly cause its never as good as here.
However one of the girls is studying to become a life coach. She thinks the main issue with Luca and Gemma is they have totally different attachment styles and love languages. He's got an anxious attachment style whilst she has a secure one.
She's quick to say that doesn't excuse his way of speaking to Gemma at all and his behaviour but did say he is frustrated and is unable to express that in a constructive way. He needs reassurance and she doesn't ultimately. That's the bare bones of it she was more detailed.
It was interesting. Right I'm actually in the office today so tattle later!
I never would’ve thought Gemma would be a secure attachment type. She seems more avoidant to me. Too cold and dismissive to be secure.
Avoidant and anxious attachment styles attract each other like moths to a flame.