Love Island 2021 #23

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bella15jade said:
No one is gonna agree but idgaf. sick of people acting like teddy is some kind of saint he never told her what went down at casa and yeah I agree she shouldn’t be shouting about it but she has every right to be pissed. also him calling her an idiot is a red flag name calling shouldn’t be a thing in ‘relationships’ it’s gross. and why didn’t he just walk away when he knew she was wound up and told him to go.
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Agree with the first part but him calling her an idiot in comparison to how she verbally abused him is very different. He called her a twit and an idiot - after being screamed at and called a prick
 
rlouisep9 said:
You haven't gone on a dating show on TV though. She must have known whether she was able to deal with what was going to be thrown at her, and would have gone through a vigorous screening process in order to do so..
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I feel that a lot of people are overlooking this very valid point. I know that sometimes people can get into relationships they aren't emotionally ready for because they unexpectedly meet someone and fall for them at a bad time. But that isn't the case for Faye. She has made a conscious decision to start dating, and to do it on television. She shouldn't have chosen to go on the show when issues from her past are impacting on her interpersonal skills (and we know that she's got enough self-awareness to know about these issues because she alludes to them quite frequently).
 
Justhereforthegossip1 said:
It was abusive behaviour though, it shouldn’t be allowed
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I don’t think you can remove someone for having too much to drink and losing their tit. I absolutely do not condone Faye’s behaviour but I have seen a lot worse on reality TV. Megan McKenna made a career out of it. EOTB has had worse over the years. To me, I found to boring it watch and she was just getting on my nerves talking over Teddy. There was an element of her showing off in front of the girls but none of them was enough of a friend to calm her down.

I actually think it’s good to show bad behaviour so young people can recognise and see how other people are horrified by certain behaviour. It also might help people identify potentially abusive traits in people.
 
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Cupântae said:
I think there is a lot of judgement being thrown at Faye and we obviously don't know her past. I had a violent, manipulative ex. Just to name a few things, he spiked my drink, attacked me physically, actually left me with handprint bruises on my neck at one time. Threatened to kill himself if I left him. Once tried to hang himself with the cord of our iron off a balcony when I was packing my stuff. Cord broke, he broke his leg & I was stuck again. I was 20 to 22 dealing with all this. I spent years dealing with issues and I certainly lashed out like Faye at times. I became fiercely protective of people I cared about too.

I'd say it was 10 years before I learned to regulate my emotions. Im 35 now and I still don't want to be anyones girlfriend but that's my choice because I know who I am
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I’m sorry you went through that. I have also struggled with my own childhood traumas and I struggle to regulate my mood. But I am still accountable for my own actions. If I lost my temper and killed someone, I’m still responsible regardless of my past.

I saw a video the other week that most people end up in therapy because the person in their life that needed it didn’t have it. That hit me hard. Faye will know how disruptive she’s being, no doubt.
 
hol20x said:
At this point I don’t understand how she passed the psych evaluation to get on the show.
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It depends on how in depth the evaluation is. Disclosure of medical history and some psychometrics wouldn't really evidence much given that she would "fake good" during testing. She seems to genuinely believe she's in the right so you could imagine her responding to testing... "How do you deal with conflict?" "Very well".
 
bella15jade said:
No one is gonna agree but idgaf. sick of people acting like teddy is some kind of saint he never told her what went down at casa and yeah I agree she shouldn’t be shouting about it but she has every right to be pissed. also him calling her an idiot is a red flag name calling shouldn’t be a thing in ‘relationships’ it’s gross. and why didn’t he just walk away when he knew she was wound up and told him to go.
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I am prone to disagree with you. Like at the end of the day Clarisse went off with Tyler after Teddy said he only had eyes for Faye. Like as far as anyone was concerned, anything between teddy and Clarisse was closed off very quickly.

