Lily Pebbles #34 The Loft Ness Moanster

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Why can’t she flaunt her body?
Right? I'd hardly call hiding ones body in shapless sacks flauting anyway. If she were wearing crop tops, body con dresses, bikins, maybe. She would still have every right to wear whatever she wants.

This "flaunting her body" when a woman is just existing a bit slimmer to your liking is very Daily Mail "pregnant celebrity seen walking down the street FLaUnTiNg her bump".
 
She annoys me so much. Not saying black tie is an accessible dress code but it comes with clear rules about what is and isn’t, and it’s a chance to be fancier than you ever get to be in normal life. It’s 2022 - you can hire a dress, from a designer you maybe couldn’t afford or justify buying! You can wear trousers! You can wear a fancy hat! Borrow a dress from a friend! You don’t have to wear something dowdy made of polyester from ASOS that you hate.
And the excuse of oh I normally like to be casual. Ok fine but this is a friend’s wedding. If the dress code is that much of an issue don't go. You work in fashion and are a self proclaimed creative, it shouldn’t be this hard
 
View attachment 1168381 qWe know Anna’s wedding guest outfit, the “55 year old council administrator pinstripe suit” as showcased a few vlogs back….


So true… a couple of them were oooookay, but with a pair of trainers or sandals. Very casual! This sounds v American or old fashioned but she should get her “colours done” - or at least watch some tik toks about it. Everything she’s picking just now makes her look peaky and sallow.
Please can you tell me how I’d find tik toks on having your colours done? I kind of want to get it done myself, but I’m worried I won’t like the colours 😂 sorry to derail..
 
I was thinking this but I came to the conclusion that the ‘black tie’ wasn’t really what the bride thinks it means - I assume she’s trying to sound all posh and fancy wedding but what she means is ‘wedding dress’ I don’t even see why weddings need a dress code, surely people know what to wear to a wedding! Like you say black tie is actually really formal with certain rules and it doesn’t seem this is the case so why put it on the invite other than to think you sound fancy when you actually mean ‘dress for a wedding’ 😂😂😂
She annoys me so much. Not saying black tie is an accessible dress code but it comes with clear rules about what is and isn’t, and it’s a chance to be fancier than you ever get to be in normal life. It’s 2022 - you can hire a dress, from a designer you maybe couldn’t afford or justify buying! You can wear trousers! You can wear a fancy hat! Borrow a dress from a friend! You don’t have to wear something dowdy made of polyester from ASOS that you hate.
And the excuse of oh I normally like to be casual. Ok fine but this is a friend’s wedding. If the dress code is that much of an issue don't go. You work in fashion and are a self proclaimed creative, it shouldn’t be this hard
 
When you’ve got people like Anna flaunting their post pregnancy bod though… with friends like that who needs enemies?

I'm sorry but that's a stretch. So is every slim woman that is friend's with Lily flaunting their body as well? She's friends with Keisha Lall who literally looks the same after giving birth. Even if Nanna wore crop tops or reformation dresses or a bathing suit (gag), how is that "flaunting her post pregnancy body"? Should Nanna and Keisha purposely gain weight or not post any pics of themselves so they can be "considerate" of their "friend"?

Some people are just naturally slim than others. Lastly, its not like Lily is a working class mum she's literally wfh (and calling what she does work is a stretch) with a peloton and can afford and has the time to exercise/ hire a trainer or better yet a therapist.
 
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Is she being too hard on herself? It took me ages to “get rid” of my baby belly. I wore things that just skimmed my shape for a long, long time. As someone earlier said, she needs some advice although you’d think she’d be more aware. 🤷🏻‍♀️

She needs bleeping therapy at this point. A stylist can only do so much, but there’s some deep seated resentment in her that needs to be addressed. And soon, otherwise all that hatred will be put on Grey (as we’ve already seen some inklings of).

None of those dresses are appropriate for a black tie wedding…especially the red one WITH HEARTS?! That’s not even appropriate for a casual wedding. That is Sunday brunch with the girls appropriate.

Seconding Hurr and By Rotation. She obviously hates to wear anything that she doesn’t consider casual, so just RENT A FREAKING DRESS YA DIMWIT (maybe you can even get some #ad content out of it - what a bleeping gold pitch too…new mom of 2, still trying to find her style, but dress appropriately for a black tie wedding…I take a 20% commission, Lily).
 
She needs bleeping therapy at this point. A stylist can only do so much, but there’s some deep seated resentment in her that needs to be addressed. And soon, otherwise all that hatred will be put on Grey (as we’ve already seen some inklings of).

None of those dresses are appropriate for a black tie wedding…especially the red one WITH HEARTS?! That’s not even appropriate for a casual wedding. That is Sunday brunch with the girls appropriate.

Seconding Hurr and By Rotation. She obviously hates to wear anything that she doesn’t consider casual, so just RENT A FREAKING DRESS YA DIMWIT (maybe you can even get some #ad content out of it - what a bleeping gold pitch too…new mom of 2, still trying to find her style, but dress appropriately for a black tie wedding…I take a 20% commission, Lily).
@poopettemetis she needs to ask snoozles for suitable wedding attire, right? 🤣🤣🤣
 
I don’t see what is wrong with the dress code. I don’t think is pretentious at all. Maybe her friend comes from an affluent family? Maybe she has a wedding in a fancy hotel in central London. Idk what Lily thinks, if she google black tie wedding attire, it doesn’t look like what she ordered. Also that shoes is so high, she will be moaning…of course she needs the bride to bend the rules for her. Just stay at home Lily
 
I don’t see what is wrong with the dress code. I don’t think is pretentious at all. Maybe her friend comes from an affluent family? Maybe she has a wedding in a fancy hotel in central London. Idk what Lily thinks, if she google black tie wedding attire, it doesn’t look like what she ordered. Also that shoes is so high, she will be moaning…
I think “black tie” weddings are becoming more common in Britain too. I’ve never been to one but she should really know the dress code at her age. Like you say, if unsure, just Google it.
 
Since when have Mango, Cos, Arket etc become places you shop for occasion dresses?!

All those dresses are VERY casual!

Why not just respect the dress-code and wear something appropriate?!

This is pretty 😍
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Since when have Mango, Cos, Arket etc become places you shop for occasion dresses?!

All those dresses are VERY casual!

Why not just respect the dress-code and wear something appropriate?!

This is pretty 😍
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Exactly what I was thinking. Mango and cheap made asos would not be my first thoughts for a special occasion either. She could look amazing in a well made dress. She needs to open her wallet and stop being a cheapskate.
 
Since when have Mango, Cos, Arket etc become places you shop for occasion dresses?!

All those dresses are VERY casual!

Why not just respect the dress-code and wear something appropriate?!

This is pretty 😍
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She doesn’t like her back, she doesn’t like her boobs, she doesn’t like her ass, she doesn’t like her everything. She needs a PR therapist lol.
 
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