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fishsticks said:
Urgggggggggggggg a girl. Poor River. He needs all the support he can get and now he's going to be pushed to the side. She won't have time for him now especially if she's already saying she can't shower..............
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It's honestly pathetic. She couldn't cope with one. His additional needs aren't even on her radar. She had zero business making the decision to have another child when she can't even be a proper parent to her first born. Now it's all gushing over a newborn and there's not a single mention of River. The thing about babies is, they grow into toddlers, into children, with their own thoughts and feelings. I genuinely don't believe Jade (like so many of the other instahuns) thinks beyond the baby stage.
 
fandwild said:
It's honestly pathetic. She couldn't cope with one. His additional needs aren't even on her radar. She had zero business making the decision to have another child when she can't even be a proper parent to her first born. Now it's all gushing over a newborn and there's not a single mention of River. The thing about babies is, they grow into toddlers, into children, with their own thoughts and feelings. I genuinely don't believe Jade (like so many of the other instahuns) thinks beyond the baby stage.
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It's heartbreaking!! I would say she's in denial about his additional needs, but I genuinely don't even think she realises. She was far too late in her attempt to get intervention with his speech, she was not on it with that at all. There were signs earlier on that most people spotted that she didn't, but also she didn't help him either. She clearly needed help in the early days and didn't seek it. Family and friends also turned a blind eye clearly.
Ifyouknowyouknow said:
I don’t believe that she’s not showered - she is saying it because that’s what all the other huns say. We all know that she prioritises herself just fine.
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Would agree with this in part. I think she needs help though, probably something friends and family can't give!!
 
Ifyouknowyouknow said:
I don’t believe that she’s not showered - she is saying it because that’s what all the other huns say. We all know that she prioritises herself just fine.
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They think it makes them relatable but it just does the exact opposite. Tell me you can't find the time to get washed because your actual child needs you for x, y and z & I'll find that a lot more relatable.
 
She's put up this morning that it looks like baby girl has a milk intolerance. I really really hope she gets the help she needs both her and baby as it can definitely be brutal if baby has CMPA. I don't know first-hand what it's like, but my best friend's little girl had it and it was hell on earth for them until they finally got sorted with the Doctos and formula, etc.
 
fandwild said:
...meanwhile, what has she noticed about the more pressing issue of her son needing his Mother to speak up for him & get him help because this tunnel is a much longer one & she's absolutely nowhere near the light at the end of that one. Not even close. She's boiled my piss this morning.
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She’s not even entered the tunnel, she’s still at the it’ll happen when it happens. Absolutely deluded
 
Genuinely think I'll have to stop following her. It's really upset & angered me for that wee boy. Even the whole harping on about the baby having a possible dairy intolerance & she's going to continue cutting out dairy so she can continue to breastfeed. Then lots of tears (from them all). You're the parent Jade love. Make a decision that's best for both your children & your family & know when you need to change your course of action. I can just imagine that poor wee lad in total sensory overwhelm because she's in a flap arsing about so she can say she stuck with breastfeeding for the gram. She's a selfish witch & Rhod is an absolute wet wipe for enabling her to act the airhead.
 
Breastfeeding is intense in itself in those first few weeks. I’ve got a 3 year old and a now 14 week old. My newborn took all my time, especially during the cluster feeds, and my 3 year old inevitably lost out on time with me, but to a certain degree he understood. I feel like River would not understand and be completely and utterly confused. Poor boy
 
havingalookhere said:
Breastfeeding is intense in itself in those first few weeks. I’ve got a 3 year old and a now 14 week old. My newborn took all my time, especially during the cluster feeds, and my 3 year old inevitably lost out on time with me, but to a certain degree he understood. I feel like River would not understand and be completely and utterly confused. Poor boy
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Of course he won't. Poor wee dote will have had his whole world turned upside down & these two eejits won't have done a damned thing to make it any easier for him. It might be harsh to say, but she absolutely hasn't the time to devote to breastfeeding with River the way he is. Needs to give her head a good wobble & get her priorities in order but she never will.
 
Did she use a sling with River? Did she breastfeed? Why so much fuss this time round? Everything always has to be so bleeping difficult with her. Always such a song and dance.
 
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