He may as well have told her that he thought all the casa girls were attractive then if it’s so bad that he finds other people attractive. Faye would have been pissed if he told her anyways cause the girl is insecure. I’d like to think that most girls know their fellas are going to find other people attractive. If you’re gonna be mad about it duck that. Also it’s love island 😂
 
hol20x said:
At this point I don’t understand how she passed the psych evaluation to get on the show.
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This - LI have made a big deal about all the tests they do, I don't know how you can get to Faye's age without either having therapy or realising you need therapy. She's very volatile and Women's Aid were more than happy to speak up when they thought Adam was gaslighting, be interesting to see if any of the charities speak up now. No, we don't know what she's been through but it's the producers' job to.

Just edited to add that when I say "need therapy" I really do not mean that in a negative way - therapy is great for everyone, I've had it and would do it again if it was more easily affordable. It's not me saying "that woman needs therapy"in a nasty way.
 
Faye needs to be ejected from the villa ASAP. If a man was doing the same in there, he'd have been sent packing straight away.
Its vile. Regardless of whats (potentially) happened to her in the past you cant go around treating people like that, its not even just her actions towards toby, its the way she spoke to everyone tonight.
Really hard viewing tonight.
 
Smellyinghams said:
I am prone to disagree with you. Like at the end of the day Clarisse went off with Tyler after Teddy said he only had eyes for Faye. Like as far as anyone was concerned, anything between teddy and Clarisse was closed off very quickly.

He may as well have told her that he thought all the casa girls were attractive then if it’s so bad that he finds other people attractive. Faye would have been pissed if he told her anyways cause the girl is insecure. I’d like to think that most girls know their fellas are going to find other people attractive. If you’re gonna be mad about it duck that. Also it’s love island 😂
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I'd like to think most people know they and their partners will find someone else attractive - just because you're in a relationship and monogamous doesn't make you blind - other people are allowed to be attractive! Just don't act on it! :D
 
bella15jade said:
No one is gonna agree but idgaf. sick of people acting like teddy is some kind of saint he never told her what went down at casa and yeah I agree she shouldn’t be shouting about it but she has every right to be pissed. also him calling her an idiot is a red flag name calling shouldn’t be a thing in ‘relationships’ it’s gross. and why didn’t he just walk away when he knew she was wound up and told him to go.
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She shared a bed with a guy whereas teddy slept on the day bed and recoupled, he came back single. It’s completely normally to find other people attractive when you’re in a relationship. Teddy has done nothing wrong and pls, idiot is nothing to compared to all the swearing Faye did. And she wasn’t just rude to teddy she was nasty to Matt and Dale. Her actions cannot be justified
 
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bella15jade said:
No one is gonna agree but idgaf. sick of people acting like teddy is some kind of saint he never told her what went down at casa and yeah I agree she shouldn’t be shouting about it but she has every right to be pissed. also him calling her an idiot is a red flag name calling shouldn’t be a thing in ‘relationships’ it’s gross. and why didn’t he just walk away when he knew she was wound up and told him to go.
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Teddy didn't do anything in Casa. He made a couple of comments, joined in a game and slept on the day bed the whole week. If I remember rightly Carice instigated that conversation with Teddy too. Faye, meanwhile coupled up with someone else, slept in the same bed and had 'cuddles'.

Faye called him a lot worse than an idiot.

But it's Teddy's fault .... :rolleyes:
 
Don't understand why the girls didn't put her in her place though? They just let her rip into poor Teddy and all the boys whilst laughing.

bella15jade said:
No one is gonna agree but idgaf. sick of people acting like teddy is some kind of saint he never told her what went down at casa and yeah I agree she shouldn’t be shouting about it but she has every right to be pissed. also him calling her an idiot is a red flag name calling shouldn’t be a thing in ‘relationships’ it’s gross. and why didn’t he just walk away when he knew she was wound up and told him to go.
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Yeah no one agrees Bella. She's an Adult and should communicate like one.
 
Faye is a horrendous creature…absoute horrible womman, her behaviour was absolutely inexcusable…Teddy is an absolute gent
At the end of the day, if you cant handle this stuff without becoming abusive and agressive, then dont go on a tv dating show…
I would call her a gowl but tat isnt a strong enough word…
 
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