Liam Payne #2

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kimberlyc said:
Can anyone else just still not believe that he’s dead? I was just watching One Direction music videos on YouTube and I got so emotional I wanted to cry. I wouldn’t even say I was a huge fan of them back in the day, but I liked their music and some of Liam’s solo stuff. It’s just so tragic I can’t comprehend it. He didn’t deserve to die 😢
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Yup! I was a big 1D fan when they were first on the scene, seen them on their first tour after xfactor but then as I grew up it became less & less. Still like their music and liked some of Liams solo stuff too. Just feels so surreal. 31, with his life ahead of him. Especially watching his son grow up. So so terribly sad
 
@kimberlyc me 😟 I feel bloody stupid if I’m honest I’m almost 40 and not a ‘fangirl’ but I did like 1D and had their first 2 albums on cd. It’s all so very sad, a lot of their radio stuff was upbeat and happy and I don’t know how to ever feel ‘happy’ again when listening to their songs. Poor Liam, I wish he knew he was worth more than what it came to 💔
 
Brummiebird said:
Unless someone physically held him down and shoved it down his throat, up his nostrils or injected it in to him, he gave it to himself.
Someone would have sold it to him but he would have requested it.
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100% this. I think people are looking for excuses to blame for his death when it is solely down to him.

His death is no different to the thousands of drug related deaths each week. Again if you live by the sword you die by the sword. I am sick of a new story every 2 minutes. To me it's pretty much a closed case, the press are constantly looking for a new angle when there isn't one.

Don't do drugs kids. Tale as old as time
 
frillylilly said:
Sorry but have you ever lost someone very suddenly?

When my dad died I went back to school within two days. I loved him more than anything. I just didn't know what to do. When death occurs suddenly you can go into shock and do things that are normal. It all catches up in the end.

If she was papped going on a night out then fair enough, but her friends could've said 'Let's take the dog to get food just to get out of the house.'
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Someone very close to me died and it just didn't seem to hit me. I went to work the next day. The funeral hit me like a bus but I then wasn't allowed time off work despite continuing to work in between the death and the funeral.
 
Starlight_100 said:
I think it would be lovely for the other members of One Direction to do a Tribute Tour in Liams memory . A chance for all the fans, family and friends of Liam to come together for one more tour, one last time, in his memory. I think it would be such a wonderful thing to do, Liam wanted a reunion of them all together so I think a Tribute Tour would be perfect in his memory and to focus on all he did for the band. Obviously they all need time at the moment but once they feel ready it would be lovely. One last time, for Liam. I have always liked One Direction, listened to their music from when they came about to this day, never expected we'd lose one of them so soon 💔
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Sorry, I am not up to date but this is the worst idea. They didn’t get along, they are all grieving none the less, it’s opportunistic and just in general bad taste. If anyone wants to do anything then let it be the family.
 
SaltandPepperChicken said:
Sorry, I am not up to date but this is the worst idea. They didn’t get along, they are all grieving none the less, it’s opportunistic and just in general bad taste. If anyone wants to do anything then let it be the family.
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I don’t think they should do a tour for Liam either. Like you say they all didn’t get on so it would be for all the wrong reasons.
 
cwymmie said:
I must watch too much tv because to me, a narc is a policeman that deals with drug busts etc. 😵‍ I must not know the latest buzz words.
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A "narc" or "narc behaviour" is often used to refer to someone displaying traits of Narcissistic Personality disorder. It's a bit of a buzzword at the moment and often gets wrongly directed at someone doing something the op doesn't like.
 
youwhatdahlinn said:
I've been lurking on this thread since I found out on Thursday what happened to Liam.

This is my take on the whole situation. I apologise if it's an essay but I feel like I'm ruminating alot about it, finding myself obsessing on the small details and I need to let it out.

I have had a few theories the last few days, has he attempted to sit on the edge of balcony, misjudged it and fell backwards, was it a third party etc etc .... But now I truly believe he was attempting to escape the hotel room and has slipped to his death.

He has discussed in detail previously about being locked in hotel rooms during the 1D touring days. Has he thought to himself "f*ck this, they aren't locking me away again", he's brought his bag + hat with him and was intending to get tf out of the situation before police were called and he had another media tit storm coming his way.

Either way it's just so sad, and I can't stop thinking about it. I think I need a break from socials for a while as the constant tiktok posts + news reports I keep seeing aren't doing me any good.

I have just seen reports that his death has been ruled as inconclusive, does that mean we will never know what actually caused his death? Id like to think there would be an inquest carried out in the UK?
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Inconclusive usually means it's not 100% certain he died by suicide, it could have been an accidental fall.
 
Starlight_100 said:
I think it would be lovely for the other members of One Direction to do a Tribute Tour in Liams memory . A chance for all the fans, family and friends of Liam to come together for one more tour, one last time, in his memory. I think it would be such a wonderful thing to do, Liam wanted a reunion of them all together so I think a Tribute Tour would be perfect in his memory and to focus on all he did for the band. Obviously they all need time at the moment but once they feel ready it would be lovely. One last time, for Liam. I have always liked One Direction, listened to their music from when they came about to this day, never expected we'd lose one of them so soon 💔
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Never going to happen. They’d have to not perform some of their biggest hits.
I’m not a huge fan but even I know one of their songs has the line “And if you like causing trouble up in hotel rooms”. Awkward!
 
JuneJuneHannah said:
Someone very close to me died and it just didn't seem to hit me. I went to work the next day. The funeral hit me like a bus but I then wasn't allowed time off work despite continuing to work in between the death and the funeral.
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There's no rhyme or reason to grief. All that stuff about the different stages of grief is bollocks. It hits everyone differently and the last thing you're thinking of is the optics of what you're doing. There's no right or wrong way to act - all you can do is take it day by day.
 
Fell into a bit of a rabbit hole reading about other celebrities that have died by suicide. I always wonder what they must have been thinking before doing the act. It breaks my heart to think people believe that ending their life is the only way out. I have been severely depressed in the past and have struggled with my mental health, on occasions I have also thought about suicide but I know that’s irrational and I could never actually go through with it, not knowing the pain and devastation it would leave behind. I’m much happier now and not in a dark place, I wish people could see how there is still so much to live for, even if they don’t feel like it in those last moments.
 
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