Lauren Goodger #65

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All of this is so so so wrong. The woman will still be bleeding and be producing milk, not even having yet buried her little baby and she’s pouting?! This is disgusting. There are other young babies there too. You would be absolutely distraught. The thought of something happening to one of my babies makes me feel sick. Never in a million years if I lost my child would I be posing for a picture two weeks later. If the party had to go ahead fair enough, I can maybe understand that now she just wants is to see her little girl happy during such a horrible time. But the pictures, full face of make up etc is just wrong.
 
I understand its not what most people would do but do you want pictures of her crying and mourning? The type of people they are they will just move on quickly and that's it. Holding her friends bump is a normal thing to do for pictures and I guess they are trying to do normal things. Of course we can't all be BYGs but I don't think she's ever seen a camera she's hasn't pouted at. Sadly these things happen but if they are trying to get on with things fair play. The first birthday was always going to he about Lauren and honestly she could have cancelled but I think carrying on is the best thing rather than sit in with Charlie and labebe. Of course there's no photo opportunities by sitting in.
 
lamaitresse said:
We may be veering into dodgy territory again (though, I think a few posts have been removed?), sadly (being Captain Obvious for a second) it doesn't change the end result where baby Lorena is concerned. Would anyone trust Lauren to tell us what really happened, anyway? We might never know and no woman owes the world an explanation when such a tragedy occurs.

Maybe some posters think Tattle is an "anything goes" forum but I find most have a bit of self awareness and sensitivity. Of course people will speculate what happened but over-analysing a dead baby's photo (happened a few times now) and discussing it so flippantly makes me very uneasy.

I'm repeating myself, but I say things on Tattle I wouldn't be afraid to say to people's faces. There's no way I would talk about a grieving mum's photo or how she chooses to honour her baby. You're emotionally raw, depressed, your body is healing, hormones are all over the place.

I'm NOT thread-policing, people will say what they say, just glad that others are taking note.
What does bother me is Lauren's very recent behaviour - but - we all have different ways to grieve. Maybe this is her equivalent of "getting back to work / normality", as fucked up as it is. Think I overestimated how she would react!
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I'm sorry if you're talking about my post, I never meant to cause any upset ❤ to anyone who may have found my comment "flippant". It did come from a place of care, I'm sorry if it sounded otherwise.

I don't know how she did that party, I hope behind all the pouts and smiles, there is a genuine support system.
 
Yano said:
I understand its not what most people would do but do you want pictures of her crying and mourning? The type of people they are they will just move on quickly and that's it. Holding her friends bump is a normal thing to do for pictures and I guess they are trying to do normal things. Of course we can't all be BYGs but I don't think she's ever seen a camera she's hasn't pouted at. Sadly these things happen but if they are trying to get on with things fair play. The first birthday was always going to he about Lauren and honestly she could have cancelled but I think carrying on is the best thing rather than sit in with Charlie and labebe. Of course there's no photo opportunities by sitting in.
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No! No pictures at all! Because she asked for privacy and of course no one wants to see pictures of a crying, mourning mother. That would be beyond heartbreaking. Taking a picture of yourself would be the absolute last thing on your mind surely?!
 
roseturntupnose said:
I'm sorry if you're talking about my post, I never meant to cause any upset ❤ to anyone who may have found my comment "flippant". It did come from a place of care, I'm sorry if it sounded otherwise.

I don't know how she did that party, I hope behind all the pouts and smiles, there is a genuine support system.
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No, it wasn't yours - the comment (and replies to it) have been deleted. It's a member new to the threads (as far as I can tell, I've been posting pretty much since the beginning, on and off) who keeps commenting on the photo.
 
Yano said:
I understand its not what most people would do but do you want pictures of her crying and mourning? The type of people they are they will just move on quickly and that's it. Holding her friends bump is a normal thing to do for pictures and I guess they are trying to do normal things. Of course we can't all be BYGs but I don't think she's ever seen a camera she's hasn't pouted at. Sadly these things happen but if they are trying to get on with things fair play. The first birthday was always going to he about Lauren and honestly she could have cancelled but I think carrying on is the best thing rather than sit in with Charlie and labebe. Of course there's no photo opportunities by sitting in.
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I definitely do not want to see Lauren crying and in a state. I hope that if she is in a state she feels free to do that privately. Nobody is here to see her destroyed, I'm sure of that. Sometimes with other threads, i feel like a couple of posters want to see the subject on their knees. Thats not Scrunchies. Personally, I've Scrunched so long now that I actually have Lauren's best interests at heart. Sad but true :LOL:
 
ohshutupayourface said:
No! No pictures at all! Because she asked for privacy and of course no one wants to see pictures of a crying, mourning mother. That would be beyond heartbreaking. Taking a picture of yourself would be the absolute last thing on your mind surely?!
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In a perfect world of course but we all saw the Azaylia story of a family whoring out their grief. Still makes my stomach churn the things they posted. And the dancing in hospital with this poor baby while the father eye fucked the camera.

In this day and age everything is for Instagram with these certain types of people. And that's it. No it isn't normal. But they aren't normal...

bargainhunt99 said:
I've just realised. Lorena is almost an anagram of Lauren.
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It means Lauren in another language someone else posted 🤦‍♀️
 
Do u think he goes to the loo to chat and wank off and rate dicks with his customers. Obv the party back their place is/was still on two hours ago.
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