Love Island 2021 #23

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stephobz said:
Really feeling for Teddy now - Faye is relentless and it’s horrific having someone repeatedly kick you when you’re already down. If the roles were reversed and he was speaking to her this way I think production would have intervened out of fear he’d attack her
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I was half expecting faye to throw a wine glass or something at teddy last night. if the roles were reversed people would be shouting 'this is how physical abuse starts' and its 100% true even in this situation
 
Mable912 said:
And this is exactly why, in my view, anybody on this thread who has posted a meme about “loving the drama” or has been abusive towards Faye needs to educate themselves. Sending lots of love to you
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I do not need to educate myself and will post on a gossip forum as I see fit.

if you are a professional who is diagnosing and making assumptions about Faye based on a highly edited and produced TV programme that is concerning and she may disagree with your words should she ever read them.

Is your profile picture an unflattering representation of someone you don't like?
 
stardust21 said:
I really don’t think Kaz agreed with Faye’s reaction:


There is a huge difference between saying “I can understand why you’re angry” and going “you’re so right to be shouting in his face YOU GO GIRL!”
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I agree. I think she was trying to maybe calm her and reassure her by saying she saw her point. Someone one mentioned Kaz and Millie were entertaining it. They weren't. Their facial expressions showed their disagreement with the way she expressed her feelings.

They moved away and sat down, yes they watched but EVERYONE in that Villa could hear her and most could see her and were looking over at her regardless. She is vile.
 
Gamu said:
I do not need to educate myself and will post on a gossip forum as I see fit.

if you are a professional who is diagnosing and making assumptions about Faye based on a highly edited and produced TV programme that is concerning and she may disagree with your words should she ever read them.

Is your profile picture an unflattering representation of someone you don't like?
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I am not and have not attempted to diagnose Faye. I’m not even going to use energy replying to each of your points when I can see by your defensive response that a part of you knows deep down this isn’t ethically right.

Gossip isn’t exploitation.

Ive done what I needed to do, I wanted to bring a different angle and I’ve done it, so I will bow out at this point.
 
I still can’t believe when Liberty told Jake she was upset with what he’d said, he told her to stop living in the past 💀 he was so defensive with the whole ‘why would I make you my girlfriend if I didn’t find you attractive?’ argument. Errr because you wanna win 50k and none of the new girls showed any interest in you
 
Mable912 said:
@Idon'twanttobehere What thread are you looking at..? Here’s some screenshots from page 1….

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You don’t see anyone being abusive? 🤨 and that’s just page 1?
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Faye is a head though as proven last night. No one called her ugly, slagging her awful makeup is ok to do.

Its different commenting on fayes Instagram or something to here. We're all here to witch. Maybe this isn't the site for you.
 
The thing is though while Faye may show shades of having a BPD we haven’t been told this and can’t assume this and sanitise comments as a result, the fault of this lies entirely at the producers feet not the audiences as she should have either not been allowed onto the show, been removed last night, or had the situation diffused.

the fact that the producers didn’t do that is why people should or have complained to ofcom as it shows such little regard for all of the contestants/the contestants MH all for entertainment, I think faye’s reaction last night was awful and way OTT but quite uncomfortable viewing
 
Apple In My Pie said:
The thing is though while Faye may show shades of having a BPD we haven’t been told this and can’t assume this and sanitise comments as a result, the fault of this lies entirely at the producers feet not the audiences as she should have either not been allowed onto the show, been removed last night, or had the situation diffused.

the fact that the producers didn’t do that is why people should or have complained to ofcom as it shows such little regard for all of the contestants/the contestants MH all for entertainment, I think faye’s reaction last night was awful and way OTT but quite uncomfortable viewing
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Can't diagnose her at all !!! That's just weird.

We can all diagnose her as a bleep and that's it 🙂
 
I don't understand all the people who are saying we shouldn't complain to Ofcom because the show would be boring without drama. We do not only have the two options of watching someone be abusive or watching a boring show. There are so so many ways for a show to be entertaining without glorifying abusive behaviours.

There was loads of drama on the night the lads returned from Casa Amor, and people were praising the show for being so interesting. Yet that night didn't involve anywhere near the level of aggression that we saw last night. Even last night could have been entertaining and dramatic without being unacceptable, if someone had intervened as soon as it became clear that no one would be able to de-escalate things. It is possible for a television show to be entertaining and suspenseful without upsetting a large portion of your audience, other TV producers manage it every day.

Victims of abuse have recognised their own experiences within the behaviour that Faye displayed last night. If that doesn't demonstrate exactly why complaints to Ofcom are justified then I don't know what will. Society's response to domestic abuse is already terrible, and normalising those levels of aggression on TV helps feed in to the narrative that it's not a big deal.

I've seen a lot of comments on other sites praising Faye for standing up for herself and I don't agree with those either. Assertion and aggression are very different, and it is entirely possible to stand up for yourself or your friends without being verbally abusive. We need to stop making excuses for that sort of behaviour and start actually addressing it.
 
Mable912 said:
I am not and have not attempted to diagnose Faye. I’m not even going to use energy replying to each of your points when I can see by your defensive response that a part of you knows deep down this isn’t ethically right.

Gossip isn’t exploitation.

Ive done what I needed to do, I wanted to bring a different angle and I’ve done it, so I will bow out at this point.
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If I want to call Faye a head I will 🤷‍♀️ Don’t get why someone who has posted over 700 messages on tattle is suddenly preaching be kind
 
Mable912 said:
I am not and have not attempted to diagnose Faye. I’m not even going to use energy replying to each of your points when I can see by your defensive response that a part of you knows deep down this isn’t ethically right.

Gossip isn’t exploitation.

Ive done what I needed to do, I wanted to bring a different angle and I’ve done it, so I will bow out at this point.
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I think screenshotting other user’s posts to potentially put them in the firing line is bizarre behaviour for a self proclaimed therapist. You’re bowing out because everything you’re accusing people on here of doing about Faye is what you’ve been doing with Brogan Tate x (making an assumption based on the pic, haven‘t checked your posts ☺️)
 
4FoxAche said:
I agree. I think she was trying to maybe calm her and reassure her by saying she saw her point. Someone one mentioned Kaz and Millie were entertaining it. They weren't. Their facial expressions showed their disagreement with the way she expressed her feelings.

They moved away and sat down, yes they watched but EVERYONE in that Villa could hear her and most could see her and were looking over at her regardless. She is vile.
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Didn't Chloe kinda egg Faye on with "you have the best comebacks" whilst laughing

Yet noone wants to talk about that
 
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